No day time fun in Durban

:welcome: there are a few fun folks in dbn.  You just have to read between the lines.  We very shy here

Most couples play at night If you are married or involved and you can only do daytime don't complain Its your loss.

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Im up for some daytime fun, upper highway area, couples, single female, lady playing alone (with /without partner knowing) 😈 

Knowing the GP life its save to say that KZN is a very difficult place,

Prunes is wide spread, nor to say that everyone is a prune but weighing up GP and the Cape you will find it hard for people in KZN to have some adult fun or just at least naked fun. Going to Adult clubs you will see what I mean. KZN is the only province that had a Adult club that closed down. Nudity is a shame, Going to the only two nude beaches you will if lucky only find one or two naked men. Every thing is done Hush Hush under the blanket.

If any one differ then sorry but that is my experience living in KZN for the last 8 years, If we want to enjoy ourselves we rather travel to JHB or CPT. From my experience Visiting some clubs and parties in KZN the past couple of years was a waist of time, the locals form a click and you are not welcome not even to talk about racism

Hi all traveling to DBN soon. Where's the nude beaches, and wheres the diving locations. I'm in the Hillcrest area, but it would be great to meet some peeps.

the elusive nudist beach, also can't seem to find them

hi Any couples want to join at Ansteys , my Lady is always horny. late night rendezvous..

Always amazes me how ppl moaning about a lack of a swinging lifestyle/community around them end up always speaking of and describing acts of reckless promiscuity and/or cheating on spouses as being what swinging is and what they looking for and expecting to find in droves, calling out swingers as the problem for being clique....

Problem isnt clique swingers Im afraid to say.

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Knowing the GP life its save to say that KZN is a very difficult place,

Prunes is wide spread, nor to say that everyone is a prune but weighing up GP and the Cape you will find it hard for people in KZN to have some adult fun or just at least naked fun. Going to Adult clubs you will see what I mean. KZN is the only province that had a Adult club that closed down. Nudity is a shame, Going to the only two nude beaches you will if lucky only find one or two naked men. Every thing is done Hush Hush under the blanket.

If any one differ then sorry but that is my experience living in KZN for the last 8 years, If we want to enjoy ourselves we rather travel to JHB or CPT. From my experience Visiting some clubs and parties in KZN the past couple of years was a waist of time, the locals form a click and you are not welcome not even to talk about racism

You are absolutely correct! You could not have said better

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Always amazes me how ppl moaning about a lack of a swinging lifestyle/community around them end up always speaking of and describing acts of reckless promiscuity and/or cheating on spouses as being what swinging is and what they looking for and expecting to find in droves, calling out swingers as the problem for being clique....

Problem isnt clique swingers Im afraid to say.

Cliques are a major problem in KZN. Regulars in certain clubs only speak with each other and only play with each other week in and week out. Newbies who visit feel so left out that they leave and never return. Major reason why clubs in KZN dont last. My favourite club is Sultry as the owners are hands on in introducing newbies to everyone. They make sure you feel welcome. They walk around the entire night making sure you are doing ok. Thats how you are supposed to run a lifestyle club especially when newbies and out-of-town visitors are nervous and dont know what to expect.

Sultry is awesome? Bwahahahahah🤣🤣🤣. The same place that knows their regulars are abusing woman, not conforming to consent rules, using drugs and alchohol to manipulate people and do nothing about it cause the ppl being complained about are the regular highrollers who pay their bills going every week. That Sultry? What a joke.

The same sultry that kicks you out if you wont have sex with strangers you dont know. Thata toxic as hell mate, not a healthy environment. Its a venue, their job is provide a safe space, not a space feel forced to interact with strangers you do want to when the whole point is having a place to hang out with my friends. The owner standing up and telling everyone if they arent willing to fuck everyone else, they not welcome, fuck no, sorry, thats not swinging and thats not what a venue is suppose to be about, thats anything but providing a safe space.

The reason the owners so 'nice' to newbies is cause you cattle to them, the product they providing to their regulars so they keep coming back each week, they dont have your interests at heart at all Im afraid.

A lived experience as well one we've found many we have met and made friends with have shared too. Sultry owners even acknowledged our complaint, saying the person we complained about a reputation for it and yet he has been allowed to keep going, we have since found out been many complaints for years but some people are more equal than others at that venue.

Wont ever recommend the place to friends ever, lesson learnt.