just wanted to find out from you lovely people at SH.
firstly.. does a massage turn most women on?
for the guys..
Do you give your ladies a regular massage and if so does it turn you on so much that the massage ends prematurely and you just wanna get inside of her or are you a patient kinda guy that takes his time?
Ladies, how do you like your massages? do you like being teased while being massaged or should we keep away from the "sensitive" for a "vanilla" massage?
theres just something about a massage that makes me rowdy - giving or receiving!
what are your thoughts?
Personally, I love a good massage. ... vanilla or not, keep 'em coming.
Oh now, a massage is one of the best ways into (pun) a lady. For me personally, attention to a whole body massage is the best way to get me as wet as I possibly can get. It is not only the relaxation that it causes but the intense attention given to me by the guy that causes this state. A full regular massage with strong hands, first the front, and then the back. On the front the regular muscular massage is nice, and covers on the naughty bits like in a real massage situation is more erotic, remember it is a very vunerable position for a woman full exposed, with hands slipping under the towels for a good breast and nipple massage is wonderful. Also just slipping over the mound between the legs without any further penetration makes for sexual pleasure which is heightened as it gets prolongued and the wait makes the final pleasure more acute. Then to turn over gives a sort of protective feeling and in a way a more naugty feeling as it is a bit more annonymous due to not being face to face. The same applies, a full muscular massge and then slowly while repeating it make forreays into her frobidden places. One of the best things I have ever felt in my life was a true pelvic massage. Not pelvic as in private parts, but the actual stress relief from the hip muscles and joints being massaged and gentle pressure applied. The tension release made me ready for anything, even the forbidden anal..
It is also to be mentioned this complete attension is not required everytime for sex, as a lovely no-foreplay surprise quicky while youre cooking in the kitchen and bent over and entered is great!. But this type of full attention, time taken, full stress relief, erotic tension buster will lead to the type of full control you might be looking for over a woman. And one more thing. while you do massge her, tell her what you find beautiful about her, or how soft and smooth it feels to run your hands over her, etc.. if she is precious to you, even for just that time you are with her, tell her, it will be rewarded in every way,. Adn if more men did this, fewer would be single and would be having sex...
Massages must be with candle light, nice red wine, and a long evening. Yes when massages her i not put fingers in until she beg for more pressure down under. Sometimes we not give enough time on the legs and feet.
O whats better than a big fire in the winter and warm solution on her back and tummy.
candle light is a must just sets the mood..
i brush her naughty parts slightly but never focus on them until i can feel her wanting some attention there.
thanks for the info / advice :)
