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Flirting!!!!!!!!!

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There is 2 forums to flirt with people, well, I always thought you flirted with anyone and everyone, But NOPE you flirt with the *straight* and the *Gay* people in separate forums. Now why would I do that If I AM A self proclaimed PAN SEXUAL Woman?? Now do not rush and Google Pan-sexual, it only means I love anyone and everybody. I do not mind what your sexual orientation is...be it straight ...bisexual...or gay... Or you being a cross dresser. Yip sure you get women and men who likes to dress up in the other genders clothes but that does NOT make them gay odd or anything. I dare the men to JUST try to keep your ladies silk panties on for a morning and then come back to me and TELL me you did not like it. I will NOT believe you except if you wore a thong or lace or to small a panty!!! So make sure the silky panty at least fit you. Only thing you will come back to say is *sheesh lady, I wanted to *cum* the whole time...I was so aroused*.....yebo!!! I DARE YOU GUYS. But I am going of topic as usual..I want to talk about flirting. WHAT makes a good flirt??? a beautiful woman or sexy Adonis of a man??? I think not,it is your average woman and gent who is the best,they use what talents they have to get your heat pumping and your tummy to turn over and you to sit up straight and notice them. I do a lot of people watching...just go sit and watch how they walk talk and move and sit...their facial expression and body language is dead give away`s and the best flirts do it with out thinking. It is in the direct eye contact from lowered eyes,the fluttering of eyelashes,the slow open smile, the raised eyebrows,the touching of hair,the way you cross your legs the open way you stand and lean towards someone, movements of hands over their bodies and the incidental little touches you give. Well there is more of course,like dressing sexy,and smelling great,looking your best and a really looked after pair of hands gets me every timesmile Then there is the little provocative words you throw around...the flattering..BUT that I personally do not always like....but it helps. So people what attracts you to a certain person that you will say he or she is a good flirt??? And do not forget my dare Okay!!
My wife wears only cotton so thats out Years ago I walked past a very well known long distance runner, she was actually not very beautiful or well built, small and skinny, but she looked me in the eye and half smiled. She was the most beautiful person I have ever seen and now twenty years later I still remeber that smile
@ Voyer... Nothing STOPS you to go shopping you know , some sexy silky soft panty for your lovey....but you wear it first and let her know you doing it......FOR her pleasure off course..... so WHAT is stopping you????
Maybe someday I will see a nice pair of panties I dont even wear under pants
Whoopee !!!!! a man after me own heart!!!!!!! NO undies going commando??? oh boy!!!! I find that very sexy smile But yeah try the silky feeling slippin and slidin against your most sensitive parts and tell me what you feel:)When ever you can:)
Tried on her cotton undies last night in the bathroom just to see you know It was sticking out of all the holes
EERMMMM there is *holes* in your ladies cotton panties???? NO way!!!! It is then high time she GETS some real soft silky SEXY undies !!!!!! LMAO Sorry just teasing, the privates slipping out the sides huh?? you need to push them either between your legs to the back...or lift them up towards your stomach, Me thinks...smile BUT cotton is NOT what I like to wear,it has to be slinky and soft...to get that soft slippery feeling all over your cock and balls.. Please you can buy some at Woolies, just go check them out, it need not cost the earth !! Just being nosy, did lovey see you putting on her panties??
She would laugh at me I think I will suggest she buy me a pair or more, starting to get interested She just must not get the idea that I am a crossdresser
LOL let her read this forum smile and all is explained!!! I hope to see a pic of you in that sexy undies :)
Will see how it goes She is not into this writing and blogging stuff Wants the real thing for herself and cant understand why I love chatting and reading about other peoples experiances
Years ago during my varsity days. I used to have many lady friends. We used to go out together and just hang out. The one time my friends and I decided to go to the mall and go to milky lane for a few milk shakes. So there I was sitting with my friends. Just opposite me was a open bar. A hot looking lady and her husband came to sit at the bar and they ordered drinks. I did not notice at first. My friends noticed that lady staring at me. They told me about it. So then I started looking at her. She had this short skirt on and was having a cocktail drink with a straw. Her husband could not see what is happening as his back was facing us. To my surprise this lady pulled a Sharon Stone scene from Basic Instinct in front of me. I could see right through her skirt and she was not wearing a panty. She was very inviting. Nevertheless my lady friends also saw and were shocked. They were not impressed and they told me that we must leave and one of them was going to act as if she was my girlfriend just to show that lady I am taken. Oh what a missed opportunity. If I was alone then maybe I could have acted on it. But my lady friends did not give me a chance. I can only imagine what could have happened. I guess eye contact plays an important role in flirting. But also body language plays an important role. I also notice that women like to look at a good looking guy even if he is just the average guy. The only thing is the guy needs to create the opportunity for the lady to act. Lots of ladies like a confident guy. And some guys have that way of showing their confidence that attracts a lady.
Wow what a memoir!!! I guess those lady friends of yours sure felt threatened and girlish against a woman. No wonder they dragged you away and not enjoyed the encounter themselves.
A mature woman beats everything anytime A friend of mine has a very beautiful and sexy daughter and a pretty overweight wife I choose the mother any day, the daughter is to look at
I wish I could go back to that day, minus the girlfriends. It would have been great. I agree mature women are sexy any day. They have this confidence about themselves that make them so sexy. Any mature women that is interested? I am yours if you will have me. PIB. You can have me anytime.
There is something "electric" to flirting... when its mutual and happening. I remember two women especially: The first one was a while ago at the Waterfront one evening, we were all standing around at a restaurant with load music from a band and people were dancing and chatting and having a lot of fun. Then there was this girl, or eyes locked and it was as if an electric shock went through my body... and she reacted with a lot of body language, touching her hair, smiling etc and then it happened that we passed each other (both having partners) and our hands touched - obviously both wanted to do it...and it was like an electric shock! wow....thats flirting! Just last week, we were having sushi at a restaurant and this stunning women and her hubby came to sit near to us...again... our eyes locked and she smiled...and never stopped... it sent shivers down my spine... and when we left... she gave me a very special smile and goodbye look and whispered it without her hubby seeing it...wow... she was special, sexy and smart! To flirt is the next best thing to real sex!
@myDream Your closing statement "To flirt is the next best thing to real sex!"- the absolute truth! Thx for your contribution, as the same happened to me once, and I still nurture the 'small, but moment of strange excitement' encounter!
Ha! and you girls say it's a man's world... clearly we girls hold all the cards..... :twisted: :twisted: lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted: :twisted: LeeEC
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Ha! and you girls say it's a man's world... clearly we girls hold all the cards.....
:twisted: :twisted: lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :twisted: :twisted:
LeeEC

Ha! You're absolutely right - girls rule! :lol:
It's a wonderful feeling if you're holding the cards and I can peep over your shoulder "to try and see your cards" wink
Well, Flirting comes in many forms and it depends on the woman who responds when a man flirts. I like a woman that has a bit of an attitude, and comes back quickly with a chirp. and is a bit hard to get. it puts up the challenge.
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Well,
Flirting comes in many forms and it depends on the woman who responds when a man flirts.
I like a woman that has a bit of an attitude, and comes back quickly with a chirp. and is a bit hard to get.
it puts up the challenge.

He likes a challenge does he?
PIB, have fun!
So tell us then, if flirting is an art, involving eye movements, body language, facial expression and so forth, is it easier to flirt in person or online?
How do you think flirting changes when online?
Quote by jimmyjim
Well,
Flirting comes in many forms and it depends on the woman who responds when a man flirts.
I like a woman that has a bit of an attitude, and comes back quickly with a chirp. and is a bit hard to get.
it puts up the challenge.

He likes a challenge does he?
PIB, have fun!
So tell us then, if flirting is an art, involving eye movements, body language, facial expression and so forth, is it easier to flirt in person or online?
How do you think flirting changes when online?
Trick question? With words?
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Trick question?
With words?

Yes well, but that would require a completely diifferent skill set then wouldn't it?
Perhaps one which those flirters PIB describes, might not have?
So are some people great flirters online, but not as good in person?
And maybe vice versa?
Another (t..) question? good in person? Did I get it right?
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Another (t..) question?
good in person? Did I get it right?

Who is to say - you haven't offered us any insights or commentary on your technique yet...
Any references available?
All jokes (chirping) aside. Real flirting and online flirting does need diff set of skills. Although I don't flirt (apart from acknowledging the odd quick look, etc.) I'm hugely intrigued to people's (especially from ladies - because sometimes the normal conversation sounds a bit ranty) skill to chirp and more intelligently so!
MattLeeEC, I am sorry I did not keep up with all the forums, I will try and give you a decent answer on real life flirt and online flirting and what my own views is on that,later tonight.
Here is my views on flirting online and in real life. Seduction and flirting does NOT come easy to me personally, I am far more adapt to flirt with words online and taking time to think. I am also more at ease to flirt and seduce when I know someone and are ALONE with him or her. Crowded places makes me uneasy. That is why I love people watching on how they go about it. Lucky for us women who is not natural flirts men are easy(sorry to all you males, but it is true) I know a few women who just have that *oomph* effect on men. To me they do not seem to do something special to attract men , but they do attract them like flies. I love to make someone feel special to me, I do little things to make their visit with me special,I will prepare the room we at to play in and use extra special lotions and candles and such. I also try and do some *mind* seduction,and let them know they are the special person I am thinking of. Not to say the physical body preparation I do to make me more appealing. Like just us women can do. In that way I envy men,they have things easy. Shave, wear a Jean and shirt and just make certain their hands and feet and nails are clean and they are ready to come play. We women are more likely to pamper ourselves before any play to have that extra silky skin, soft shining hair,and waxed to perfection. Have a manicure and pedicure. Even go out to buy that special little nothings to and make-up and some *Fuck-me-shoes*....... Seduction is work,to us poor women who has shitty voices,and looks. So yeah if you are a natural flirt count yourself lucky and blessed.