We are a young couple but we have been sexually active
With each other for about 8years now , we have not introduced anyone new into our bedroom. We are not ready
For full swapping maybe just watching and same room sex
For now we are still very unsure about how to spice up of "bedroom "
We also contemplating going to parties or clubs for adults but dont want to feel too young to
Be doing this
Could couples out there give us
Advice or suggestions on what we could do to make things more exciting
Thanks
S&K
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Don't stress on to much detail, be yourself and join people and go with the flow.
Only advise, its only you who can decide where are your boundaries, but forget about age, experience, looks and what people going to think.
People in the lifestyle will lead you, only asked and asked the party host to introduce you and to show you around.
And remember women rules.
Every are nervous even the old lifestyle-rs
Hope it help
Welcome to SH.. and I just want to add to Adonis writing....
REMEMBER YOU have the right to say NO to anything you do not like! and you have the right to leave at anytime, you need not do anything you are not ready to do, you should know you are not to be pressured into anything you are not willing to do.
and as in any club situation Keep your open drinks with you at all times, and rather insist on drinking out of cans or the bottles if possible when it is opened directly UNDER your watchful eyes.
Also go read anything you can find on the net and here on the left hand side under information about hwat swing is about and what is expected of you guys and what you can expect.
and do shout in for help BUT post it under the *Anything goes* forum....
