Hi guys--we a mature happily married ind cpl-46/44-well groomed upmrkt and gd looking. Now we new to this and want to venture into soft swinging wth likeminded cpls.. Discretion of utmost importance. We like to knw as to where would similar cpls be found--da --what are the clubs like silvr stilletto/kiwi club like(discreet/safe--wil we find likeminded cpls etc)---hey guys we an eager down to earth funloving cpl jst wanting to explore this lovely sexciting soft lifestyle----C OUR P/File----PLS ADVISE