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Hi there Voyer, please excuse me for replying without properly introducing myself to this site. I will do so on another occation but in the meantime I feel that I'd like to respond as it probably is the reason I'm on this site.
My encounter happened quite by accident. A male friend of mine was in the process of emigrating to the US of A, we'd taken over the lease on his house and he was living with us as his wife had already left.
Well all was going happily along until my life partner mentioned to me that (I shall call him Bruce to avoid any poo,lol) had been making suggestions to her. She asked me please to not make a scene as we were both fond of him and he had been intoxicated at the time. Well my first reaction was anger as one gets so tired or guys disrespecting relationships. Then I thought about it a bit and realising how many times this awful thing called jealousy had ruined things I decided to try a different approach. I decided to be honest with her and ask her how she felt about it. She said to be truthful she felt quite flattered and it had excited her a bit. Huh.. boy did I have some mixed emotions here but I thought what the heck, in for a penny.... I explained to her my plan and she agreed but was a bit hesitant as she was worried about me not being able to handle it aftrwards.
So I confronted Bruce, at first he tried to deny it then realising that was making her out to be a liar became very apologetic. I explained to him how I felt about it and we set a date for the next evening
Sorry, I'm going to have to do this in parts as I'm using my phone and I'm running out of text! apologies for the inconvenience.
The next day being Saturday, my Lady and myself went for a walk up the mountain (we lived in Gordon's Bay at the time). We sat down for a breather and started discussing the upcoming even that evening. I asked her if she still wanted to go through with it and in reply she placed my hand between her legs, she was soaking wet, we had the most passionate, lust filled sex right there only to be brought back to reality by applause, a group of varsity students had stumbled upon us.. and there I was with my face all shiny and wet with her juices..lol but we didn't care we all had a good hearted laugh and went our own ways.
That evening wondering if it was still going to happen as we hadn't seen Bruce the entire day, he suddenly burst in say 'Please let's do this' all nervous and excited.
Well turns out my beautiful lady is quite the exhibitionist, she gave us quite a little show before we got down to the actual business, I will spare you all the gooey details except that the feeling I had while she was lying on my lap, with me kissing and caressing her as she was cumming while he was pumping in and out of her was pure love and admiration and pride for my this beautiful lovely lady that has shared her love with me. She is a treasure that I will always be thankful for.
What started off in jealousy ended up opening my eyes to so much, we can never own our partners, they love us for who we are. We earn their love and respect by giving them love and respect and I am only too happy to share her lust with anyone she chooses.
I'd like to thank all the people like you and PiB who give so truthfully and freely of yourselves on this site who know the difference between love and good old lusty sex. Go well!
Now that is a reply, we need more of them
I am sure you have had many more lustfull sharing encounters
Myself, I am so hooked on this that I do not need any other woman but my wife and that proud loving feeling when she fucks another man and I get to suck the results out of her pussy
We tried the parties and foursomes but it does not work for me, I have only one interest and that is my wife that I love more every time it happens
Alas life is not one long orgy, we would be worn out, she needs and loves being seduced and that can take time and she is not in a hurry as she has two lovers that she invites home whenever they are in our area. Hopefully meeting both of them this week,
Actually no, we had two more encounters with Bruce but he put an end to it, he felt we were using that hey. He triggered the whole thing and didn't consider the fact that he'd be using my partner! But I'm happy to report that we all remain the best of friends to this day. It in fact brought the three of us closer and I know that he would be there for her and he did in fact become very protective of her in the company of other predators. Strange life this is we live..lol
Unfortunately he now lives in the old USA but we keep in touch as best we can.
As to future, what can I say, this is why I joined this site and so far I'm glad I did. I will report back after if you'd like?!
Much power to all the Ladies out there that spoil us so!!
I hope your meetings work out for you, the anticipation is almost as good as the even..lol
Enjoy, dare I say friend?!
A pity he left, long term partners are a blessing, it can be nerve racking to meet someone new all the time although the excitement of a new cock for a cock counter like me is like a drug
Have you told her what it she makes you feel like when she has another man, you need to let her understand this as she does not want to spoil your marriage with extra marital sex
Hope you meet another lover for her
In the beginning years she still worked and had plenty opportunities of seducing and beeing seduced, she was so subtle that you would find yourself between her legs wondering how that happened, and would have six or eight new cocks a year.
Now maybe one every five years as we live out of the way. Luckily she still has two lovers, one has been a friend for twelve years, the other five years and if my luck is good they will both be popping by this week, one at a show we are going to and there she will be having an opportunity for a "skelmpie", her favourite activity
Hi Voyer,
Please keep us updated?! I love just knowing that something like this is going on...! We go about our "normal lives", invariably without knowing about the exciting stuff that's actually going on behind some of the "ordinary" faces, in other people's lives. And my guess is that there's a lot of "naughty stuff" happening out there, that most people would never mention. It's great to be able to get a glimpse of the naughty stuff now and then (that's the voyeur in me!), and be reminded that there's probably a whole lot of the naughty stuff happening even in the lives of friends and other people that we know, that we are just totally unaware of. Thanks for sharing so candidly, as you do.
To Terry, welcome to the site! Look forward to more of your contributions!
Warming the Bed
Hmmm, you guys make me think. My wife isnt interested in the swinging scene - BUT - twice now she was overwhelmed at two occasions when an attractive guy complemented her and really bowled her over! she admits they just tickled her fancy and maybe just too shy to make the mind leap.
I will have to explore this one further and maybe she may want something like this and i am just to happy to share her.
Warming the Bed
Cheryl and I are not married to one another. In fact, both of us are single - me 14 years, she 4 years. We are fantastic fuck buddies as well as the best of mates. All the other stuff which makes a perfect swining couple apply: trust, trust, trust, and being very comfortable with who we are - addicted to sex!!
Our biggest turn on for each other is the erotic buzz it gives us watching each other pleasuring and being pleasured (read properly fucked) by and with other people.
Share the joy!!
Forum Virgin
I am a married idian woman and would love if my hubby wouldswap and let other big cocks fuck me only problem is he s too jealous. I dont mind him screwing around and i dont know how to get him into it. I really want to have ahuge cock in me
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Is this not referred to as cuckolding?
Huge in the US and UK.
Ultimate fanatsy of mine too!! Would love to watch my wife fuck others while I wank. Fuck her after she is full of other mens cum!!! :twisted:
Indeed, cuckoldry.. but from the sites I can find it appears that there is the idea that the husband should be humiliated or degraded somehow during the process.... this is not what we had in mind....
I could not ever contribute to this forum as I am not in the position to do so.
But yeah, cuckolding is more a situation where the gent feels humiliated due to his wife`s infidelity.
It can also happen where it is your girlfriend or fiance,so it need not just be your wife.
I have seen and read overtime,that us South Africans takes a *word* and make it our own with our own little definition.
You might find people here talk about cuckolding as a fantasy/reality,but meaning they LIKE to watch and know.
Just as you will find *Dogging* in South-Africa is NOT the same as it is in other countries..
I am a single guy, that has a significant amount of swinging experience.
A very large majority of my experiences have been in mfm three somes, and most of those have entailed the husband wantin to watch his wife with me. In a few of these, the husband will beg me to cream pie the wife so he can lick my cum out. And i must say, for me, this is a huge turn on. And it seems it is for the husbands as well as much for me and the wives. A large number of them, go so far as to allow the wife and i to play alone while he is away or st work, as long as he gets pics and or a phone call to listne in. I dont kind this at all.
The husbands and wives tell, e that they have the most amazing sex when he gets home, knowing that i have been with her, and at times, knowing that whem he eats her out, my cum is there for him to taste.
I enjoy this emmensly, just a thought from a single guys perspective.
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I am a single guy, that has a significant amount of swinging experience.
A very large majority of my experiences have been in mfm three somes, and most of those have entailed the husband wantin to watch his wife with me. In a few of these, the husband will beg me to cream pie the wife so he can lick my cum out. And i must say, for me, this is a huge turn on. And it seems it is for the husbands as well as much for me and the wives. A large number of them, go so far as to allow the wife and i to play alone while he is away or st work, as long as he gets pics and or a phone call to listne in. I dont kind this at all.
The husbands and wives tell, e that they have the most amazing sex when he gets home, knowing that i have been with her, and at times, knowing that whem he eats her out, my cum is there for him to taste.
I enjoy this emmensly, just a thought from a single guys perspective.
I agree and absolutely relate to the enjoyment part!
- thx for your perspective! Quote by samanthazack
I am a married idian woman and would love if my hubby wouldswap and let other big cocks fuck me only problem is he s too jealous. I dont mind him screwing around and i dont know how to get him into it. I really want to have ahuge cock in me
And you dont mess around at all?
Quote by Dogging
I am a married idian woman and would love if my hubby wouldswap and let other big cocks fuck me only problem is he s too jealous. I dont mind him screwing around and i dont know how to get him into it. I really want to have ahuge cock in me
And you dont mess around at all?
Dogging, am I missing something? :confused: :confused:
Quote by Gerrie2012
I am a married idian woman and would love if my hubby wouldswap and let other big cocks fuck me only problem is he s too jealous. I dont mind him screwing around and i dont know how to get him into it. I really want to have ahuge cock in me
And you dont mess around at all?
Dogging, am I missing something? :confused: :confused:
Yes Gerrie i nwas asking Samanthazack if she does not mess around behind hubbies back as she allows hime fun , but she says his jealous
Quote by Dogging
I am a married idian woman and would love if my hubby wouldswap and let other big cocks fuck me only problem is he s too jealous. I dont mind him screwing around and i dont know how to get him into it. I really want to have ahuge cock in me
And you dont mess around at all?
Dogging, am I missing something? :confused: :confused:
Yes Gerrie i nwas asking Samanthazack if she does not mess around behind hubbies back as she allows hime fun , but she says his jealous
Ok! I understand - no offense intended!
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My hubby didn't share me...that's y he was pissed wen he found me naked with his 3 poker buddies
You should know, and I know you have been told this before. You really don't sound like a real person.
That or you just get off on teasing people with salacious comments, and have no intention of actually hooking up with anyone on here
I know lots of people give an impression of themselves online that they don't really intend so I hope this note is helpful rather than offending because that is not my intention.
I chatted with a guy yesterday who had no idea that with the slip of the mouse during sign up he had listed himself as bi-curious!
Happens all the time....
Seeing as I am single, I am not in the position to share my wife, as I do not have one...
With that said, I am fortunate to have been the guy with whom the wife was shared with on a couple of occasions.
I have thoroughly enjoyed these experiences and to see the absolute look of bliss on her face, and his for that matter, made me realise that if it is done for the right reasons, there cant be much wrong with sharing your wife.
I am relatively new to the site and decided to start participating in the forums rather than just reading.
Apologies if the writing style is somewhat not right in terms of commenting in forums, any tips will be greatly appreciated.
Pieter a.k.a. FunInPE
