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Wife may have had a change of mind

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So when this exploration all started, the wife loved it, was keen, replied to mails, loved showing her pics of us etc. We role played and used fantasies others sent to us. Never actually swopped partners or had same room sex. To this day we still play in this fashion therefore soft swinging. I have suggested we take it to the next step but she is shying away. Basically I asked her to either go dogging when males could watch her/us and jerk off with soft touching or males watching us in a Club, all safe secure. She says no but when we play out these fantasies, she loves it!! Any advice on how I should handle this will be appreciated. I personally would love to see her or others get off on her, huge fantasy of mine. Major turn on!! I have told her this.
Perhaps meet someone first let her get to know see if she would be comfortable with that person watching however this could go either the wrong person could have the opposite effect.
You do not say if you guys went out to some socials and parties and clubs?? Maybe you should start of there, sit and watch how others play and maybe meet some real life people there,NOT playing as such just people watch. There is also some good forums about how to introduce your wife to swing..posted by joesoap4u...just go browse his forums and the comments made.
Hi Thanks for the response guys, we have visited Clubs and still do, but she choses to play, just us, in pvt rooms.
See who she likes and get him to seduce her My wife likes that and a skelmpie, she must just be aware that you support her in anything she does and not that you are on this site to get into other woman Enjoy it
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See who she likes and get him to seduce her
My wife likes that and a skelmpie, she must just be aware that you support her in anything she does and not that you are on this site to get into other woman
Enjoy it

Thank you, it is quite the opposite, I just want to satisfy her to the max I can. give her the ultimate in pleasure.
That is my kind of thing as well, hope you come right, it is great fun