Warming the Bed
We are all in the lifestyle and know we must be discreet as we don't want all the judgemental people to know or our fam and coleages. So if u start to chat be kind enough to reply with pics if u ask. To see faceepic
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Why do people think their identity is more important to keep
Warming the Bed
I am talking bout face pics not nude pics gerrie
When you are about to meet, it makes sense to send face pics beforehand, just so you know who you are meeting up with... You can't exactly match a crotch pic to real people at a coffee shop ;)
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C Warming the Bed
Pib1 I wana hear what's ur coment lol
Sexpert
i generally feel those unwilling to share face pics are fake , yes one would need to keep them separate from nude pics so they are not able identify all todays social media our pics ie day to day pics are all you have your image on google talk or bbm or whats app people have access to it so i see no harm in posting it in a pvt gallery where u can choose who has access to one has reached the stage of a possible meeting then sending/inviting someone to your face pic is a logical step ...i would think.
Well some people think it is the end of the world to send a face pic, but a person must respect other peoples ideas and excuses, may it be lam some times! But it general some people do not put or send their face pic's because of their line of work. We our self's meet a love cpl in Dec and they did not put any face pic's no the system because one was a cop and the other a .... well let me not same just now people put 1 and 1 together. Let me just say for a cop it can course major problems and for the other person just as must problems. So for some people not to send face pic's a person MUST understand or try and understand.
Joyrider
You must tolerant the good and the bad 
@ Valdonumuller I am humbled, I just want to point out that my comments and opinions are my own and IT MIGHT be very WRONG and not always kosher.
I have to fully agree on what people who made comments here said.
Face pics is a choice people have to show or not to. Hell even body shots really.
Face photo`s are a high risk of *outing* people in say *Government Jobs*who can then have nasty repercussions for them. heck I know of people in the private sector that was shunned and nearly lost their business, because someone nasty who was rejected by them, sent a photo to a newspaper in PE a few years ago.
I also believe on only sending a face photo to someone YOU are about to meet.
I personally never give photos of my face to casual people whom I exchange mails with. FOR that I am far to paranoid.
But those people whom has verified me, has met me personally and can vouch that I am whom I say I am.
Warming the Bed
Thanx all u lovely people for coments and views. Can I sketch u a scenario. Me and my gf have been chating to a so called couple for quit some time and we were planing to meet but the couple refused to send a pic and we canceled.
Oh boy, I would say they are then NOT whom they said they were,and you guys did right by canceling the meeting.
If these people are true to the usual BS`ers...they would not have shown up at the meeting aswell, in anycase.
So yeah the canceling the meeting is the best thing you guys have done.
But do not loose faith,keep on trying, here are great people to meet!!!
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Nice topic
When you are about to meet, it makes sense to send face pics beforehand, just so you know who you are meeting up with... You can't exactly match a crotch pic to real people at a coffee shop ;)
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C
That's precisely what happens to all my meets - exchange face pics and then the meet. The ones that did not exchange any pics also did not show up at the meet - it happened to me and I'm a fast learner!!
Crotch pics only follow after the first meet!
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