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why are so few cples into single women and not single men
Sex God
I really can't wait to hear the responses to this post . . . . . .
Maybe it's because the guys of couples REALLY want to see two chicks go at it?
Or maybe when it's because when you say "variety" to a man he thinks "more pussy than I can shake my dick at"
And when you say "variety" to a woman she thinks "something other than dick, something ive never tried before..."
Maybe it's proof that size isn't what matters. Or maybe every women truly believes that if she had the chance she would put you all to shame in the muffing department, so she wants to prove it. So step back boy and give her room to do it ok?!
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Master of Sex
I know out of experience that some single men are just over eager and desperate to get laid. Sorry guys that u have to pay for another stupid guys sins.
Also with couples what i have seen is a woman will rather feel the need to please her partner/hubby and do the girl on girl thing.
What i have noticed that some guys want to do weird stuff cos its not their wife, that will maybe degrade or leave the female of the couple felling disrespected.
But hey thats just what i have seen personally.
Casanova
Quote by Sofistikitty
I know out of experience that some single men are just over eager and desperate to get laid. Sorry guys that u have to pay for another stupid guys sins.
Also with couples what i have seen is a woman will rather feel the need to please her partner/hubby and do the girl on girl thing.
What i have noticed that some guys want to do weird stuff cos its not their wife, that will maybe degrade or leave the female of the couple felling disrespected.
But hey thats just what i have seen personally.
I do think that makes sense a bit.
I did not answer this forum previously,as I was not sure what was asked here.
1) If you are asking *why* couples would not like a second male but prefer a second lady...I think you got a lot of good answers from sofistikitty and Erotic_Nauti and leeEC
But...
2) If you are asking why men are hesitant to play and have sex together in front of ladies , then I do have a few view points to make.
Most men are scared to be labeled /or thought of as gay. and that is why most men will NOT admit to being bi-sexual or bi-curious
Some women are NOT really that liberal to watch and ENJOY when two men have sex.
Here I cannot say why,but I find it very discriminating of them.....they would not mind playing with ladies but would not like to see their hubby enjoying another male.
Some are just to insecure in their own sexual abilities and might think the males are a threat to them....heck some ladies find other ladies a threat for that matter.
I know, I myself THINK another male GIVES way better head than what I ever could...he at least KNOW what males like and not like we ladies know what ladies like....
I like to watch men play.
Some might, like always ,disagree with me and they are more than welcome to give their opinions...
From experiance I know that most men originally join to get some more pussy but as they go along they realise that it is actually fun
About being scared the other guy is bigger than you, well most probably but for me the biggest pleasue is seeing my wife enjoy a really thick cock, so much so that I loose interest in the other woman and for that reason we do not swing as such but only do threesomes
About the bi or gay thing it is nonsence, we have never had any problems with that because unless this is set up as a bi meeting all the attention is on my wife
Quote by Voyer1105
About the bi or gay thing it is nonsence, we have never had any problems with that because unless this is set up as a bi meeting all the attention is on my wife
You mean In YOUR experience, in YOUR marriage, for YOU it is not true - you can't say that is true of every man out there
Casanova
I tend to agree to voyer.
I am a bi man and have had a few encounters with couples. I am not well endowed and not the smallest either but that has never put me off or the couple for that matter. I have played with bi couples and straight couples. When we meet we set our boundaries and what we expect from each other. Not once have I or the other man wanted to play or touch each other.
Quote by LeeEC
Maybe ........
Or maybe every women truly believes that if she had the chance she would put you all to shame in the muffing department, so she wants to prove it. So step back boy and give her room to do it ok?!
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I just stepped back :eeek: ........ Mmmmmmmm, I agree she's good - love to see ladies working each other!
My preference would be (once we are at that point) to get an extra cock into our relationship, BUT my lady will rule.
Again to stay true to this thread and the original posting - I believe it's the majority of males in the couple that want the single lady in a play, as it's easier to get his lady to participate and off course, the hot atmosphere of the girl-on-girl action!??
I must say that after a bit of thinking about what the different people have written here, I have come to the conclusion that there are many different reasons indeed.
I also think that the way so called "society" has decided that girl on girl is ok, but man on man not so much is a big part of it.
Both the male and the female have a mind, a mind which allows them to make a decision, such a pity it's often based on what society has had to say about things. Why should a man be called a stud if he jumps around a bit, but a woman is labelled a "beep" for doing exactly the same thing?
Sexpert
i like women, they turn me their heads right down to their toes . i love the feel taste and touch of a women's body and as anyone who has met me knows ...i love boobies 
.so the sight of two ladies is double the don't turn me on so i wouldn't go out looking to find two thought doesn't freak me out , its just not my bag.
.so the sight of two ladies is double the don't turn me on so i wouldn't go out looking to find two thought doesn't freak me out , its just not my bag. Quick answer:
Its because women are usually much more picky. With single guys its a case of "you never know where its been"
Long Answer:
In addition to the above, A happily married man has proven himself capable of being sensitive enough to the needs of his wife to keep her happy. With his proven track record, I'd be more willing to trust him with my wife.
Remember, women are often more delicate than men (we're not talking about ego's )
Whether a women is single or married there's not too much that she can do to that could lead to a traumatic sexual experience for me.
That said, we don't really want singles at all - be they men or women.
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Whether a women is single or married there's not too much that she can do to that could lead to a traumatic sexual experience for me.
That said, we don't really want singles at all - be they men or women. 