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i have mixed reactions to this as woman are used to mainly only a few partners i have been called small by some and yet adequite by others ... some even to say that im much larger than most of their lovers. i understand that the porn industry goes for the larger specimans but im curious as to see what woman really expect and are satisfied with? yes this is once again the same old debate that men have but even though i used to be "concerned" "aware of my short cummings acording to the porn indusrty the older i have gotten the less relevent it is, i have a kid and thats all that matters is that it works!.... is this this so with other guys?
I doubt people will ever agree on a number. Everyone has their own thoughts and expectations passed on their history, with that comes various connotations for various sizes. Basically to me it comes down to French fries, every shop has their own medium fries. There's nothing wrong with, so long as you leave satisfied.
Yes yes yes yes . . . BUT, Most women will leave the French fry shop "satisfied" but human nature will ultimately leave them wanting a little more, a little crispier, a little less this, a little more that. They will say "it doesn't matter" and they do this mostly because unlike the male of the species they have some kind of grasp on manners and what is of what level of importance. As the male of the species, we should maybe learn to accept the fact that in all likely hood there was someone 'bigger' than us in there before . . . . . but, be reasonable (to yourself) there was also someone 'smaller' than you in there before wink
I've been thinking I should write a guide to "The best positions for your shape and size: Wow your partner by using your natural gifts in the best way possible!" I recently gave some really specific (to him) feedback to a playmate... he was like "wow?! really? My shape is great for Gspot stimulation in doggy style? I never knew that!" I thought it was odd no-one had ever said as much to him... but then how many women are as blunt and to-the-point about sex as me.... well I only know one... (and that comment comes with a "What'sup!?" to my gorgeous joies sex-guru mate - you know who you are lol so sad I didn't get to visit this year!) Heh heh... So boys submit your shape size, curve and terrain (with images) to me by PM and I'll try give you feedback smile if you're brave enough... and you can tell me how accurate I was once you test it out - here!
I want to add to this age old question by asking another... What is it about size specifically that is impressive to women? Is it that it feels better? Does it bring better orgasms? Is it because a big one gives the illusion that he is "more of a man"? Is it just because it looks impressive? What about a big penis makes it so desirable? With us men, it's easy... We like a nice small and tight Vajayjay because it is "squeezy" and "frictiony" and that is what ultimately brings us to climax...
For what reason will a so called bigger women not be "squeezy" and "frictiony", i personal think its an insult to women on the bigger size. If the statement is right, i am so sorry for the smaller women giving birth, because the so called women can pop it out. Women are sexy and pretty on there own way, its what inside and not outside. Women are :thumbup::thumbup::thumbup::thumbup::thumbup: :taz::taz::taz::taz::taz::taz::taz::taz::taz:
Adonis - I think you need to read Stamina's post again - NOBODY SAID ANYTHING about the size of the women.
Sorry if i mention Stamina's name
With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness. This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina. This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis. ;) C
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Adonis - I think you need to read Stamina's post again - NOBODY SAID ANYTHING about the size of the women.

Thanks Lee. You obviously understood my post in context.
I never mentioned or implied any size of a person. My reference was to "tightness"...
My question still stands... What exactly is the hype about size? The question is more aimed that those that advertise specifically for "well hung" males. I an really curios of it is a mindset or is there actually physical enjoyment with larger size?
I ask because I consider myself average. 17cm in length and girth is basically such that the average female with average sized hands can not touch thumb to fingers when grasping it... So not at all "well hung" but definitely not in the category of "small". My lady says it is "quite big" and when I have serious wood (like a morning erection) then it is too long and hurts with depth.
So again, curiosity from a man that has never really heard "OMG it's huge!" or "shame, it's tiny"...
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With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
Wait for KC uitkak as well, because she also read something wrong
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Wait for KC uitkak as well, because she also read something wrong

What are you on about?
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With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
It's all about how you use what you've got... :twisted:
Quote by KC_
With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
It's all about how you use what you've got... :twisted:
yes indeed,
just a pity one cant use it more often wink
Quote by SDMR
With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
It's all about how you use what you've got... :twisted:
yes indeed,
just a pity one cant use it more often wink
That, my friend, is why the good Lord gave us the long arms... :lol:
Quote by Stamina
With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
It's all about how you use what you've got... :twisted:
yes indeed,
just a pity one cant use it more often wink
That, my friend, is why the good Lord gave us the long arms... :lol:
So what is this @Stamina? confessions of a wanker? :twisted:
Quote by SDMR
With regards to vaginas being tight, the more aroused a woman is, the more her vaginal walls swell up creating the feeling of tightness.
This, in addition to having good kegal muscle control, can create an extremely tight vagina.
This can feel like a 'tight fit' around just one finger, never mind a penis.
;)
C

it's actually cruel that there is a way for woman to "enhance" their sexual organs, yet men have to live with what they get . . . lol
It's all about how you use what you've got... :twisted:
yes indeed,
just a pity one cant use it more often wink
That, my friend, is why the good Lord gave us the long arms... :lol:
So what is this @Stamina? confessions of a wanker? :twisted:
Yip :lol:
Please remove the excess quotes please guys, it looks really cluttered
ag boys.... editing editing... sigh *rolls eyes* :P
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Please remove the excess quotes please guys, it looks really cluttered

Stamina, seems to me like we have been asked to cool off a little . . . . . (again)
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Stamina, seems to me like we have been asked to cool off a little . . . . . (again)

Nah, I read it as please edit some of the quotes out when you post....
I didn't see anything about asking you to cool it off?
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Please remove the excess quotes please guys, it looks really cluttered

Stamina, seems to me like we have been asked to cool off a little . . . . . (again)
Just the depth varies my bru... lol :twisted:
Mods and admin love us, they just don't want to say it outright... he he he
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Please remove the excess quotes please guys, it looks really cluttered

Stamina, seems to me like we have been asked to cool off a little . . . . . (again)
Just the depth varies my bru... lol :twisted:
Mods and admin love us, they just don't want to say it outright... he he he
What admin feels for us, I would hesitate to call any form of love . . . . . wink
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What admin feels for us, I would hesitate to call any form of love . . . . . wink

And Me??! What about ME?!
I'm not asking for cooling off but please keep your quotes to the previous message or 2 and delete the rest.