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what is a friend
Quote by oceanlovers
bit confused , what is a friend ,
someone who exchanges messages ,chats in the chat room and exchanges emails , and then ignores all further attempts to make contact . if not interested why bother to "chat at all "
That's reality. Swinging consists in my eyes the following:
1. I fantasize.
2. Maybe I want to try.
3. I'll chat in both the Chatrooms and Forum.
4. I'll create a profile as a couple.
5. Go on cam when it's only the male pulling his todger!
6. The Chatroom and Forum being populated and posting to get one up on the next one ! ( this frustrates me )
Don't permit one scenario deter your experience here.
Sex God
Quote by Voyer1105
A friend is someone with a big dick that comes around every 2 weeks and leaves the wife satisfied and me eating out a pussy filled with sperm
A true friend would visit weekly
Haveto say, I would also like to know what that whole "friend thing" is all about. Is it like that facebook shit, the more friends you accept on your profile the swinging-er(?) you are? Would have thought that people would maybe message back and forth a bit and if you click then yes, add them as friends. Getting 'friend requests' from people I don't know from a bar of soap is as inspiring as "winks" and those generic "hi, I like your profile..." messages, spam to be deleted. Don't want to sound negative but I guess SH reflects my general view of this country, a few roses growing in a sea of shit.
the central scrutinizer
Quote by Irish
bit confused , what is a friend ,
someone who exchanges messages ,chats in the chat room and exchanges emails , and then ignores all further attempts to make contact . if not interested why bother to "chat at all "
That's reality. Swinging consists in my eyes the following:
1. I fantasize.
2. Maybe I want to try.
3. I'll chat in both the Chatrooms and Forum.
4. I'll create a profile as a couple.
5. Go on cam when it's only the male pulling his todger!
6. The Chatroom and Forum being populated and posting to get one up on the next one ! ( this frustrates me )
Don't permit one scenario deter your experience here.
dont forget the odd ones out, the couples, women and men that actually are who and what they say
or maybe they are just odd I absolutely agree. Perhaps the meaning of the word has been eroded somewhat? Social media might be too blame. They give us !!!one!!! word to describe people we're related to, and people we are married to and people who we're close to and people we've known all our lives and people we knew a long time ago and haven't seen on a while, sometimes a long while and people we met once at a resort in another country. .. like everyone! They all qualify as 'friend'..
stupid.
They've really over simplified human connection into a click of one "+friend" link.
It's sad really
It struck me a while back that in spite of it's expansive repertoire of nuance and innuendo, the english language is severely limited in this respect. Friends to me are those that you can share your deepest secrets with, those that do not judge you and who's opinions you respect, very rare, like rainbow-colored unicorns. In searching for a descriptive term for all the many others, all I could come up with is 'associates', sounds like partners in a law firm, but for want of a better word that is what I use, so I'll go to my profile and see whether I've gotten any "associate requests"
the central scrutinizer
But in order to be one's associate doesn't a person have to actually interact with you in some way?
Meh... I think it might also be being used as an "I like the shagability of you" button
Perhaps that's something the techs could add... so that members can have a list of profiles they perve over but the pervees can live and surf in peace without being bugged by the pervers.
Hmm, thank you playcouple, I like that, better than associate! The question that makes the difference is not how many of them know you, but how many of them do you let to know you, isn't it? Through life and business I have hundreds of aquaintances yet I have very few that I would call friends. As the song goes, I'm a million different people, from one day to the next. We all adjust the persona that we project according to those we project it to and very few, if any, know us for who we really are. and that is why I write on this forum, here I can be me and I don't give a shit what you'all think about me, I guess that makes us friends, how crazy is that?
the central scrutinizer
Well a friend you can call on anytime day or night and they will help you if they can, the problem I find is that although we have a fairy strict profile re meet we are interested in meeting I have what I call chat friends on here that we can chat about anything from the weather yip to sport or how I am getting irritated by as I say those that walk amongst us.
So even though we may never meet etc they are there to brighten up an otherwise sometimes dreary chat
mwahs
ps all the better if we can meet and connect....................
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