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Okay guys, what will we try and discuss this week?? 

We really have to get all the *old forum bunnies* back in here, and a LOT of new blood!!!!!!!! This place is kinda DEAD lately !!!!!!!

Now remember I did say I might just bore you all with my own stuff, so give input and I will read the list and start somekinda Forum with each topic you suggested.

Warning ...I might just start things that might either bore you, frighten you, or repeat some OLD forum stuff.....or something heck ANYTHING just to rally your comfort zones...

My own list might include...

1) Different methods of Male and Female Masturbation.

     a) The dangers of masturbation!!!!!!!!!!

2) Male on Male play/sexual methods.

3) Female on Female play/sexual methods.

4) Scary sexual fetishes.

Just to name a few....but I really Need to know what you guys will like to discuss!!!!

Now do not be lazy...give me something to work with here...lets have fun, the saying is if we verbalize and talk sexy..We stimulate our sexual stimulation and we have better sex..so what are you guys waiting for??


Well, I for one would like to know a lot more about female masturbation!  And then your item 3) is also something that I have long wanted to know more about and not had much opportunity to experience...  I'm not really big into 2) or 4).... 

Now this is cheating @ redruce...I want your VERY OWN list ......

And Mr, when last have you been innovative while rubbing one out??? as in NOT just using your palm.....and what do you use as a lube,and where do you rub one out and how often??


Sheesh but it is kinda LONELY here in the Fora. Now I know I am a narcissist BUT Really!!!!!

 I will wait another few days to see who will give a little indication of to what will interest them...Or WHAT they can share!!!!

I am also still able to LEARN things, as I am NOT all knowing, even if I do think so at times (laughing)

I don't know what is needed to get the forums active again...

What happens for me, is I read the new posts. And honestly have nothing to add to the conversation... Unless I do, in which case I do comment.

I have a feeling that this happens for the other forum people too?

One of my more memorable masterbation sessions involved a hand held shower.  That was before the water restrictions. 

@ KC_  I know what you are saying. And do agree with your assessment.

Just before my MIA period I also popped in and read but did not comment as most of the post was a repeat and ONE does become jaded and disponded when you have to keep on repeating yourself.

But I hope to get the people back here just to chat and we might banter back and forth. I  MIGHT even  go as far as to contradict myself and argue BOTH sides of something to make things exciting again.

But I am just going to try for one month, then give up the ghost  if nothing happens. Will be sad though.

@ Bob969  eish yeah thinking you might miss a nice strong shower head. 

Hi there PiB, hope you are keeping well, good luck with your "forum revival drive"!! I for one will just peruse and keep my opinions to myself, kinda tired of my post being the final one on the thread, would actually like to know why that is so, as my main aim is actually to stimulate the debate...


Hi Mr wolfie..... 

First off, sorry about my *mental down time* when you guys were here in  CPT. Maybe next time you guys are here, we might have a nice cuppa!

Heck, you are right, this feels like a kinda MIGHTY Hill I am trying to climb, getting people back here in forums.

We just need to find something the peeps wanna do some tongue wagging on!

I already feel like It is JUST me voicing my ever fucking boring (it feels like this to me) voice in here, but I still have a few days to go, before I give this up for a bad job under taken.

For the next few days I promise I will answer your comments just so you are NOT the last one on a subject. Please DO COME BACK AND JOIN ME.

HMMM MY LIST OF .... subjects I never gotten around to post on.....

Hi there PiB.... will definitely do the cuppa coffee or beers sometime as we will be moving to Cptn within the next year or so.... OK so let's make this a joint effort... please just don't let me see my avatar 4 in a row 3 months down the line... dunno what it is with that but it kinda gets me down... will put my 2cents worth in on you posts within the next couple'a days......

open minds forever...

This might not be a popular topic, but it is something I am battling with. I might add that I think it has been discussed at lengths end in other threads.

Why do married men, like myself have the urge to swing? I have the closes thing to a happy marriage you can think of. I am, still after 16 years, deeply in love with my wife. She gives me everything my heart (and penis) can desire, yet time and again I end up on this site looking for more.

We use to play together and out of the blue she just lost interest. No reasons given, no visible bad experiences, just finish and klaar. Okay, if you are married, this game is for two. So if one is out, that is it, the partner must respect the wishes of the other and carry on with life. Nope, not me, every now and again I decide I am done with this, just to find myself back here a few months later.

Am I just a bad husband, an adulterer, or is there something deeper? 

@ Mr Wolfie.   Thanks for joining Will wait to read all your comments patiently.

@toy.    All I can say or ask is, why do you not start your own discussion on the above issues. It might just get more attention and some input from other men and ladies. Here, most will not even scan/read this far down this fora of mine.


Will do so PiB...just need to get my head around it...and maybe just grow a pair....icon_redface

@ toy.  Waiting to read with anticipation......and of course to give my comments.  And here I thought you *had* a pair  LMAO........

@ PiB... I also made that fatal assumption....banghead