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watching wife been banged
Orgasminator
Die beste vir my weer gister geniet
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C
Forum Virgin
Yes I love it, more to see her perform, but jiss never met so many poepholle.
Actually I discovered that it is a bit of a turn on to be watched him. .. Not that I want to be watched by anyone else though.
And once we spoke about the issue of him not being able to participate. ... and he indicated to me that he is hugely turned on by even just the idea of watching me, that just talking about it gets him going. He made me promise not to self censor.
Well the only way we are going to know is to see what happens. We have spoken about this. and for us, time will tell.
Quote by LeeEC
Actually I discovered that it is a bit of a turn on to be watched him. .. Not that I want to be watched by anyone else though.
And once we spoke about the issue of him not being able to participate. ... and he indicated to me that he is hugely turned on by even just the idea of watching me, that just talking about it gets him going. He made me promise not to self censor.
@ Amazon
You are asking a very relevant question here, what most newbie or wanna be swingers ask.
What if......
If you read way back in the forums it does get discussed and if you read and google swing rules and such, there is a LOT of info you can digest.
But to say it short and sweat.
Every couple has to work through these issues on their own.(as you so rightly said you guys will do)
The moment there is a little jealousy or a feeling of *my partner is enjoying it way more than with me...or now just look at her/him do things he/she would not allow with me...* THAT is the red flag waving.
That is why anyone would advise you guys to HAVE a set of rules(before even meeting potential playmates.)......and keep to it.
And just as in BDSM , have a SAFE word to let your partner knows all is not right ....whether it is you/him not enjoying your /his*play partner*or the moment you/him realize you are a little uncomfortable or jealous...to stop all play Say thank you for the *date* but go home to discuss what is it that went wrong and how you felt when you/he used your/his safe word.
DO NOT brood on this and keep it to yourself/himself. Bring it in the open and work through it!!!!THAT is the only way your relationship will grow stronger and stronger.
Most people would also say start slow...and do same room play first, then progress from there...first a little flirting with light touching,then progress further to heavier petting and more touching...then to same room play with other partners not your own.
BUT always and always END the night making love to your own spouse!!!! and ALWAYS discuss what it is you felt when playing with other people what you liked and disliked.
And sure , each person new you play with might *teach* you new things well that is a positive thing...you can do that with your hubby and he with you.
Thought I would share this.
I have seen REALLY strong marriages end because of the above....BUT I also saw a lot of marraiges just grow stronger and is that not fantastic???
I forwarded him this message and this was his reply.
Paul Potgieter: oooo dit is vantasties
Paul Potgieter: baie goeie raad die
We are now working on the rules.
thanks again.
Paul Potgieter: oooo dit is vantasties
Paul Potgieter: baie goeie raad die
We are now working on the rules.
thanks again.
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@ Amazon
You are asking a very relevant question here, what most newbie or wanna be swingers ask.
What if......
If you read way back in the forums it does get discussed and if you read and google swing rules and such, there is a LOT of info you can digest.
But to say it short and sweat.
Every couple has to work through these issues on their own.(as you so rightly said you guys will do)
The moment there is a little jealousy or a feeling of *my partner is enjoying it way more than with me...or now just look at her/him do things he/she would not allow with me...* THAT is the red flag waving.
That is why anyone would advise you guys to HAVE a set of rules(before even meeting potential playmates.)......and keep to it.
And just as in BDSM , have a SAFE word to let your partner knows all is not right ....whether it is you/him not enjoying your /his*play partner*or the moment you/him realize you are a little uncomfortable or jealous...to stop all play Say thank you for the *date* but go home to discuss what is it that went wrong and how you felt when you/he used your/his safe word.
DO NOT brood on this and keep it to yourself/himself. Bring it in the open and work through it!!!!THAT is the only way your relationship will grow stronger and stronger.
Most people would also say start slow...and do same room play first, then progress from there...first a little flirting with light touching,then progress further to heavier petting and more touching...then to same room play with other partners not your own.
BUT always and always END the night making love to your own spouse!!!! and ALWAYS discuss what it is you felt when playing with other people what you liked and disliked.
And sure , each person new you play with might *teach* you new things well that is a positive thing...you can do that with your hubby and he with you.
Thought I would share this.
I have seen REALLY strong marriages end because of the above....BUT I also saw a lot of marraiges just grow stronger and is that not fantastic???
Warming the Bed
We enjoy it .... 
:lol: :lol:
:lol: :lol: 
Warming the Bed
well
me the male enjoy watching my wife having fun I always join in at some point but I believe that if you can be hounest and open as to what you want then go for it ,it is a shame so any couples out there want to have fun with there partners but so view are willing to speak about it and take the step
we enjoy the lifestyle very much last experience was on the symphony dam it was fun
@ Amazon.
Sorry to hear about the fight.
I have found that in any marriage there is some *hidden* things people never reveal with their spouse.
BUT in the Swingers community IT IS a BIG *must*. And all the couples who is active for many years will tell you that as they have grown in their relationship,and still growing each day,honesty and no secrets and no fantasies is kept from each other.
We the Oldies in Swing...will always when asked for advice by newbies, as one man will say, OPEN COMMUNICATION between each other is the very FIRST step to take.
Dus sterkte met julle avontuur hier in die *swing* hoop julle maak goeie vriende al is hulle nie *speel* vriende nie.
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How different is this from cuckolding.
From my understanding, cuckolding typically involves some sort of humiliation of the male partner while the female has sexual relations with another man.
That is not what we engage in.
Our swinging behaviour involves pleasurable experiences for all people involved. We enjoy watching each other with other people. We also enjoy joining in on the fun when invited.
;)
C
Yup, I think C is on the money... the essential difference.
Although another thing I noticed that cuckoldery seems , certainly in the States, to involve a lot of white couples seeking out well endowed black men for the task, so a racial aspect is there too, and it also often involves humiliating forms of anal sex for the white husband as well, so a form of coercive sex as well.. but usually for the husband..
So it seems like a form of BDSM to me in its most hardcore form..
Being watched ... that tends to more of a voyeurism thing
Sexlightened
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He won't answer. . So I'll do it for him. .
My husband likes it too
I also wouldn't mind seeing lee in action.
Forum Virgin
Love watching my lady been pleasured by other men, and afterwards is the best love making we have, to watch my lady make a guy cum and she is wet is like a drug. I think a lot of men are scared to let there ladies enjoy this a they are scared others might have bigger penises, trust me most women don't like massive cocks as it hurts them and also a womens gspot is only a inch inside her.
Warming the Bed
From my personal experience, women then to give it that extra percent when the hubby is not present
