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Orgasminator
Two ways to go for member verification
1. By somebody who met you in person.
2. Going on cam.
Image verification:
Go on your profile and click on image verification and follow the steps
Image Verification:
Image verification can only be done by admin. You can follow the steps that Adonis suggested.
Member Verification:
Member Verification can be done by admin or by other verified members.
When a person from one profile verifies another profile it means that:
1) They have met that person or couple in person or had a video chat.
2) In the case of a couple, both are willing participants, as in many cases, they are not.
3) They appear inherently safe and genuine in their intentions.
4) Their profile is a reasonable representation of whom they are.
5) You do not necessarily have to play with or even like another person or couple to verify that their profile is genuine.
To be verified in person:
Look for someone in your area that is already verified, this may be a challenge. If you meet with them and you comply with the above criteria they can verify your profile.
On your profile, they can then click on "Not member verified" next to your profile pic
On the page that opens they can click on the "verify" at the bottom right.
Admin will take about a day to complete the Verification.
To be verified by cam:
If you have a PC with a web cam and enough pics on your profile, this is what you do:
Go into the chat room and look under live cams for a person or couple that looks friendly and has "eXtras" next to their name, as that shows that they are verified.
Send them a Whisper message, asking them to a private chat to verify you.
If they agree click on the "+" bottom right ("Create Room") and create a private chat or let them do so.
Give them the Pin and let them join you.
Now turn on your webcam for that room only, at the top left.
Open all your private pics to them and let them read your profile.
Answer all their questions honestly and they should have no problem verifying you.
They can then click on "Not member verified" next to your profile pic
On the page that opens they can click on the "verify" at the bottom right.
Have an nice chat with them and thank them.
Admin will take about a day to complete the Verification.
You can then verify all the people that you have met and respect, even if you have not played with them.
I've come across some profiles that have been verified by several members.
It carries much more value if you can cross reference acquaintances and it adds greatly to someone's credibility.
Image verification can only be done by admin. You can follow the steps that Adonis suggested.
Member Verification:
Member Verification can be done by admin or by other verified members.
When a person from one profile verifies another profile it means that:
1) They have met that person or couple in person or had a video chat.
2) In the case of a couple, both are willing participants, as in many cases, they are not.
3) They appear inherently safe and genuine in their intentions.
4) Their profile is a reasonable representation of whom they are.
5) You do not necessarily have to play with or even like another person or couple to verify that their profile is genuine.
To be verified in person:
Look for someone in your area that is already verified, this may be a challenge. If you meet with them and you comply with the above criteria they can verify your profile.
On your profile, they can then click on "Not member verified" next to your profile pic
On the page that opens they can click on the "verify" at the bottom right.
Admin will take about a day to complete the Verification.
To be verified by cam:
If you have a PC with a web cam and enough pics on your profile, this is what you do:
Go into the chat room and look under live cams for a person or couple that looks friendly and has "eXtras" next to their name, as that shows that they are verified.
Send them a Whisper message, asking them to a private chat to verify you.
If they agree click on the "+" bottom right ("Create Room") and create a private chat or let them do so.
Give them the Pin and let them join you.
Now turn on your webcam for that room only, at the top left.
Open all your private pics to them and let them read your profile.
Answer all their questions honestly and they should have no problem verifying you.
They can then click on "Not member verified" next to your profile pic
On the page that opens they can click on the "verify" at the bottom right.
Have an nice chat with them and thank them.
Admin will take about a day to complete the Verification.
You can then verify all the people that you have met and respect, even if you have not played with them.
I've come across some profiles that have been verified by several members.
It carries much more value if you can cross reference acquaintances and it adds greatly to someone's credibility.
Hi guys,
I remember a few members had a complain a few years ago that they could not VERIFY someone they have met in person because they were not yet verified themselves!!
I still asked the question on how to go about this if two newbies met and wanted to verify each other. I do not think I have ever gotten an answer for that particular question.
Did this get any better in the last ,lets say 9 months ?????
I know I have gotten verified by a Modurator I have met in person before I became active here,So I myself never had this problem.
Sounds funny?? I joined this site a few years ago but never joined in anything ,was just a ghostly*lurker* profile,untill I decided to become more active here.
@ Nimfie_Pieman
I am, should I say, *OVER verified* already.
The people who meet other peeps or each other in Person for the first time...was the things become easier for them? Not everyone is lucky enough to have KNOWN peeps in their area.
I for ONE DO not agree with cam verification myself.
IT IS very easy to sit here, open my cam and people from Germany Can verify me,the only thing they are verifying is that they SAW MY FACE.
I can STILL be lying and be Married and cheating on my wife or hubby how would they know??
I could be anyone and anything on the computer. THAT is easy!!! In real life you have to go meet someone, chat and LOOK them in the eye, they will soon pick up on anything that is NOT Kosher.
I verified few people who chose NOT to verify me just as I got verified by people who I choose NOT to verify. BUT it still means that We as people met face to face.
PIB even a face to face meeting does not guarantee anything, we can all be fooled.
Some people only show their bad traits during or after a play date or you may never know their true colours.
Some people are married to serial killers for many years and are oblivious.
I have an uncle with a doctorate in the education field and he still has nothing good to say about Madiba. Yet there where people that gave their lives for Al Capone.
Cam verification is a gate to entry, without which country wide Member verification would be possible.
It does offer a reasonable account of a person, as you can still look into a person's face real time and get a glimpse of their soul.
One person's face to face view of you caries little more weight.
Someone like you that has been *OVER verified* clearly has an amazing personality and we hope to have the opportunity to add our profile to your verified status some day.
The key still lies in being verified several times and we encourage it as often as we can.
The attitude in our area still seems to be: If I don't want to play with you, I don't want to know you. We're trying to change that.
First impressions are important but sometimes people can surprise you. Sometimes you have to get through the first layer before you get to the gold.
Many swingers just don't want to go through the effort or risk, so they just go for what they can get at face value.
We have verified people that we did not like as people and they clearly did not like us but after meeting them and reading their profile again we felt it justified to verify that they appear as their profile suggested.
Before we did so, we did however ask them if they wish to be verified by us.
Morning guys!!!!2014-13-03
Just noticed that someone has checked out my profile who I thought was interesting so, I went and browsed right back at them, but checking out their very nicely explained written profile what they want and not want...I read the following and this is what I now WONDERING WHAT IT MIGHT MEAN???
pasting in...
*you have to be verified with extras*
Now that makes me wonder what on earth the EXTRA`s is with the verification??? Anyone that has a clue???
Maybe I should just mail and ask politely what they mean...but then why write if someone might know the answer already.
Image verification was easy. I wrote my username on a piece of paper, held it under my face and next to tattoos, snapped some shots with my webcam. Sent it to Admin and got image verified the same day. Member verification: A mod lives quite close to me, I went and introduced myself, had a coffee, chatted a while. Member verified the next day.
Orgasminator
Easy as Stamina said, only remember when you put the paper under your face to take the photo, to put the security number and Swingingheavensa on the paper, and if you a couple borh of you must be on the photo.
Where did i get the number, on your home page click on Image verification and your security info will show and how to follow step by step.
Why did i remember members this, because as a old mod about 99% send a photo in without any info on the paper the most not even the piece of paper.
If you take the effort to image verification do it first time right.
Wallah and you image verified.
