Wat sal ons doen sonder die wysheid van Pib, jy kon dit nie beter beantwoord nie en as iemand nie verstaan wat jy geskryf het nie, is daar geen manier wat die persoon sal besef hy moet eers voor sy eie deur gaan vee nie.
Pib jy sal altyd een van my helde wees en weet waar ek kan gaan raad soek, Hoop jy is nog lank in die forum vir ons arme siele wat gereeld raad soek.
While I am not by any means defending Stamina's dissing his lady by stating that sex with her is becoming boring, we need to realize that the male of the species is hard-wired to seek novelty. Even experiments with lab-rats, and observation of bonobo apes (our closest primate genetic ancestors) has shown the following: Presented with a receptive female, the male will bang her a couple of times and then lie back, congratulate himself on a job well done and start thinking of other things besides sex (cricket scores?). He has lost interest! Conventional thinking tends to rationalize this in terms of his energy depletion due to semen expenditure and the requirement for a refractory period but NO! Bring on a DIFFERENT receptive female and the male is quickly ready to jump back into the saddle for another session. Meanwhile, female 1 is just warmed up and is fantasizing about a queue of able males to take her further up towards the peak of the orgasmic mountain. We are all hardwired to be non-monogamous sluts (and I mean that in a sex-positive way).
Irrelevant as always
@ Stamina
1) Being bored or becoming bored with my partner is not me being a bad guy. Not always the man that is wrong when things start to go south hey...
I have not read this above statement in your original posting that things are going *south*between the both of you.
What I did read is that YOU want a 3 some with a lady and you are becoming bored of Your lady, hench my comment.
As always with anything going wrong,it does takes two people to tango, NOT only one, that I do understand.
But as your lady friend is not here defending herself or in MY own opinion, that she does not even know WHAT you are saying, I will defend her and show you that you are not very gentlemanly in what and how you are saying these negative things about her. And are you not the one who claims to be a gentleman in all things ??
2) Something wrong and not with the other people? Possible, very possible. So it can be me then? Ok, so I should go around being "fake" to attract a potential playmate? At least what they see is what they get, I am probably most honest and genuine person on here. I say what I think, always. I do what I say, always... I am transparent toward all potential playmates and I leave nothing to be desired.
No where did I say you have to be a can be who you are,just be a gentleman in all think before you write anything degrading about your other half,as it does reflect back at you.
3)Venting here and all other topics I discuss can not ruin my already non existent chances.
Nope venting is allowed.
4) As for "lowering the standards" a bit, well that would just be pointless. Then I rather don't do it. I am a very "visually stimulated" person. My priority list is as follows: 1. The ladies pleasure first. 2. My pleasure in the form of being with and touching a beautiful woman. And the rest falls into place. I really mean absolutely no offence to anyone and those take offence are narrow minded... I absolutely adore beauty, call me superficial but I would much rather date a hottie that is a total bitches before I date an ugly girl that is a total darling. Looks matter to me and I can not change that. Bare in mind that my girl on the same page. She too wants a gorgeous playmate or it would be pointless. Why do people take offence to things like this? Some people are sexy and some are not. Accept it... Don't hate the player, hate the game!
No where did I say you have to lower your standards , you have a choice and you are allowed to keep it as it is.
JUST DO NOT insult the people on SH, saying they have no right to take up space and use this site for what ever reason they are using it. We/they also have a right to be here.
I for one , am not in the least narrow minded at all, by taking offence with your posting or comment that we do not belong on SH.
I think many people who in fact KNOWS me personally will concur with me there, thus you need not take my word for it.
Just as it is your right to say what you want, it is my right to say what I feel about what you write.
@ wolfman
I fully agree with you,humans by nature is not really monogamous.
Yes, men do like more spice in their life, we women also would like that, even if some of us women will never admit to that.
Women tend to think that when they are sexually adventurous that people and men will think them promiscuous and sluts, and is that NOT what most men on here thinks about us ladies anyway??
ANYONE WANT TO DISAGREE WITH ME???
I can only tell you guys, just sit and talk to single ladies and married ladies who receives very obnoxious mails demanding sex as if we are desperate and just can not wait to please every and each man wanting to get us on our backs, to do things they WOULD never ask of their spouse!!!
Is it then a wonder that we do not jump through loops, just because some male is taking note of us??
Hi Ms Sofistikitty
I was reading daily, just did not feel like commenting on anything.
I am chuffed to read that your parties are living it up!!!! Great going!!!!!
I would just like to say that I don't consider anyone ugly, we all just have different tastes and preferences. I don't know if I am narrow minded or just being sensitive, but I look nothing compared to ur lady, so what does that mean? I am and others like me that are not in the "hottie" category. Ten to one the "hotties" are a lame lay because like in life some "hotties" don't feel the need to improve their personalities or other things and go through life only depending on their looks to get them through.
When I mentioned standards I didn't mean lowering it, I only meant maybe tweaking your preferences eg. race? Or age, stuff like that. I didn't mean go and get desperate. I've had awesome times with guys I wouldn't usually go for.
At this rate your search will be tough. I'm saying again women are intimidated by you and your attitude towards this whole thing. Anyway, good luck guys.
*not meant to offend just my input.
My advice to you, Go back to the shop.:thumbup::thumbup:
Stamina! We have said we'd love to meet you.....and, once in our circle of awesome friends, 3-somes are a matter of course....any course you'd like.....you have not taken us up on our offer!!! (Maybe I am not FHM model enough......however I am certainly not unattractive either....grrrr)
So, in short, the only reason you have not had something different/fantasies fullfilled is cos you didn't wanna!
:twisted:
How does one say no to that offer
People do not like to hear the truth. Tell someone that they are a time waster and watch how they try to prove you wrong...
Example: There is a gorgeous girl that owns a hardware store close to my house. I am always friendly when I go in there. On Monday, I was buying some drill bits and upon paying, I found myself staring at her luscious Boobs (and they are amazing)! She saw this and said "do you want to take a photo?".. with a smile on her face. I said that they are amazing so she can't blame me for staring at them, and she has them almost popping out! She asked how do I know they are amazing if they are closed in a shirt. I said that the ways she "displays" them is what makes them looks amazing. I followed that up with "you girls with these stunning racks have so much confidence but I bet you would never take them out and show them if challenged to do so"... She giggled a hit and said "are you daring me to show them to you?". I said "YES"... There were customers in her shop so I never got the eye full I was hoping for but I believe beyond a doubt, she would have pulled that top down!
My point above is that: I told her that it is something she would not do, she would have done just to prove me wrong. 
soz Stamina - i couldnt resist it, and havent read all the posts so feel free to spank me 
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