This is for the more "experienced" couples here.
When meeting another couple for playtime for the first time, do you prefer to host at your venue, theirs, or a neutral venue?
Normally we prefer a neutral venue, but had a sitiuation where we hosted and decided not to play and the other couple just hung around and would not leave. The husband kept on trying to convince us to change our minds.
It became quite uncomfortable , but luckily they left after we both were very clear that it was not going to happen.
Please share your experiences both positive and negative!
Many thanks
N&F
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This is for the more "experienced" couples here.
When meeting another couple for playtime for the first time, do you prefer to host at your venue, theirs, or a neutral venue?
Normally we prefer a neutral venue, but had a sitiuation where we hosted and decided not to play and the other couple just hung around and would not leave. The husband kept on trying to convince us to change our minds.
It became quite uncomfortable , but luckily they left after we both were very clear that it was not going to happen.
Please share your experiences both positive and negative!
Many thanks
N&F
Been playing for about ten years, prefer hosting, with couples we will alternate, with singles we will always host. Just a preference, keep in mind we have young kids some of whom are very very parent attached. Hosting also makes it easier in terms of babysitters etc.
Orgasminator
The only issue as a single guy going to a couples place is the unknown factor. I always spend a while on Google maps checking out the area and the street views etc but even then I sit in my car debating with myself if I should knock or not.
That and it's weird being naked in someone else's house at first.
Orgasminator
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Sexlightened
Generally our process is as follows:
We first meet new folk (couples or singles) at a neutral venue eg a pub for drinks. This is after quite some time getting to "know them" on the site ie chatting on site.
Once everyone has decided that a second visit is a great idea, we would invite them/him/her to our place for dinner/drinks/a game of pool and we reiterate that "play" not a "must"....we then let things develop and flow naturally. We have never had a "planned" play session....it is always a possibility and often a probability, however, we have never invited people to come over specifically for a shag.
Having said the aforementioned: we have hosted "play parties" where the invitation makes it very clear that it is a play party....even then, things happen/develop naturally....
Hope this helps?!
