This lifestyle confuses the monogamous folk

8 Dec 2014

On Friday night I went out for ladies night to a wonderful burger bar with topless waiters. These guys are great at flirting - obviously, their tips rely on it! They have amazing bodies, and I honestly contemplated spending the R300 just to lick alcohol off their yummy tummies... Anyway, as the evening progressed, our group took over and created a dance area near the bar. Needless to say, these guys had to get passed us to deliver their drink orders. I danced against quite a few of them ;) My feet were getting sore in my heels, on my way to the car to change shoes, one of the cuties asked me why I am leaving so soon. When I told him my feet were getting sore, he offered to carry me around for a bit smile

That was fun while it lasted, feeling his muscles against my thighs, pressing my cleavage against his head :) He put me down and continued working. I went to change my shoes. Later in the evening, he was asking me where I am going afterwards. Now, usually when I am out without K, there are many messages between us about the hotties around us. K's messages generally encouraging me to see how far I can go with these guys. But on Friday night K was fast asleep after a long week at work. Anyway, I commented that normally when I find sexy men like this, my hubby watches us together. The poor guy almost fell over! He was very keen to take me back to his place, but the idea of my hubby watching us scared him! I told him that if he wants the pleasure of pleasing me, that is the only condition. I left him to think about my proposal - I didn't think anything would actually happen, based on his shocked response. When he was leaving, he asked if I was going with them to News Cafe to continue the party. He must have put some thought into it, and decided that being watched by K was an exciting idea after all? Alas, by then I was tired, and K was still asleep at home, so I declined. When I got home, K woke up. As I was telling him about my evening, I noticed that his penis was also waking up ;) We had some awesome sex, fantasing about what would have happened if I had gone to News Cafe with the sexy waiter.... ;) C This isn't in the story section, because I want to know if any of you have had similar experiences?

8 Dec 2014

I've never had an experience like this, it always seems to go over my head...I just realise that I would have had an amazing time the next morning when I wake up alone banghead

8 Dec 2014

I originally come from the east rand and to be honest the people there are very conservative. Not much in the way of swinging. Since I started with this current job I have decided not to keep quiet about my lifestyle and to speak about it openly. To my surprise a lot of people get intrigued by my experiences. I have even registered to couples on SH. One lady loved my stories that I posted on here and even asked me to write a story for her about her fantasy. I think it depends where you stay that makes the difference.

8 Dec 2014

Quote by KC_
On Friday night I went out for ladies night to a wonderful burger bar with topless waiters.
These guys are great at flirting - obviously, their tips rely on it!
They have amazing bodies, and I honestly contemplated spending the R300 just to lick alcohol off their yummy tummies...
Anyway, as the evening progressed, our group took over and created a dance area near the bar.
Needless to say, these guys had to get passed us to deliver their drink orders.
I danced against quite a few of them ;)
My feet were getting sore in my heels, on my way to the car to change shoes, one of the cuties asked me why I am leaving so soon. When I told him my feet were getting sore, he offered to carry me around for a bit That was fun while it lasted, feeling his muscles against my thighs, pressing my cleavage against his head :)
He put me down and continued working. I went to change my shoes. Later in the evening, he was asking me where I am going afterwards. Now, usually when I am out without K, there are many messages between us about the hotties around us. K's messages generally encouraging me to see how far I can go with these guys. But on Friday night K was fast asleep after a long week at work.
Anyway, I commented that normally when I find sexy men like this, my hubby watches us together. The poor guy almost fell over! He was very keen to take me back to his place, but the idea of my hubby watching us scared him!
I told him that if he wants the pleasure of pleasing me, that is the only condition. I left him to think about my proposal - I didn't think anything would actually happen, based on his shocked response.
When he was leaving, he asked if I was going with them to News Cafe to continue the party. He must have put some thought into it, and decided that being watched by K was an exciting idea after all? Alas, by then I was tired, and K was still asleep at home, so I declined.
When I got home, K woke up. As I was telling him about my evening, I noticed that his penis was also waking up ;)
We had some awesome sex, fantasing about what would have happened if I had gone to News Cafe with the sexy waiter....
;)
C
This isn't in the story section, because I want to know if any of you have had similar experiences?

No offence, but sounds like a story misplaced!

8 Dec 2014

I have never wanted to be a waiter so much in my life.....lucky devil

9 Dec 2014

Was away from home for a the company booked me into a real shitty place,,But anyway when having a supper in the bar there was a group of ladies having a ladies night came over to me and asked if I would not mind joining them. Well why not, And they took me to a nice little dance place anyway we all danced till early hours, But one of the ladies got very cuddly and asked me if I would mind coming over to her place. Well that's when the bubble burst and I turned her down and told her that when my wife comes with me next time it would be great. Well to say the least when Mrs C did go back with me all the ladies was very interested to hear our it was the best 4 months we ever stayed in a small town.

9 Dec 2014

Quote by georgeous
I originally come from the east rand and to be honest the people there are very conservative. Not much in the way of swinging. Since I started with this current job I have decided not to keep quiet about my lifestyle and to speak about it openly. To my surprise a lot of people get intrigued by my experiences. I have even registered to couples on SH. One lady loved my stories that I posted on here and even asked me to write a story for her about her fantasy. I think it depends where you stay that makes the difference.

I have to agree, that in general the east rand folk are quite conservative.
That being said, there are a few of us here that are quite the opposite :twisted:
We have had some great playdates here, so I have hope that things are slowly changing.
I think my waiter was more into it later that evening, when he asked me to join them. Or he was hoping to charm me into sleeping with him without K there... who knows...?

9 Dec 2014

Quote by Cara
Was away from home for a the company booked me into a real shitty place,,But anyway when having a supper in the bar there was a group of ladies having a ladies night came over to me and asked if I would not mind joining them. Well why not, And they took me to a nice little dance place anyway we all danced till early hours, But one of the ladies got very cuddly and asked me if I would mind coming over to her place. Well that's when the bubble burst and I turned her down and told her that when my wife comes with me next time it would be great. Well to say the least when Mrs C did go back with me all the ladies was very interested to hear our it was the best 4 months we ever stayed in a small town.

What a lovely experience!

9 Dec 2014

Quote by Cara
Was away from home for a the company booked me into a real shitty place,,But anyway when having a supper in the bar there was a group of ladies having a ladies night came over to me and asked if I would not mind joining them. Well why not, And they took me to a nice little dance place anyway we all danced till early hours, But one of the ladies got very cuddly and asked me if I would mind coming over to her place. Well that's when the bubble burst and I turned her down and told her that when my wife comes with me next time it would be great. Well to say the least when Mrs C did go back with me all the ladies was very interested to hear our it was the best 4 months we ever stayed in a small town.

Awesome one there. Nice to know that there are small towns with people open to the possibilty of swinging.
I was in Harrysmith but it seems there are no swingers there.

9 Dec 2014

Topless male waiters??? Yuk! Please tell me where this pace is so I can avoid it at all costs! lol

:lol:

9 Dec 2014

Quote by Stamina
Topless male waiters??? Yuk! Please tell me where this pace is so I can avoid it at all costs! :lol:

Ja Ja Ja Ja . . . Stamina, we all know you want to know where it is so you can apply for a part time job . . . . rotflmao

9 Dec 2014

Quote by SDMR
Topless male waiters??? Yuk! Please tell me where this pace is so I can avoid it at all costs! :lol:

Ja Ja Ja Ja . . . Stamina, we all know you want to know where it is so you can apply for a part time job . . . . rotflmao

:wink:

11 Dec 2014

@KC, reading your experience, I have to sit and wonder just how many times people (that's us) have had something like this happen and we simply interpreted it as "Flirting Fun" and did not take it seriously enough. How many times did a "situation" just need the tiniest of pushes from "our" side to make it happen . . . . Yes, I suppose those that have "swinging" experience may not have too many opportunities slip them by, but what about before the so called experience . . . . .

11 Dec 2014

Quote by SDMR
@KC, reading your experience, I have to sit and wonder just how many times people (that's us) have had something like this happen and we simply interpreted it as "Flirting Fun" and did not take it seriously enough.
How many times did a "situation" just need the tiniest of pushes from "our" side to make it happen . . . .
Yes, I suppose those that have "swinging" experience may not have too many opportunities slip them by, but what about before the so called experience . . . . .

Well I for one was once caught off guard by a swinging couple... Long before I even knew this type of thing occurred. I was 19, out on a date (sort of a date), was a girl that I taught to drive and she passed her test first time. We had developed an interest for each other through the lessons but I kept it professional and did not make any advances, though the flirting from her side was clear. Anyway, she asked me out for a drink on the day she passed her test, her treat, sort of a "thank you" attempt from her side. I accepted.
We went to a Keg nearby and soon her parents joined us to my surprise. She said they were going to go there anyway. I did not really mind and just socialised with everyone. A few hours into the night of drinking and chatting, they dropped the bomb! Straight out asked me if I would meet up with them that weekend and have fun with the wife while hubby films and watches. Being young and naive, I declined. They also were arranging in secret from their daughter, that part got me the most. Not on to secretly attempt to seduce your daughters date!
I was shocked, surprised, disgusted, appalled, etc... I look back now and think "you idiot"!! Needless to say, the daughter and I never really happened anyway so I should just have taken the plunge... But that was new to me and unheard of...

11 Dec 2014

Quote by SDMR
@KC, reading your experience, I have to sit and wonder just how many times people (that's us) have had something like this happen and we simply interpreted it as "Flirting Fun" and did not take it seriously enough.
How many times did a "situation" just need the tiniest of pushes from "our" side to make it happen . . . .
Yes, I suppose those that have "swinging" experience may not have too many opportunities slip them by, but what about before the so called experience . . . . .

SMDR, who knows. Flirting is so much fun, that I often don't take it much further. I am a real flirt, and am told that sometimes me being friendly comes across as flirting, so you can imagine what it looks like when I AM flirting! Lol.
But he was sooooo cute, and beautifully built! I really wanted to play with him!