I have just read some info in * Guide to Swinging* here on site, but who ever does???
One thing that I always wonder about if people still bring a little travel bag to private parties and clubs??
I was introduced to swing many, many moons ago.
I had good guidance and help when I started out.
Still today, I will keep a little bag in my car(I always go in my own transport) in case I decide to change my mind from *no play*and go home with someone after a meet and greet or a social.
Things I keep handy..
Extra money( those years there where no cell phones) *in-case* money I was taught.
Now a days my cell phone and yes, money.
Some toiletries
Tooth paste and tooth brush
Perfume and deodorant.
Extra undies/lingerie
Clean blouse (I usually wear pants)
Hand towel and facecloth and soap.
Some private condoms and dam`s
Hairbrush/comb
Wet wipes
Tissues
Small bottle of mouth wash incase someone has not brought his/her own toothbrush.
A sarong to wrap around me if I want to join in relaxing in a Jacuzzi/swimming pool .
A large towel.
I am obsessive ,so I do take my own little disposable paper bags to throw away my used condoms wet wipes and such.
I also put in a few toys (separate bag) one never knows how the nights turn out....rope/blindfold/oils and lubricants and vibrators and few kinky toys and stuff
Oh, and if you bring toys remember to also bring batteries just incase.
Make sure you enjoy/make some personal time for a manicure/pedicure/hair and facials and private area`s you are super clean and appealing on the night you go to the social or party or club.
Nothing is as off putting as pealing little hairs in the anal area,when you open a pair of sexy legs....
If at a club, drinks are bough, but if at a private social , ask the hostess what you can contribute...but anything to eat and drink will always be welcome, also take your own *drinks*.
CLEAN up after you have played in a room.....do not throw condoms and wet-wipes and stuff around for the hostess to clean up afterwards.
When you enter the club/house/venue, just go freshen up to be sure you are smelling like a little fresh air...
AND
After each play session make sure to freshen up and clean yourself up...before going back to a group.
Keep handy a few Personalized cards with your name and contact number. If you meet an exciting person that you wish to keep in touch with or get together with at a later date.
Always remember to phone/write/send flowers the next day to say thank you for a evening you enjoyed.
Just something we all have to remember.
And does anyone ever take their *Little extra`s* with these days ??
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Things I keep handy!!!
Warming the Bed
Thanx 4 guidlines pib its informative
Orgasminator
Pib ja vanity sakkies met die nodige maar nog nooit rerig 'n onvoorsiene oornag sakkie nie, maar 'n baie goeie plan.
Warming the Bed
Soooooo, in the event of an untimely accident.........
Do you say you on your way back from a party......
Say you on your way to a party.......
Ask if the kind doctors and or nurses fulfill your fantasy play and join in..........
We didnt think to take anything with us to the club, but have come up with a small list for next time ;)
When we went to our play date, we took along some flavoured condoms (chocolate 
) and some lube.
We thought we did well for our first play date 
PIB your list has made us think of all the things that we could/should take along with us.
BTW, does anyone know where we can get dams in JHB? Condoms are easily, but dams are hard to find! I know you can even get flavoured dams, but no idea where!
;)
C
) and some lube.
We thought we did well for our first play date
PIB your list has made us think of all the things that we could/should take along with us.
BTW, does anyone know where we can get dams in JHB? Condoms are easily, but dams are hard to find! I know you can even get flavoured dams, but no idea where!
;)
C @ caperock1.....LMAO at you........you can only hope the *kind* nurses or doctors have medical equipment in their cars.....in-case of an emergency,these days.
As for a medical play session, you can always ASK!!!!!!!
@ KC_ Your chemist should have *normal* dams on sale....flavored one`s well ,not to sure about that one,I would think your Adult shops should have some.
When next I pop into a Adult Shop I will make sure to ask if they have.
Little secret I keep when ever I do play with strange ladies, I never say this aloud, KC_ ,in-case the ladies think I am strange.
When using a normal dam or a piece of cling foil ,it usually taste awful,so what I do is, I suck on a peppermint or a melting chocolate at the same time I use it...the sweetness never goes into the ladies genitals to cause an infection,but it sure makes me enjoy what I do,much more.
