Things I find weird

🙃 when my profile says I'm closed to new partners but there's an expectation that I will play

🙃 Messages saying let's hook up at such and such a place because the person is in my area

🙃 Being told I'm a flake by People with not one picture and not one vouch

🙃An expectation that I HAVE to respond and PROMPTLY

🙃 That I'm a sex Pez doll to some, here entirely for their pleasure and bidding

🙃 How some messages still shock me because wow. Would you say this to a stranger in person?

I love being here, and love interactions that take into account that I too am a person with a full life and this is only one part of my life not all of it. I never center myself in people's lives. If people don't respond, I don't take it personal. It's not always about you.

When people say they're ope minded and at the same time are prejudice

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🙃 when my profile says I'm closed to new partners but there's an expectation that I will play

🙃 Messages saying let's hook up at such and such a place because the person is in my area

🙃 Being told I'm a flake by People with not one picture and not one vouch

🙃An expectation that I HAVE to respond and PROMPTLY

🙃 That I'm a sex Pez doll to some, here entirely for their pleasure and bidding

🙃 How some messages still shock me because wow. Would you say this to a stranger in person?

I love being here, and love interactions that take into account that I too am a person with a full life and this is only one part of my life not all of it. I never center myself in people's lives. If people don't respond, I don't take it personal. It's not always about you.

Preach on !!!

Back here because damn. Triggered AF. Unless it's a yes it's a no. Why do I have people hounding me for explicit no's? If it's not an explicit yes it's a no. Nos can be silent. Nos can be in action. And no is no. Why do you say you're okay with a no when actually your hounding me for a no means you're not 💀

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Back here because damn. Triggered AF. Unless it's a yes it's a no. Why do I have people hounding me for explicit no's? If it's not an explicit yes it's a no. Nos can be silent. Nos can be in action. And no is no. Why do you say you're okay with a no when actually your hounding me for a no means you're not 💀

Sounds way too familiar. 😤 sorry you’re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. 🙄😬 I’ll trade you the ‘No’s’ for the day for that one. 😂

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

Preach on

If you reply instantly members think it's a yes to playing

If you don't reply you are stuck up

Also agree members need to remember you have a whole life off sh and you might take a while to reply or even meet

Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

But hey don't let a few rotten apples spoil your fun coz the is some really genuine and fun people on sh

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Preach on

If you reply instantly members think it's a yes to playing

If you don't reply you are stuck up

Also agree members need to remember you have a whole life off sh and you might take a while to reply or even meet

Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

But hey don't let a few rotten apples spoil your fun coz the is some really genuine and fun people on sh

Who does this shit in a first message. MEN step the fuck up and show respect for fuck sakes. Never had a message like these from a woman. This is not what we most of us don’t. So maybe err on the side of caution until you at least speak to us.

When their profile says "Don't cross racial boundaries" but are in my DMs...ummm...no...

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Oh and don't get me started on the crazy msgs a guy asked me can he pee on my boobs and that was his first msg to me

So can he? hahah JOKES,

There certainly are some strange people around, and its not limited to the men unfortunately. SH probably could put some extra security measures in place to prevent these things, but then it becomes like a creche which no one wants.... as mentioned by other RESPECT for others goes a long way.

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Sounds way too familiar. 😤 sorry you’re having a bad day.

I just had a man message me and offer to pay me to take a dump on his chest. 🙄😬 I’ll trade you the ‘No’s’ for the day for that one. 😂

Respect seems like a foreign concept to some.

sometimes the heart can not let go ............ does one truly understand love

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Let go please 😔

difficult........the heart desires so much

things one finds weird, is when one finds love, but the wires are crossed or not understood, or when one writes stories of the other, or when they getn unblocked but cant write that they do truly miss the other and all they needed to write was , hey ...lets try again, but take it slow.....instead every now they peak into the others profile, hoping, begging for that chance. SKH

Geez....Honestly I cant believe some of the things mentioned in this one, not saying that what ever was mentioned previously is not true but refering to the levels of disrespect in some messages. It's basically like walking up to someone in a mall and just bluntly asking them to suck you off. Surely that would get you a slap in the face....boy I would love to see that though 🤣.

I think guys sending messages like that are actually insecure and just crave the attention of the person they sent it to. Those are probably the guys that wouldn't pitch for a meet with a million excuses .

Guys, these are ladies, treat them with respect if you wish to get their attention. I am pretty sure that a decent worded and kind message would get better reactions than some of the examples mentioned in this thread