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Are there any straight gloryholes in cape town??

I would hope so.

Lol, they do gloryholes in Cape Town?

Idk when the next poster will appear but I want some advice.

About 2 years ago, I had a Dom. We were perfect together. He was great in bed, had a plethora of toys, took care of me financially and would give me the right amount of pain without degrading me. (I prefer praise.)

He loved tying me up and sharing me with his friends, and he helped me love my curvy body. All while taking care of me financially.

He didn't want kids, and he had no interest in marriage, something I fully agreed with, but he did have an issue with me wanting to go back to college and get a job.

We broke up amicably and would even hook up occasionally until I met my most recent bf late last year. He's a biker so I really thought we'd have the same kind of chemistry but it's insanely boring, which is hard because I like him and he's really sweet.

I think my ex has ruined any chance of me having a normal relationship.

Maybe I should just settle and pack up. Leave the scene for good.

Hi there fellow Life Stylers. We have Been swinging for years and thought we try find some "new" faces & cocks 😉 on here. So far very disappointing dozens of messages and requests from people that don't read profiles, 😕 immediately jump to send Nudes, or please meet me privately. Come on people you're all adults get it together. Sometimes paying more attention gets better results. 😌 Motto ... READ PROFILES.

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Hi there fellow Life Stylers. We have Been swinging for years and thought we try find some "new" faces & cocks 😉 on here. So far very disappointing dozens of messages and requests from people that don't read profiles, 😕 immediately jump to send Nudes, or please meet me privately. Come on people you're all adults get it together. Sometimes paying more attention gets better results. 😌 Motto ... READ PROFILES.

Ya jumping to nudes is just bad form.

As for meeting privately, well I have had mixed experiences with my hotwifes, the one I only met and then played with on her own.

But I hope you have a better time. Lots of fun.

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i like this site, I really do but I have to say the majority of Caucasian people are killing its vibe. "Sorry we don't cross the racial barrier" Every time I see those words I'm just like  URGH, BORING. If only a small number of you didn't cross the racial barrier, it would definitely be an attraction thing but its majority of you meaning its not an attraction, your mind has been conditioned to think like that, and lot of you say "open minded" but don't cross the racial barrier, how does that work? You're not open minded if that's how you think. I'm not speaking on behalf of blacks only, I'm speaking on behalf of everyone who's a person of colour because in the end we all want the same thing, a good time, a good fuck, and an orgasm, so why not do it with everyone. Open your minds, get out of your comfort zone, explore.

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While I understand the input, at the same time, considering the demographics of the country, and how few whites there actually are making up the population of South Africa, having few people/options to play with cant really be blamed on the preferences of white people if you think about it.

Also, why the fascination with having sex with white people and being unsatisfied about not getting it, you realise you are demanding sex from people, like its your right, in a sense here complaining about this?

Just curious about this, as see it often, but yeah, why the fascination with bedding white people?

A lack of "options" isnt white peoples fault, they total less than 10% of the total population of South Africa afterall. Maybe need to looking into why the lack of numbers/interest in the lifestyle as whole from the non-white demographic instead? Look to grow community instead of blaming a minority demographic? 🤷‍♂️

Each to their own on this topic (and every other topic for that mattter) the fascinating part for me is how one never (I repeat never) reads where someone is 'complaining" about a profile (as in person/s of colour profile) that stipulates they themselves are only interested in a certain ummm boundary . . . . .

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Each to their own on this topic (and every other topic for that mattter) the fascinating part for me is how one never (I repeat never) reads where someone is 'complaining" about a profile (as in person/s of colour profile) that stipulates they themselves are only interested in a certain ummm boundary . . . . .

Same way dont see ppl complaining about couple only, or no couples, or woman only, or no single guys, or straight only, or gay only, or no bi men or, or, or.... 🤔

السلام عليكم

hope all are well ,  would it be possible for someone to add me to some muslim groups / ulama - niqabi groups

thanks

Well, here goes. Any men who wear boots and/or a uniform around?

Anyone know of a swinger/naturist friendly B&B in Harrismith area?

Does anyone know of any places in polokwane to arrange a meet up? We both can only play during the day so booking accommodation with a check in time of 14:00 is not practical