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Ok guys lets try to get a discussion going here? This may have been a discussion topic elsewhere so forgive me if it is. I will come up with another topic if so For the benefits of the newbies, the curious, the cautious, and the shy, how about you tell us in a few lines about your first group or 3 way experience?
Erm... I will tell you if it by some miracle ever happens...
My first was "planned" My first wife decided she wanted to experience another lady. We looked, found acted on. Was great fun, and I often wonder what else would have happened if we stayed together.
Far to much detail to re write here,so I am going to take a short cut and refer you guys to the story section... 4 May 2012 currently on page 35 *My first swinging encounter ...orgy really*
Our first time was a mfm threesome. Me and the missus had been talking about swinging for a while and eventually I decided to surprise her. I had been chatting to a guy online and eventually met him and discussed rules etc. one evening I drew her a romantic bath. Candles, bubble-bath sexy book to read etc. I let the guy in without her knowing and when she got out of the bath I blindfolded her and tied her to the bed. The guy came into the room and started touching her. Only after I spoke from across the room after a few minutes did she realize that it was not me, and then the real fun started wink This was one of her fantasies, so I knew she would love it. We also had safe words to stop all play if we wanted to.
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Our first time was a mfm threesome. Me and the missus had been talking about swinging for a while and eventually I decided to surprise her. I had been chatting to a guy online and eventually met him and discussed rules etc. one evening I drew her a romantic bath. Candles, bubble-bath sexy book to read etc. I let the guy in without her knowing and when she got out of the bath I blindfolded her and tied her to the bed. The guy came into the room and started touching her. Only after I spoke from across the room after a few minutes did she realize that it was not me, and then the real fun started wink This was one of her fantasies, so I knew she would love it. We also had safe words to stop all play if we wanted to.

Nice to hear a "successful" surprise encounter story. :thumbup:
Couple years ago, I was seeing a guy that told me he and his wife were swingers. He said they played seperately. But they have bfs and gfs. Then one day they asked that we get together unbeknownst to me that they were going dogging. I got the shock of my life, I had no knowledge or experience in the lifestyle. He must have seen I was uncomfy, so he took me home. Later I did my first mfm with them. Was weird but I got into it. Later on though I met another couple and that was awesome, way different-more erotic and sensual.
My first was with a buddy that i have been with for a while now, we were at a social and he suggested we take another couple back to our hotel afterwards. I had always considered myself bi-curious and my buddys standard response to me saying that was *Kat you are no more bisexual than im a female* theres nothing more i like than a good old challenge, and besides he had never seen me play with a female before redface so we all rocked back to my hotel room and had a romping good time, suffice to say he has been worshipping me ever since innocent the things i have learnt since this encounter are as follows 1. always coast - dont host - its always so embarassing having to explain the wet sheets from us squirty ladies to the hotel staff 2. always make your boundaries clear - i nearly smacked the other male in the face for trying to poke his willy in me without a condom on banghead 3. repeat encounters are far more satisfying than one-offs, once you pop you just cant stop lol