Swinging vicariously

So a lot of people ( mostly men) have approached me ( Phil) in the chat room. Asking very specific questions on how we play and who with etc. At the point of really pushing for details.

Question: is it that hard for single men to make memories of their own that you need to live vicariously through others ?

Guys if a couple wants to post details they will do so under the stories .

Details on our experiences is for us and the people we experience it with.

It just sometimes comes off as very sleazy, and my wife is a queen , my life and my love . Not sum slut that needs to be discussed as a cum rag .

This happens far too often for comfort. Unfortunately it's always the single guys. Usually in the chatroom. The way it starts... The guy will see you've been with someone in your vouches and say something like "oh you've been with xxx, how was she?". When you ignore the starter questions they usually move on to "did she suck your cock", "does she take it in the ass" etc etc etc. Then finally they move on to, "do you have any pictures of her?" Or "next time you meet can you tell me where you'll be I want to join".

Creeps me out every time...

I agree to a certain degree but I’m new to this lifestyle and still discovering what I like and something I have found is I like sharing stories about my adventures and I love hearing about others stories too. I made friends with a couple that ‘Hunt’ I have enjoyed their tales and it inspired me to try a little toe dip into hunting and it was sexy and wickedly delicious and totally not me but I thought about them and what I had learnt from them and I became someone else, someone dangerous and intriguing and it had become one of the sexiest moments of my life and it would never have happened had these random strangers I was getting to know not have shared their kinks and games with me. It was an experience I may never repeat but will remember the strong, sexy woman I became in that bar, sitting across from a stranger, running a finger down my neck, over the curve of my breast until his eyes widened and his mouth fell open. 😏 Before snapping shut, his eyes darkening wickedly as he stood up walked over to me. Grabbed my ponytail and pulling my head back while wrapping a hand around my neck and kissing me right there in public without thought for who was watching and making my whimper🥵. I hope to see her again. Not everyone is listening or asking because they are simply jerking off to it. Some are learning to find their path too. ☺️