must say as a single guy over 50 who enjoys swinging..there seems to be very little opportunity on the site...the really big problem is that im single...so any suggestions...hahaha or am i not looking hard enough especially here in cape town
Your problem, I suspect, is that while your profile is great, and inviting, you've got no pictures. .. No need to go nude. .
I never put face pics on a site. Not advisable. But you need SOME pics, especially with your extremely short description of yourself, else your chances approach zero even if you initiate contact. Not giving out my mail address on the basis of virtually nothing, nobody can expect that.