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Wow! What a start to the day. Was busy browsing the gallery this morning when lo and behold there somebody  posted a  full facial photo of my wife as his own media.  

We have been contacted by a lot of people and yes I have send the pic to some on we were chatting and getting to know .Hoping to even meet if we felt comfortable.

Anybody had this happen to them ?

Have you lodged a complaint against the person who did this to you?

Quote by redbruce
Have you lodged a complaint against the person who did this to you?

 

Yes friend and the moderators helped out very quickly.  Surprised ,shocked but in hindsight I cannot help but wonder

why post somebody else's photo as your own photo. Just dishonest and misrepresenting yourself.

Would be interesting to know if anybody else had their pics hijacked like that. Just to make clear that pic was not hijacked from the forum. I think the guy did not realise we were members here and would see the pic. 

On the subject of pics. Something funny that happens to us every now and then.  We receive our fair share of old pics. 

Some easily 15 years old but our new record has to be the guy who has pics on his profile easily more than 20 years old.

Young ,fit good looking guy etc. On his recent pic he send us is easily 20 years older. We politely declined and broke 

all contact. Delusional? Does he think we will not notice when we meet or perhaps his mirror is lying to him. Funny at the time 

for us but also one has to worry about that persons mental health. Well it is definately an adventure :-)

Sad part is this is messing it up for everyone

Well  it's never happened to us but that is one reason we dont send face pics.

So many photos on this site are clearly false.

Some insist but that ends further correspondence. 

Plus we know of a bloke who was blackmailed after sending seriously hard core photos of him showing his face.

Quote by Chappie
Well  it's never happened to us but that is one reason we dont send face pics.
So many photos on this site are clearly false.
Some insist but that ends further correspondence. 
Plus we know of a bloke who was blackmailed after sending seriously hard core photos of him showing his face.

 We on the other hand insist on a facepic before we waste time chatting,see if there is some mutual attraction first. It is only fair that we send a face pic for a face pic. We are clear in our profile about swopping facepics first. Blackmail in our circumstance would be laughable. They could splash both our faces on the front cover of the sunday times :-)

 Dick pics does nothing for us also. We more interested in the person. What irked me more is this Paul character being that dishonest.

Quote by PtaMale45
Johan54 glad you solve the problem....but it could very well turned out bad as well.
 I also do not like sending face pix...will send full body pix...naked or clothed and blurr the face to give the other party a 90% idea of what they into...but do not want to send face pix...very hi risk..
yes some couples think you bullshitter ….but what else can you do.....?

 Simple! Just do not contact the people that asks a face pic from you .

Soos ons in Afrikaans se "Hou net verby "  :-)

We are upfront in our profile about face pics. For us the face is 90% and the body 10%. 

Different strokes for different folks

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Quote by PtaMale45
Johan54 glad you solve the problem....but it could very well turned out bad as well.
 I also do not like sending face pix...will send full body pix...naked or clothed and blurr the face to give the other party a 90% idea of what they into...but do not want to send face pix...very hi risk..
yes some couples think you bullshitter ….but what else can you do.....?
 Simple! Just do not contact the people that asks a face pic from you .
Soos ons in Afrikaans se "Hou net verby "  :-)
We are upfront in our profile about face pics. For us the face is 90% and the body 10%. 
Different strokes for different folks

 100% 

This causes me to have a problem, I have a lot of full body pics (recent) on my profile. I assume these pics cannot be copied off but I should accept anything is possible. I did this because I thought it was the honest and best thing to do, no surprises. I will have to rethink my idea 

Quote by Henny55
This causes me to have a problem, I have a lot of full body pics (recent) on my profile. I assume these pics cannot be copied off but I should accept anything is possible. I did this because I thought it was the honest and best thing to do, no surprises. I will have to rethink my idea 

 Our hijacked/stolen pic was not taken from this forum as I have said in my first post. Any pic you post though can be copied and saved .

This is such an interesting topic, I have often had couples who contact me be quite reluctant to show facial photos on the Swinging Heaven platform but not so reluctant on . I have my facial photos up in this platform however, I do not have naked pictures showing my face as well. Clothed , head and shoulders would be safer I would suspect.