@Gerrie, thanks for the info.
We have just got back from a camping trip, so I haven't had a chance to read the links yet.
I wholeheartedly agree with what your quote says about state of mind!
One of the main reasons I believe I can squirt with K is because of the way he makes me feel on an emotional level.
All the previous partners put pressure on me to match their expectations of what women do in bed... which never allowed me the freedom to explore my own sexuality. That being said, I would NEVER fake pleasure. Why give someone a gold medal when they shouldn't even be a finalist in the competition!
K_ provides the safe space for me to explore my sexuality, and all of a sudden I could squirt during intercourse, and not just when I was self-pleasuring on my own.
@PIB and Kitty
You are NOT defective in any way!
Please do not compare your experiences with someone else's story. You could miss out on all the great things happening in your experience, while waiting for the mystical "something" to happen to you! You never know what those other people *me included* have not experienced, which for you may be the most natural thing in the world.
C
