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So I would like to know something from women. How do you know you about to squirt? I've heard the "you feel like you need to wee" thing, I get that. How do you let go and squirt and what is the process and the climax meant to feel like. Is there something wrong if you can't?? Lol help
Hmm, so... I will have to pay more attention later today ;) It doesn't feel like a wee at all. The sensation feels like a build up of pressure behind my clit and g spot, and when stimulated in the right way, the squirting happens smile Certain positions are better at getting me to squirt, doggy is good, so is me on top, even missionary works sometimes... The best position for me is in side scissors :twisted: It is not the same as an orgasm. My orgasms are much harder to reach. The more I squirt, the closer I get to an orgasm. ;) C
Yeah - I have to agree with C - my squirts and orgasms are completely separate and independent from each other. I don't often squirt, and it seems to me that my spot for squirting is the deepest spot towards the back of my vagina (deeper than my cervix and on the back wall. Usually only doggy style with someone long or with me in a semi standing position (like leaning forward on a high countertop), so that his head hits that back spot.
My squirting spot isn't that deep. In fact, deep penetration isn't always pleasurable for me. I need to be seriously aroused for cervical contact to be yummy. I can make myself squirt with a two fingers within less than a minute smile That is all g spot :twisted: ;) C
So after reading the above posts, is squirting and orgasming equally pleasurable?
I love squirting all over my face and body! With every lady friend I have met, there are certain "points" to pleasure intensely that will have her squirting within a minute.
No amethyst, it's not. I don't get any specific pleasure out of squirting. Except the look on his face smile
OK ok the pressure part is definitely there, but I feel it build and build up. Then ya, lol how? It is totally different feeling to orgasm. What's wrong with me? lol
So y all the fuss about squirting Lee?
@amethyst it is a turn on for a women to see her guy enjoy her pleasure. Well for me anyway. Also for me there's a lot of good pleasure when my guy does that, its weird but oh so good. Still prefer a normal mind blowing orgasm from penetration....sigh
I find squirting very pleasurable! So, there are many levels of happiness when I squirt! Also, each squirt has more pleasure than the previous one, which also helps bring me closer to orgasm smile @Softiskitty, I don't know. I don't 'relax' exactly, but rather squeeze all my vaginal muscles, which on its own increases my pleasure... ;) C
Interesting C, you see guys, we're ALL still learning smile I've only ever done it like 4 or 5 times. . So clearly there are a lot of people who have more experience than I ;)
Hell this is so embarrassing, u can't do it! Maybe there's something wrong with me. Maybe it will happen eventually like me orgasming. Couldn't before now lol I can't stop
Hmm................ I am Like the Sahara...all dried up...since birth it seems! Never squirted and never will...seems I am born with out a fountain or something..... Sad ,sad face this side of the pc...
@Sofistikitty, my apologies for posting here when you made it clear your post was for females, but I do have a squirt related question to ask. as it has been said, most woman can squirt. I have been in a situation more than once where the lady has squirted, and also where the lady could feel all the afore mentioned pressure build ups etc. (so I think I have kind of an idea) but never actually squirted. My question is, in the case of the lady getting right to the edge, but never actually going over it (ie: Squirting) what, if any, effect does this have on the ladies body? Physically. We know for a male that if he gets to the point of orgasm and then doesn't, it often leads to some kind of physical discomfort, yet for ladies who don't orgasm, it is not a physical "issue" at all. What about with "almost" squirting? Does anybody know?
@Softiskitty, like PIB1 said, not everyone can. It really doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, the fact that you are now orgasming is fantastic! Thank goodness there is more to sex than orgasms and squirting! I love the process of sex, the feelings of being stimulated, penetrated etc are all very pleasing on their own. Orgasms are great when they happen, but not a guarantee, nor are they expected... ;) C
I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...
SDMR, I don't know about there not being any effect if a woman doesn't orgasm... Perhaps you don't see a physical effect but mentally and emotionally - no orgasm for 3 days and I start unpacking my Cruella outfits... I become a MEAN bitch without regular "doing" smile No sex is one thing, but lots of sex and no orgasm that's just a recipe for disaster in my house...
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@Softiskitty, like PIB1 said, not everyone can.
It really doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, the fact that you are now orgasming is fantastic!
Thank goodness there is more to sex than orgasms and squirting! I love the process of sex, the feelings of being stimulated, penetrated etc are all very pleasing on their own. Orgasms are great when they happen, but not a guarantee, nor are they expected...
;)
C

I agree, especially with the right person. I could even just make out all night and that's just as fulfilling. The build up is awesome, when I orgasm its just the icing on the cake and a really good nights sleep haha
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SDMR, I don't know about there not being any effect if a woman doesn't orgasm... Perhaps you don't see a physical effect but mentally and emotionally - no orgasm for 3 days and I start unpacking my Cruella outfits... I become a MEAN bitch without regular "doing" smile
No sex is one thing, but lots of sex and no orgasm that's just a recipe for disaster in my house...

I get super agro too but then I usually sort myself out. Mind you, I wonder if there is an effect or a build up of something

I get super agro too but then I usually sort myself out. Mind you, I wonder if there is an effect or a build up of something
The emotional side of it I think I get (well I have experienced) I'm very curious about the physical side though . . . .
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I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...

So Stamina . . . how about a picture in the gallery of Cowgirl on the Kitchen counter then . . . . :doh::grin:
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I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...

So Stamina . . . how about a picture in the gallery of Cowgirl on the Kitchen counter then . . . . :doh::grin:
Will post it soon. Cowgirl was mostly on the nook section... Needless to say I replaced the postform tops with granite.. lol :lol: Only problem is now I have to have my back on that cold stone. :sad: ....and get wet!
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I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...

So Stamina . . . how about a picture in the gallery of Cowgirl on the Kitchen counter then . . . . :doh::grin:
Will post it soon. Cowgirl was mostly on the nook section... Needless to say I replaced the postform tops with granite.. lol :lol: Only problem is now I have to have my back on that cold stone. :sad: ....and get wet!
Heil oor naai . . . . rotflmao:rotflmao: are you ever satisfied????? :lol:
Stamina needs perfectly clean, washed sheets, with a matress protector. He probably requires his woman to lie at an angle of 45degrees south west of co ordinates.......... He reminds me of Sheldon.
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Stamina needs perfectly clean, washed sheets, with a matress protector.
He probably requires his woman to lie at an angle of 45degrees south west of co ordinates..........
He reminds me of Sheldon.

Sheldon?
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Stamina needs perfectly clean, washed sheets, with a matress protector.
He probably requires his woman to lie at an angle of 45degrees south west of co ordinates..........
He reminds me of Sheldon.

Sheldon?
From the Big Bang theory, whatever happened to spontaneity Mr Stamina
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Sheldon?

Sheldon
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I don't find "squirting" a turn on... It happens with K often (mostly cowgirl) and then I am drenched in salty fluids... and a wet couch or bed or kitchen counter or, or, or... Then I sometimes have to go down on her afterwards ( :sad: ) The things we do to please our partners...

Lol Stamina!
I have never thought about my squirting being for anyone other than myself...
I really enjoy it when it happens, and our playmates know to put down loads of towels! Ha ha
The guys seem to be really impressed with themselves if they can make me squirt, but I have never done it for them...
I find it very pleasurable, and generally, the more I squirt, the closer I am to an orgasm. So it really is about me smile
I do know that my muscles give a really good squeeze of whatever is inside me when I am about to squirt, to it is fun times for all involved :twisted:
I also never expect them to taste it afterwards. Sometimes, it tastes absolutely wonderful, and I enjoy licking it off K, and other times - especially if I am dehydrated, it really isn't pleasant ;)
;)
C
I would also like to apologise for contributing to this discussion as a male. However... I have been fortunate to have been involved with a very sexual and forthcoming woman in the past. As a man I cannot forget her squirting, unlike this thread though her climax and squirt were interlinked... And delicious (ed). On many levels. I hope to have the pleasure of being with a squirter again. Viva squirt viva.