Single males

Hi all

I'd like to ad my 10 cents' worth if I may and do so with respect.

I see all these posts from single ladies and couples who are immediately hostile towards single males. In a sense I can understand it, as I'm sure the ladies get inundated with mails.

BUT: a short and simple reply will take you 1 min. Just say: "sorry I'm not interrested" or something similar. 

A lot of profiles say they're looking for straight males; but then don't specify whether it should be a single or attached male. When you contact them, they don't have the common courtesy to respond.

YES: the ratio of males against females are hugely in favour of the ladies; BUT to all the true and genuine ladies on here: there's no need to be rude, even if you do get harrassed or inundated.

And sorry to say: I think a lot of the (female) profiles on here are either fake (as they just dissappear) pr they are on here looking for love as in aa dating site.

Well there's my bit. I'm sure I'll draw plenty of criticism but what can I say except.....shit! Fuck! Sorry!

"...And sorry to say: I think a lot of the (female) profiles on here are either fake (as they just dissappear) pr they are on here looking for love as in aa dating site..."

To be honest @wbs777, I have had that exact conversation with couples (haven't met a single lady from the site) and the whole thing that people should try respond to every mail gets near impossible when you recieve of 20 messages a day. So you eventually don't log on for a couple of days, come back and realise you have 60+ messages to respond to. It's not as easy as it sounds. So what do people expect? Since my partner and myself split profiles, I am personally happy now. She gets flooded with mail on a daily basis while I can happily browse and respond to all the small amounts of mail I get. When we shared a profile it became nearly impossible to respond to every person that sent a mail. Eventually you'll end up feeling like Swingingheaven should be sending you a paycheck by the week...

Hi, I am on site as a single female (status maried), however do in my write up explain that we play as a couple. I do however try toas politely as posible try to say "thanx but no thanx" to the single men who send messages. I they keep asking why or why don't you meet us bla.... Then I wil be rude and block since I do get "gatvol" at the single male profiles who make it soooo freaking hard for me to find one I like and hubby is comforteble letting us meet! Oh but wait those rude ones normally do not read the forums! 

i feel your pain mr wbs and this is not a new topic , the reality is we single guys are in over supply , and we get treated like those window washers at the traffic lights most of the time and i will admit some guys bring this on themselves .I have made the suggestion that the ladies modify their winks to say thank you but no thank you then all they would have to do is send a wink but as mz tanners says the rude ones dont read the forum .In saying this it still gets to me when you read  a profile and they ask that you write something original and not send them a generic wink message , and so one spends time thinking of what to say and composses a brief intro message and then bam ....no response .So we go on respecting each persons choice to talk , play chat or respond to whom they feel they want to and we gain knowledge of who they are by the choices they make .

Some couples, such as us, are simply not interested in talking or meeting with single males, only other couples. We expressed this in our profile. Despite this we would still get swamped with explicit, boring or dick pic messages from guys. That's why we made use of the best feature on this site, changing the settings to only allow messages from couples, i.e. problem solved. 

On the subject of 'SINGLE GUYS' and in the line of being 'constructive', how about making it a rule that if you are joining this site as a 'single male', your profile will only be approved if you post pics not of your very impressive dick but of yourself engaged in some form of sexual activity with another human being (note that that does exclude dogs and donkeys), I think that this would be a fair assessment of the guy's 'swinging potential' and eliminate the bulk of the basement-dwelling xbox-wankers that so pollute this site, whatcha think?

Single guys can't swing, they can only help a couple in a 3some scenario (and maybe the occasional unicorn interaction) . . .

But, can the dogs and donkeys take the photo's ?

Nope, but they can provide the applause, aarf-arf, arf-aaarf, hee-haah, heee-haw (shit is that a donkey call???) ......

Only if you are " hung " like donkey.

And don't behave like an ASS!!!! :laughabove: