Single male swingers

Hi folks. So I was really only coming here for advice after many failed attempts to get advice anywhere else. It is really rather glaringly obvious that there is quite a difference in how many guys that use SH versus girls, so in the same vein completely understandable that the “demand” for girls is much higher than for guys. 
so I’m sure you will then understand my predicament when my straight male friend who-me with I have a very comfortable plutonic relationship , suggested that we see if we can’t find an attractive hetro swinger couple to join us while he visited so that each of us could have some fun in a lifestyle fashion.  well as you can imagine the result was a resounding fail with every single one of our invitations utterly ignored, never mind declined. 

So my question is this: is there space here on SH for single male swingers or is it time for us to move on somewhere else ? 

Look forward to what anyone reading this thinks 

the biggest problem is most single guys, are here for a quick fuck, yes you get those who you want or can walk a road with to become regular playmates. thats basically how we work, we will invite you again and again if we liked you. there is a place for single guys here, for people like me who likes to see his wife in total sexual bliss. it just makes me so horny to see her in that light and of course i join. girls are much more in demand, because as they say, its the unicorn. everyone wants to fuck a single girl all the time. for some its easier to have an ffm than an mmf for obvious reason. id also rather have sex with 2 girls than 2 guys banging my wife.

Proddster, there's definitely room for single guys here...and trust me, meeting a nice respectful guy that gets swinging from a couples view point is no walk in the park. Our profile clearly states we are into meeting guys...but out of a 100 mails, 1 will be something other than a generic wink or a "Hey, does she want to fuck?" After 6 years it gets old. But keep at it...when you eventually meet a couple and you click, it makes up for the BS. 

@ Proddster..... Sorry dear, I want to say you on your own may/might get an invite by a couple someday, (hopefully) but I am sure it will never happen with your straight friend whom you have a platonic friendship with...just cause 2 single men does not make for a swinger couple!!! You will most likely find more action if you both go out and find 2 single ladies who will join the both of you in a same room situation.    NOW if you were a gay couple...who were looking to join another gay couple..I am SURE your chances will increase 89% to really experience the swinger lifestyle! OR naturally your chances will increase 99% being friends with a lady whom is willing to go with you to play with other couples, as that makes the situation more equal......

And I do believe that  if you and your male friend could go together to a swingers club where you might also find way more action than here on site, as that of a couple of single male friends, wanting to join one couple with the intention to try to SWING......it is more like a gang bang really!!!!! What you might be looking for.

As for your question as a SINGLE male having a chance here on SH...yeah sure there is a place for YOU......just make sure you read up on how to behave towards couples in the MULTI Fora`s about this topic...of being a single male.....

And ONCE again...as a SINGLE person  we can not really claim to be a SWINGER...we can just say we do like the lifestyle.