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Why does single guys still try their luck with cpls that clearly state in their profiles that they are not interested in them and when you remind them to go read the profile again you get told you are a asshole!
That would be because MOST single guys are stupid and cant read. That's why they single. lol
It's not that they can't read it's just that they don't see the reading part as a priority. .. and they have a bit of a warped idea about this being a kind of sex-for-free catalogue of chicks who are "begging for it", and married women whose husbands are somehow not able to satisfy them. They think "got dick. Will fuck" - they think having the equipment is the only requirement for the other profile to accept.
And PEOPLE ARE WEIRD.
I guess that puts them in the stupid category............. wink
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Why does single guys still try their luck with cpls that clearly state in their profiles that they are not interested in them and when you remind them to go read the profile again you get told you are a asshole!

Ok, so you have been given a few possible reasons why this happens, I would like to propose another reason why this MIGHT happen, I have copied a section of your write up from your profile which goes as follows
THIS IS FOR SINGLE GUYS!!!!
We don't play with single guys as a cpl.
So, the same not so bright single guy, may interpret that as you do in fact play alone.
Just a thought, use it, don't use it
Hey hey ... lot's of gross generalisation going on here! Not all "single" guys on here are chops.....just saying!!!!!
Sorry people al the excuses under the sun, the only thing under the sun is people and in this case singles not read any profiles at all. This forum will argue till its blue in there faces and that will not change any thing, because the culprits will not even read the questions asked in the forum. You not need Einstein to answer the question. All they think of, here is a site with girls or women, part of a couple, who will shag for free.
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Sorry people al the excuses under the sun, the only thing under the sun is people and in this case singles not read any profiles at all.
This forum will argue till its blue in there faces and that will not change any thing, because the culprits will not even read the questions asked in the forum.
You not need Einstein to answer the question.
All they think of, here is a site with girls or women, part of a couple, who will shag for free.

PIB a lot of people are guilty of not completing their profiles properly, so can understand some confusion.
Elsewhere it was said that people don't know what some of the terms mean, yet they tick the boxes, totally agreed and agree that people should find out what things mean in context. Have you noticed how many people think watersports here means swimming, sailing, sex in the pool etc. ,we've helped a few right.
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Why does single guys still try their luck with cpls that clearly state in their profiles that they are not interested in them and when you remind them to go read the profile again you get told you are a asshole!

Ok, so you have been given a few possible reasons why this happens, I would like to propose another reason why this MIGHT happen, I have copied a section of your write up from your profile which goes as follows
THIS IS FOR SINGLE GUYS!!!!
We don't play with single guys as a cpl.
So, the same not so bright single guy, may interpret that as you do in fact play alone.
Just a thought, use it, don't use it
Thanks for pointing that go change that to avoid confusion.
@ Playcouple I think you have confused me with someone else?? I have not made a comment on this fora. If you are speaking about *water-sports* I agree most people do not know the term *water-sports* but then most people are not that Kinky either,some people think that doing a Blow Job/Cunnilingus is Kinky. So I normally leave them to think that the term water-sports here, is everything from normal swimming to scuba diving.(Evil smile from me.)
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@ Playcouple
I think you have confused me with someone else?? I have not made a comment on this fora.
If you are speaking about *water-sports* I agree most people do not know the term *water-sports* but then most people are not that Kinky either,some people think that doing a Blow Job/Cunnilingus is Kinky.
So I normally leave them to think that the term water-sports here, is everything from normal swimming to scuba diving.(Evil smile from me.)

Sorry PIB multiple windows were open, and mind wandered, was meant as reply to something in another topic
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@ Playcouple
I think you have confused me with someone else?? I have not made a comment on this fora.
If you are speaking about *water-sports* I agree most people do not know the term *water-sports* but then most people are not that Kinky either,some people think that doing a Blow Job/Cunnilingus is Kinky.
So I normally leave them to think that the term water-sports here, is everything from normal swimming to scuba diving.(Evil smile from me.)

Sorry PIB multiple windows were open, and mind wandered, was meant as reply to something in another topic
mmmm, mind was wondering . . . . . :thumbup::swingingchair:
not all single guy are bad , we have had 2 very good play dates with 2 different guys on separate occasions and we will call on them again possibly , i have met and chatted to another guy and he is also on our list of guys to play with with her fantasy's i need to be very select full of who i or we invite as for me her safty is 100% first and foremost , but make no mistake there are the idiots and chancres out there , just this week i got a message form a guy "im interested can i see you private album" that was all yet he didn't even have a pic in his album , we were like WTF dude
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not all single guy are bad , we have had 2 very good play dates with 2 different guys on separate occasions and we will call on them again possibly , i have met and chatted to another guy and he is also on our list of guys to play with

yes, not all single guy's are, but unfortunately a lot of them are.
A solution maybe!! If the cpl has filled in their profile carefully and correctly and clearly stating that no single guys are to contact them...but the single guys persist. Maybe those single guys should be penalised in some way?
Can always just block them, would rather be inconvenienced by people that we blow off than scare the people that are finding their feet
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A solution maybe!!
If the cpl has filled in their profile carefully and correctly and clearly stating that no single guys are to contact them...but the single guys persist. Maybe those single guys should be penalised in some way?

Mexican Firing Squad? rotflmao
Why looking to couples for the fault not put the right wording in there adds, we work hard and cost us a lot of money. Why would we give our pride away to every single who want to shag her. We will do the same effort to find a single who deserve her.
...being one of the target group, and being perpetually lambasted for being male, single, bi, and alive... I do believe a lot of the above is true, but also single guys often use the 'shotgun' technique of attracting attention...throw out a myriad of winks, nudges and the like, in the hope of some result. Then simply forget to whom they sent them...and on trying again, the same recipient is winked or nudged...to their displeasure. Just a thought...
:small-print:Everyone seems to have their theory on this subject as to why this happens. You know what...whether you are a single guy, gal or a cpl, or any combination thereof, the bottom line is...read the profile and if you do not fit the description of what is required, don't make contact! That's how easy it is. It ain't rocket science, it's actually comprehending what you read and applying the manners your folks did or should have taught you. Eazy peazy lemon squeezy