I was wondering if any one knows if there is a signal to swingers.
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Hi Clandestine,
A long time ago I proposed that, for trying to meet up as doggers, we make use of a RED ITEM (cloth, bra, panty, scarf, shirt, whatever) hung from the interior mirror of the car, or placed prominently on the dashboard. This works for daytime "remote" encounters in public areas such as parks and carparks. Others have since proposed parking with the vehicle's park lights left on. Both of these methods seem to have been taken up and adopted by the dogging community, from the many posts that I have seen. And both seem to be working as a signal method.
Are you talking about meeting at "close quarters", as in a "secret-handshake" type of signal (like the broederbond allegedly had)? If so, think of something, and propose it here and promote it - who knows, you might just start a whole new fashion!!
Happy hunting!
A signal would be good, like an ear ring bi;s wear, you see it and you know you are in good company wether you approach or not
On the other hand this mite destroy your privacy, my wife would not like this
I've always wondered about a purple and silver ring or something along those lines
Where do you put the ring
Well the left ring finger is for marriage, why not the right ring finger for swinging commitment or the left pinky. I'm not sure since its not a thing yet.
I do believe that the red item of clothing is an event specific, dogging signal. .. pretty sure it would be wierd driving around with a red pair of panties on your rear view mirror all the time. .. and of course plenty of people already do that (have a red thing in their car) and wouldn't have the first clue that it "meant" anything. Which has so much potential for causing embarrassment ... who would even approach a person in that context?
But I've seen several articles online. Discussions in reddit and on other sites about a black ring on your right ring finger.
Then again. You won't find me wearing any Black ring. I would like to have CONTROL over who knows that about me. Where's the discretion if everyone who looks at you knows?
And tell me what would the point be? On site you can see they are swingers and what they want and more importantly what they don't want. What they are open to. What kind of pictures they put out there. .. you can KNOW something about them. Knowing that they are swingers is unhelpful if you know nothing else really. .. I mean it's not even helpful to people who don't care about the contents of profiles. .. Because you can't tell if the other person feels the same way from a ring either. More potential for massive embarrassment.
All in all. . Kinda pointless.
I have actually thought about this for a while now. Im going to design a sticker that symbolises swingers. Not too big offcource. You can put it on your car or where ever. I will do the artwork and make up the first 100 for free to the first 100 people that want one. Here's the problem. I would like to know from all of you what you think it should look like. Any suggestions?
Reasonable opinion both sides I guess, there are some asses that would probably think it is okay to grab Mrs boob whenever they see a sticker, but normal laws still apply. But for some it would probably be nice to spot a fellow swinger and smile. It was quite interesting when we went to pick n pay funny enough while back, and a certain couple passed us at the door, we watched them on main room cam the night before. Me and mrs just smiled at them and they had no clue why , dangerous but also fun in a way as well...