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Ok, so what I want to know is IF a guy buys sexy undies for his girl,
what percentage is the present for him versus for her?
I say IFcoz in my house I'm buying the undies 100% for myself
as he's got a preference for 'just skin' :twisted:
Lee, thats an interesting question...the lingerie that i bought was actually for my fun although i love bare skin as well! Fact is...it delays the sex play!
We both quite like the sexy undies on ladies... And we normally buy such items together... By the time we have chosen an item we both like, we can barely make it home to throw it on the floor! ;) C
Same with perfume, clothes etc. My lady being individualistic, picky and all, it's no use to surprise her with any of the above! The surprise come in when I "come up with the idea" to go and buy something small and have the pleasure to go up to till and pay for it while she carry on browsing! Then to go home to see and touch (and eat) some skin! Eish ..... from an uncomplicated caveman!
I would say that it's a 100% even split (yes, I know the math doesn't tie up) however, even if a male buys the undies for his lady, she will be 100% appreciative and he would be 100% rewarded. If the Lady buy's the undies herself, she is buying what makes her feel sexiest, and that makes her man very appreciative So I guess I would say that it's a pretty even share of the spoils.
I've no problem buying something I think would look good on her and feel good to the touch over certain parts of her. It need not always come off.... smile
Mr Nawty here: Actually a very interesting question as I would normally have answered without thinking and said that everything I bought for Mrs Cat was absolutely for her benefit ... how wonderfully altruistic of me!!! Hmmmmm Giving it some thought however I have to admit that absolutely every single item I have bought and will still buy for my goddess is in fact absolutely for my benefit! I completely love seeing the Mrs looking amazingly sexy!!! The interesting part of this realisation is that I am unashamedly unapologetic about it as every item I buy will in my humble opinion look awesome on her and the spinoff is that she gets to feel just that bit more sexy and her confidence gets built up .... which, apart from the obvious benefits to her own psyche, also makes her exude that inner sexiness and sensuality that I love! So ... in conclusion, I will absolutely and without any doubt continue in my utterly selfish ways lol Mrs Cat's 2c ...: Wearing the items (lingerie and outfits) he buys and knowing that he finds me sexy in them makes me feel like the sexiest woman on earth and I am a goddess......no greater gift/feeling than that of being on top of the world!