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share with us your favorite color to wear to feel sexy in, being male or female...does not matter please share. What is  the color clothes a lady or man wears, that attracts you personally?

I have found that the color red is a very primal color (the color of love, think of Valentine day).Red is mostly used by females when they feel sexy, black a near next,  white not so much as it is preceived as viginally pure. Although white in itself is very sexy to me.

Wearing sexy lingerie in the above colors makes me as a female, feel sexy although no one can see what I am wearing. If I am need a moral boost, wearing a nice color is really something I need. Not so much red as before, but really nice subdued colors lately, like a baby blue,pink,light green. BUT ....If I do open my clothing cupboard you will find mostly black and navy these days. I still retain a few sexy pieces of red. SADLY I also have to admit to my lingerie changing to be more functional than sexy!. Think of old granny beige bloomers and you have me! How sad is that?

I like men in nice jeans/leathers/ and body ink.... sexy!!! I think I always will!!! Shirt wise....a nice sexy clininging t-shirt in a color to bring out the color of their eyes, depending what the color of their eyes are. A Suit wearer, NOT so much...now what does that say about me, I wonder....
Which gives us the next question.
Do you feel more attracted to blonds with blue eyes, or a natural red head with a nice shade of green eyes, or a brunette being it a dark brown hair to black hair with a nice chocolatey brown eyes?
I like brunettes more if I am honest,  but my lovey was a natural blond with chameleon eyes...the shade changing with her mood...green to blue to gray blueish. She is now naturally grey and still sexy in my eyes!!!!  She refuses to dye her hair.  I myself like to change my hair color to the colors I  feel like at the time, usually a tint of reds browns,gold, and black mix (so kapok hoenertjie kleur).... My lovey likes the color seagreen and If you open her cupboard that is the shade of most of her clothes. She of course ROCKS her jeans!!!!!And of course NO granny Panties for her......she wore and still does high cut bikini panties.

So share your favorite color...and what attracts you to certain ladies /men that wear certain colors. And lastly but not least,  what color of hair and eyes are you attracted to the most.

someone once said to me that most blondes are not pretty...he said its the hair that you attractive to..i disagree but as it turns out blonde woman are not attracted to me at all..i like them but the feeling is not mutual hahahahah..brown hair does it for me..but i very seldom see a natural brown hair woman....i should pay more attention lol 

Well my wife likes to dress up every time she is just mad about living out her sexuality and showing of i like to buy her lingery every time we in the shops whether alone or with her i tend to have a look what will look good on my wife and she likes the sexy numbers mostly red and black we strugle to to get a soft white with a soft pink dont know why maybe we must check out some other places .And also i know she like men with tattoos not overdone and also according to her he must have a nice firm butt well for me you all know our men like it all my wife is longer than me green eyes brunette i alway tend to attract the longer ladys dont know why but i like it for me i like a lady in lingerie the legs the outfit compliment  the sexyness of the lady its super sexy .I will wear mostly a jean with nice t shirt just my style .

Red lace panties in red strappy heels open toe do it got me everyday!!! Red is the colour of lust!

@haveusbc  I believe there is beauty in EVERY person, you just have to get to know each one to find the hidden beauty!!! If I am honest I prefer my females and men, LESS beautiful!!! I find the really beautiful people who Knows they are beautiful, spoiled and superficial. I try not to waste my time with them.  But a Brunette (male or female)does catch my eye instantly. Sadly you find more bottle blonds than the real deal. As for mutual feelings  Sadly that is just life....one cannot really like every person one meets. Just as long as we respect each person we do meet.

@coupleno9  I am sure your lovey likes to get an unexpected lingerie gift. And you of course, like the modeling part of that lingerie.....

@Padda_lover   You said it...Red is and will always stay the color of lust and love.

What about black? Black leather & whips? Black dildos & latex? The colour of fetish...& perversion no disrespect intended

@Padda_lover   You should not have started me on any kind of Kink...I am relentless ....

Black is typically used to indicate SM, either a Sadist or a Masochist. At any BDSM gathering you will find the majority people will wear black! 

But colors do play a big part in any BDSM community, Most of the color art is lost thought.

I found that the latest generation op people in the BDSM community are NOT inclined to really try and  apprentice under a master/teacher. they only want to have the gratification of the here and now! Hopefully this might change.

Just to give you an idea of what colors means in the BDSM community, or should  really mean, as not many adhere to this code anymore.

WEARER..

White,  someone who is new/vanilla  and looking to find a partner maybe a to go slow.

Blue,  someone who is willing to mentor,help, teach, this is a safe elderly person.

Purple  someone who likes CP giving or receiving. (spankings)

Red  someone who bites....or really not in the mood to do any scene. Caution is needed approaching this person.

Yellow  someone who is into watersports giving or receiving.

Green  someone looking for someone to play with...usually unattached and open minded.

JUST TO name a few colors.

Please do remember, this color is displayed either wearing it as a shirt, pants, or just having a piece of cloth displayed somewhere on your body.

It is like a person having a flogger or whip hanging down as a piece of their attire. Telling everybody else at the gathering that they are a Dominant/Domina

Like a TAKEN/ATTACHED Submissive/slave wearing a collar.

Like a Dominant/Domina wearing a black leather wristband.


HOPE I have not bored you guys!!!



Found that most interesting, PiB!

Are you aware of any colour conventions for dogging? (Interestingly, I most often wear blues, greens and browns... wonder if that has any significance?)

@redbruce   Sorry no,  here I am out of my depth, Not sure there is a certain color for Dogging  Maybe a nice nude color  LMAO.

Ahem...I went a googling again.....  found the MOST interesting Item..... a nice *pasting in*   crewneck sweatshirt made up of 50% cotton/50% polyester fabric, the colors are from black, grey, heather, maroon, military, navy and white. with the next  *pasting in again* One Legging it Around I'd Rather Be Dogging.  Does that help????

Just a thought... I never heard of the colors heater and military...but looking at the pictures- heather looks like a VERY LIGHT Grey   whereas  military is the military green color.



Not bothered at all but totally enlightened & impressed with your knowledge. A rainbow community of kink behavior it seems. So much color to play with yet “colour mixing” remains a . Oh the irony!!

So it looks like "outdoor" colours work best for dogging?  Makes sense, especially if some discrete voyeurism is also involved :-)  

@Padda_lover    I learn a lot myself from the comments made here in the Fora.  How true, society determines that you can not wear red and orange together and many many more `s...Bull-shit I say, wear what you please and like!!!  

@redbruce    LOL, yeah you can really wear what you like, I would think a dark color for nightly dogging.

My comment was figurative drawing inference from the of interracial relationships in many quarters. Great forum thread PiB

PiB you may wear sexy black & red boots but my sense from this thread is you have a heart of pure gold. Lovely judgement free interactions. Thanks

@Padda_lover     Eish, Sorry I got lost, I am not very bright sometimes, though it seems the  interracial topic gets resurrected so frequently, if you go back to just last year you will find  LONG fora`s on it, as well if you scroll back 3-4 years ago might be longer, you will also find quite a few fora`s with the same topic. If you are interested.  But yeah we do sometimes forget we all bleed red, when injured.

Thanks for giving me a great compliment, me ol` heart feels good!  

@pussinboots1 - totally agree with you on the secret delight of wearing sexy lingerie - no one knows it's there under my ordinary work clothes, except me, and I love that. Back in my corporate days, I used to wear red undies on the days I knew I had to seriously kick some ass and it worked for me!

Recently upgraded from beige to lacy and colourful, and I love it. Red or black definitely, and I love the combination of cream with black (a step up from virginal white), or any colour that one loves or feels good in. For me not so much about the colour as about feeling sexy and good about myself.

@sxyfun   I just loved to read that you understand me, and you can vouch, that just by wearing sexy red lingerie, that it gave you that extra boost to kick ass. I agree you do feel so much better about yourself if you wear sexy undies.