Would you do a sensual photoshoot to share with a loved one? What ground rules would you put in place?
It depends on who takes the shoot.
Professionally it should all be done to your satisfaction and you pay when you receive the pics (disks)
Only one here is NO publicity posting of my own pics for the photographer on his website or where ever.
but both *rules* should not be needed to say to a Professional.
They already know the above and in fact will inform you about it. If you are an unknown to them and new to a shoot.
They will always ask if they wanted and might post some of your then sign a release you can not go back and accuse them of doing it against your knowledge or will.
A friend....you decide what is good and what you want to share.
Sensual pics is just that, sensual and should not be lewd or to crass.
It is there to enjoy by both of you, and makes a great gift on a special occasion.
As for what goes ...NONE, you do what you feel comfortable with.