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Quote by Slowvelder69

So true @sofistikitty, but most of these idots never have the intention of ever meeting up unfortunately 

Quote by Sofistikitty

I feel so disappointed and defeated. I just started chatting to a very hot dude, he sent me his pic on site. When we moved to , I requested other pics and BAM! So I asked who's pic was on the site, he says its him when he was younger. I'm so freaking sick and tired if people posing. And then when I ask what happened they make it look like I am shallow or aloof. 

I am a down to earth but honest person. I want a hot man (well what I find hot) because or else I don't need to fantasize I can pull any guy off the street or wherever and get with him. Then, I'd be lying to myself and faking. That's not me. I'm not asking for a super model but if I see your face and I'm not attracted I say so. Why waste anyone's time? Seriously,  to people still faking it, don't. Cause now I seem like an arrogant bitch and he's ego is hurt. Rather be honest upfront, you are someone's cup of tea and you are perfect. But please be honest don't waste someone's 're really too old to be playing catfish.

no need to bother about his ego if he was not honest upfront, dont worry about it.

Hi All, I have been here for a very long time. I have noted multiple profiles belonging to the same person / couple and how it is used to promote / vouch to get more popularity.

When being exposed, scammers try to set u up, lie and slander, put your business out there, send people to get info out of you, keep tabs on you, fabricate stuff on you and may even try to kill you. Friends and Family may get involved also. There is a gang of them that will also work together. Some will pose as really genuine, will meet you and use you to have fun in a very covert manner (you will not know what is going on behind the scenes) (Some will create a very nice image and persona. They will go to the extent of posing wealthy also 😁). They will get other people to look into your profile and report back 😁. Expect hacking and identity theft also. Your social media will be at risk. They will spy on your Facebook and invite your circle. Expect hits to be put on you also (Hush money will be paid for people to keep quiet). They will also project their wrong doing and malicious activity on you then play victim (smear campaigns 😁). They may call law enforcement for you and play victim (lie and project on you). Payments (People paid to lie) and manipulation will be done to try and make their lies seem true 😁. Consistent crowd seeking is needed for people to believe their lies and serves as a motivation for them to believe their own lies 😁. Cyber bullying is one of their tools and tactics. Tactics to knock you out, monitor and keep you quiet will be employed so they can continue their activities. Gaslighting will occur when you confront them which is used to deter you from the subject (Those involved with them will also assist to create doubt in you (they use violence and rage when they cannot get anywhere). Be wary when exposing them 🙂.

Just a thought . . .

Seeing as social media is a risky platform in general, surely one should think twice before sharing on a platform that has links to friends , family etc. . .

I agree with you, but after being aquainted they will profile you and the rest goes down.

Rental cars are used by perpetrators at times

Quote by Axxxel

When being exposed, scammers try to set u up, lie and slander, put your business out there, send people to get info out of you, keep tabs on you, fabricate stuff on you and may even try to kill you. Friends and Family may get involved also. There is a gang of them that will also work together. Some will pose as really genuine, will meet you and use you to have fun in a very covert manner (you will not know what is going on behind the scenes) (Some will create a very nice image and persona. They will go to the extent of posing wealthy also 😁). They will get other people to look into your profile and report back 😁. Expect hacking and identity theft also. Your social media will be at risk. They will spy on your Facebook and invite your circle. Expect hits to be put on you also (Hush money will be paid for people to keep quiet). They will also project their wrong doing and malicious activity on you then play victim (smear campaigns 😁). They may call law enforcement for you and play victim (lie and project on you). Payments (People paid to lie) and manipulation will be done to try and make their lies seem true 😁. Consistent crowd seeking is needed for people to believe their lies and serves as a motivation for them to believe their own lies 😁. Cyber bullying is one of their tools and tactics. Tactics to knock you out, monitor and keep you quiet will be employed so they can continue their activities. Gaslighting will occur when you confront them which is used to deter you from the subject (Those involved with them will also assist to create doubt in you (they use violence and rage when they cannot get anywhere). Be wary when exposing them 🙂.

Have you been watching too many movies? 😂

When you experience it you will know. Toxicity at its finest 🙂. You get immune to it 🙂