I find most people on this site rude. I have sent a number of messages to individuals who just dont have the balls or the manners to reply. guys there is nothing wrong in telling someone you are not interested, or your profiles dont seem to match. At least have the common decency to reply, after all, you should see it as an honour and a compliment if someone sends you a message.
just thought i would get my 2 cents worth in
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Ok Ok Ok I replying happy ? 
Just pulling your leg bru - I must say I got a few people who said thank you but no thanks but must agree mostly people not bother to reply back
Just pulling your leg bru - I must say I got a few people who said thank you but no thanks but must agree mostly people not bother to reply back I agree with you-it is because most people are on here just to look at naked pics and then bugger of-seems like nobody is seriuos!
There's two sides to this as a couple we are serious but you do not know between all these mails who the person really is and who is only here to see your private album (perv) and who as we experienced before only wants a one thing. We have a few "friends" and have been through these wasting of our time singles/couples and it's very hard with these type of profiles to really know the person you are talking to and to find out if they want a friendship (with benefits sometimes not always) or just a quicky. It went so far for us on this site that we removed pics and our description and will reply to those we think is here for the same reasons as we are.
We have found couples can become pushy and single men more relaxed but still the problem of why are you here? and why are we here? and when there's some sort of attraction from both parties then yes it could be taken further.
Small things we normally look for. 1. no dick photos - you do not need to impress the wife. only when such a photo is requested yes by all means 
2. profile description - the more information the better. 3. do not be pushy. 4. attraction to the real photos on profile.
All of that said I do agree at least reply but remember there are users not on this site everyday, we at least try to come online once a week. If possible we come online more but that's not always the case.
2. profile description - the more information the better. 3. do not be pushy. 4. attraction to the real photos on profile.
All of that said I do agree at least reply but remember there are users not on this site everyday, we at least try to come online once a week. If possible we come online more but that's not always the case. After being in this lifestyle for 5 years, all the fakes, the people who don't pitch when a date is confirmed, they are the cause of this.
If there is no profile pic or any other pics or albums, why should we bother.
If you are a single guy, or a guy playing with or wthout consent, at least show us something, write your
Profile name on a piece of paper, take a pic holding it up, place it in private albums and send an invite to the couple to view it.
This will show that you are real. We are sick of profiles that has only the basic info, take time to write about yourself,
Maybe we will then take the time to reply.
Couples are not desperate, they are willing.
There's also another side why some don't get immediate reply from us. We're new to not only the site but the lifestyle and not always sure what to answer after read email.
Myself, Mrs Nauty, mostly do the browsing and reading of mail. I then discuss the profile with hubbie first and decide if want to start correspondence or not. But I do always try my best to let some one know (as polite as can for am flattered the checked us out) if we are not intrested.
Sexpert
couldnt agree more ,i hate not getting a reply even if its stuff cool thing with this site is i can check my sent messages and see if the message i sent has been read.
