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REVENGE PORN: SCORNED EXES AND DIRTY PICTURES

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I read this during the week and thought i would share it with the other people here. Internet is a scary place at times so watch out and play safe especially with so many weird guys already here

'Oh, to be young and in love' today is far less simple than what it used to be when our parents and grandparents met. We live in a time where our every move is recorded and posted for the whole world to see – and sometimes, it may be a move intended for your significant other's eyes only. Yet somehow, your dirty picture found its way onto the Internet without your permission.
Let's face it: most break-ups are nasty (consider yourself lucky if you've managed to end a relationship amicably). Some may suggest that the best way to get over someone (and to pretend that you're fine without your ex) is to get under someone else – though judging by the nature of most rebound relationships, these are short-lived and a scorned partner might not feel like they have had their vengeance. It's usually those partners who have led to the creation of what has been called 'revenge porn'.
Revenge porn is sexually explicit media of an ex-partner distributed online in a deliberate attempt to humiliate them. These private mementos are either posted on social media platforms such as Facebook and Twitter or on porn sites that specifically cater for revenge porn, which has gained a niche of its own in the porn industry. These (mostly) amateur websites allow the anonymous submission of explicit material from just about anybody. Victims of revenge porn do not, however, remain unidentified since the ex who submits the photographs or videos often has the choice to include the name and address of the victim, as well as a direct link to the victim's Facebook or Twitter profile.

Mike-Pta.. This is scary and yeah it is always a possibility...why do you think I cut off my head in pics?? And refuse to sent pics to private mails,or phones,or do webcam play ?? I am by far to paranoid and do not trust people easily.
That's why all my public pics are blurred for my face and face pics are in another folder to my pvt photos.
Mike the other day I gotten an email about pics taken on a persons cell phone that you sent to people, or post on face book, that pics gets used by strangers who is computer fundi`s to trace your home address. Now I am even more paranoid.
It never seizes to amaze me how people still make "home video's" today. Everywhere in the news you read about celebrities home movies being "leaked" so why people think they can make a movie with their current partner / lover is very confusing. maybe making a movie with a spouse when you are in a very stable marriage is still a little risky, but to do it when you are only in a relationship is looking for trouble . . . . . PIB, they can only trace your home address from your computer IP address in the movies. wink
I get why lovers make videos I find that watching a video of myself having sex, or just pleasuring myself is a huge turn on, both for me and for K I have a feeling that the reason revenge porn exists, is because when the relationship is still good, and there is trust, all parties involved are happy for the recording to happen, that way they get to re-live the experience in the future. However, when the relationship goes sour... then those fun videos become weapons. And we all know that it is the female in the video that "gets into trouble". It's almost as if the male in the videos is a hero, or completely ignored, and the female gets all the slack. Just my 2c ;) C
Quote by SDMR
PIB, they can only trace your home address from your computer IP address in the movies. wink

Actually it is fairly simple to trace an IP address, or even a phone number.
To give a quick example:
I have been receiving unsolicited calls from a number that appears to be a landline based in Johannesburg.
Googling the phone number I was able to get an IP Address for that number.
Using a program that is free to download from the interweb, I entered the number and got a return address within a few seconds, together with a Google Maps detailed description of the address.
Seems the calls originate in Bangalore, India.
Quote by Pez
PIB, they can only trace your home address from your computer IP address in the movies. wink

Actually it is fairly simple to trace an IP address, or even a phone number.
To give a quick example:
I have been receiving unsolicited calls from a number that appears to be a landline based in Johannesburg.
Googling the phone number I was able to get an IP Address for that number.
Using a program that is free to download from the interweb, I entered the number and got a return address within a few seconds, together with a Google Maps detailed description of the address.
Seems the calls originate in Bangalore, India.
JHB to Bangalore India . . . . . . . .bolt just a few minutes away from each other :wink:
Information is actually only available when you make it available. Those that use a account are asked for a phone number for account recovery purposes, which you type in on-line with an active internet connection . . . . . . well that seems safe doesn't it?
@ Pez and SDMR GUYS, GUYS...You are both scaring me to Kingdom and Hell and back here, enough for me to change my damn info everywhere and disappear of the map....!! Remember you do have a very Paranoid LADY HERE!!!!
now i have seen i think everything Joyrider shocked
Sad part is that this is the tip of an Iceberg
OMW is it time to say Bye and disappear from me then????
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OMW is it time to say Bye and disappear from me then????

Nope, play safe and don't be an idiot on the internetz
Also try find this guy
Mike_pta.. This little guy reminds me of *georgeous* Now do not ask me why, he just does. @ georgeous hope you know I love cats!!!
Revenge porn.... just happened to a family member! Luckily her cousin saw it first and she took it down super fast!
Eish...where is the good old days of simply burning every photo you have of the person. Or throwing darts at the picture....
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Eish...where is the good old days of simply burning every photo you have of the person. Or throwing darts at the picture....

Not as much fun throwing darts at your pc
Not that I support this, personally I find it immature and pathetic. You spent how long caring for her and now your out for blood and humiliation, If she was such a bitch in the first place you wouldn't have gone out with her.

I do concur... And why have to turn a break up nasty? Simply admit it did not work, it ended and move on.
It turns nasty when one wants to break up and the other not. Me, I am a Bitch, on what I will do I never now untill I have done it. That is why I am paranoid think people are just as nasty as me. But I do not think I will post their pics....far better to make a voodoo doll of it,using their hair and nail clippings to enhance the ritual, and pop this little doll full of needles,while sipping a wine in candle light. Did I ever tell you guys about the little *doll made of panties* kept in a DARK closed box......and the lady it was suppose to be, phoned me all the way from JHB in a panic tht she can not breath, she has asthma attacks.....since I told her what I have done?? Evil laugh this side of the computer......
Don't get on PiB's list o_O
A friend just sent me this article to read: It is long, but VERY scary, considering how many times we have sent photos back and forth using emails on this site! ;) C
Why we sepperate our face pics from the others and dont show faces in naked pics. We have a friend who gets called as expert witness incases like this, he uses hacking skills to establish the trails. If your knew what can be hacked you wouldnt even bother with passwords on your xxxxmail (all yoi can think of) account. case you wonder he did it for police and at one stage worked for them, so hacking was done with required court orders. Someone said something about your up adress form finding where you are, not quite, pics cab be used to find distinguishing points in the background, from there using angle of shadow and whole lot of other snakeoil to establis h time of day and approximate location, from there its using finer things. If you have an apple product with navigation ability your location finder is never fully turned off, popular mechanics did the experiment a few years ago. So inside a sealed shipping container with lead lining is what is needed.