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If a profile says No single guys and a single guy contacts them don't expect a reply! The SH system can be set to automatically delete emails from single guys - so if your email stays unread maybe they have that set
Having said that, very few couples reply to messages from other couples. Seems that decency and courtesy goes out the window when you can hide behind an anonymous identity
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If a profile says No single guys and a single guy contacts them don't expect a reply! The SH system can be set to automatically delete emails from single guys - so if your email stays unread maybe they have that set
Having said that, very few couples reply to messages from other couples. Seems that decency and courtesy goes out the window when you can hide behind an anonymous identity
As said previously, if your profile is so far off target from want then what they want then don't expect an answer. As said in another thread of the same topic, some people cant take a simple no. We have been on swinging sites for many years and replying to people who are obviously not a match does get tedious, especially when most of the ones you say no to then go out of their way to to try and convince you that you should make an exception for them. not once or twice but days and weeks on end. Quite often they also get quite abusive. So if people don't reply, don't take it personally, it is just not meant to happen. Keep in mind that some people don't log in and reply t pm's on daily basis.
Warming the Bed
We try reply to everyone that mails us but I to be honest. Sometimes we read your message and it might take us a week to say no or maybe or whatever. Its not like couples log in at exactly the same time every single time they on the site. We need to interact with our better half. We not in this alone so decisions are never made alone. Albeit the fact that rejection is a natural part of life. Even when looking for a partner away from the site, rejection is very likely. The expectation that someone is obliged to respond is like turning to them and saying, you now live on this website and all interaction should be made through it irrespective of what you might have to do on a daily basis. So before I ramble on for too long, all I am saying is. Sometimes a someone will respond and sometimes they won't. Its all really how you deal with rejection. We all have to at some point, don't we...
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Quote by LetsPlayinCPT
Doesn't stop them checking out our profile on a daily basis
Members who browse the galleries, will show up as checking out your profile, when in fact they may only have looked at a photo that they found interesting. If you have multiple photo's on your profile, the chances are that the perusing members will "check out your profile" on various days, as and when the randomisation of the photo's circulate in the gallery.
But of course, I have little doubt that one or two members, do in fact simply open the same profile repeatedly.
