Relationship problem help please

31 Oct 2013

I explan briefly I moved to Sa From Uk 7 years ago with my SA Partner We have bought a house , 2,Childern ect But I am so unhappy and feed up with it What do I do ? If go back to uk start again I am 37 look for job ? Here I work with my partner so if I separate I would still have to look for a job this side ? Any advice out there ?

31 Oct 2013

Quote by Respect
I explan briefly
I moved to Sa From Uk 7 years ago with my SA Partner
We have bought a house , 2,Childern ect
But I am so unhappy and feed up with it
What do I do ?
If go back to uk start again I am 37 look for job ?
Here I work with my partner so if I separate I would still have to look for a job this side ?
Any advice out there ?

My ex is still my secretary and I work from home... She comes to work everyday even though she can't stand my current girlfriend. My current girlfriend also very jealous of her (to be expected) but she is the best damn personal assistant I have ever had and will not get rid of her. But business is business and we keep it all professional. So not always easy but very possible to split and still work together. It's a bit weird for about a year max then it gets easier - as long as you keep it professional... But then again, "ex-sex" is also cool now and then - he he he...
Good luck buddy - I hope it all works out for at the end.

31 Oct 2013

Quote by Stamina
I explan briefly
I moved to Sa From Uk 7 years ago with my SA Partner
We have bought a house , 2,Childern ect
But I am so unhappy and feed up with it
What do I do ?
If go back to uk start again I am 37 look for job ?
Here I work with my partner so if I separate I would still have to look for a job this side ?
Any advice out there ?

My ex is still my secretary and I work from home... She comes to work everyday even though she can't stand my current girlfriend. My current girlfriend also very jealous of her (to be expected) but she is the best damn personal assistant I have ever had and will not get rid of her. But business is business and we keep it all professional. So not always easy but very possible to split and still work together. It's a bit weird for about a year max then it gets easier - as long as you keep it professional... But then again, "ex-sex" is also cool now and then - he he he...
Good luck buddy - I hope it all works out for at the end.
Hi
Thanks for the advice but I could work with her as I know the buisness would suffer

31 Oct 2013

all i know is its not fair on either of you if you stay together for convenience .don't fear the unknown .

1 Nov 2013

Quote by Respect
I explan briefly
I moved to Sa From Uk 7 years ago with my SA Partner
We have bought a house , 2,Childern ect
But I am so unhappy and feed up with it
What do I do ?
If go back to uk start again I am 37 look for job ?
Here I work with my partner so if I separate I would still have to look for a job this side ?
Any advice out there ?

Step 1 . . ..
Find out what the "problem" actually is.
Step 2 . . . .
that all depends on what the answer to step 1 was . . . .

8 Nov 2013

Is there no way to salvage the relationship?? If not, then life is too short to spend any of it unhappy......split up and do whatever is best for you! Good Luck!

9 Nov 2013

never seek relationship advice on a forum on the internet

9 Nov 2013

Try digital romance dot com. Very good track record

10 Nov 2013

Asking for relationship help on a swingers forum is not the best place. Your profile put you as a sibgle player, so if your missus found out you were playing on the side without her permission I'm not surprised that your relationship is down the tubes....... Good luck in any case

11 Nov 2013

....... Sorry he is not in the forum today. lol