try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
see how many "long time no hear " messages you get .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
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really how popular do you think you are
Sex God
Quote by oceanlovers
try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
I think I understand where you are coming from on this Steve, and while I do not spend time in the chat-room, we have had a similar thing once or twice here in the forums, where on the very very rare occasion someone would ask, hey, where is so and so these days?
Depends on how you evaluate popularity on this site:
If you rate popularity according to how many people view your profile:
Upload a hot profile pic and view lots of other peoples profiles, they will all check it out if the pic is good.
If you rate popularity according to how many people message you: (and you exclude those generic 'hi i like yr profile's)
Upload a profile/ad that reads 'want to play with anyone, anytime, anyhow, anywhere, no precautions taken.
Or even better, if you're a single lady:
'Looking for socially awkward, sexually inept single guys to do anything they want with me' (hmm, will they get that?)
And as for popularity on the fora:
Spend as much time as possible writing irrelevant horseshit (like me) until the green stripe under your avatar gets to 'godlike'.
hope this helps:-D
That if you want to maintain your popularity on SH, follow the golden rule: Never, ever, ever, ever, in any form or shape, in any context whatsoever, no matter how tangential or irrelevant, mention the word "RESEARCH" !! Shit I just did it, the wrath of the inquisition is upon me......
Repent, repent, I wonder what they meant....
Warming the Bed
Quote by oceanlovers
try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
see how many "long time no hear " messages you get .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
try this
go into chatroom
and say helloWait for folks to say hello back
say hello back to them individually if they said hello to you
ask them how their day was
if they are on cam compliment them without being vulgar
if they reply then reply again and be cheeky
keep chatting - its a chatroom - end of, if you are expecting an instant meet or shag then go down a dingy bar somewhere
*the world of chatrooms according to Katniss* copyright 2015
Warming the Bed
oh and by the way, who give a feck about being popular, i annoy most people, im not here looking for approval from others, im just genuinely interested to chat to other people in the lifestyle and share experiences and maybe find some common ground 
Quote by katniss
try this
go into the chatroom and do nothing ,just sit there and see how many people want to talk to you ,
dont send any messages ,winks or album invites for a couple of days . just view profiles and see who makes contact .
see how many "long time no hear " messages you get .
this will tell how popular you are and if anyone realises you have gone quiet .
steve
try this
go into chatroom
and say helloWait for folks to say hello back
say hello back to them individually if they said hello to you
ask them how their day was
if they are on cam compliment them without being vulgar
if they reply then reply again and be cheeky
keep chatting - its a chatroom - end of, if you are expecting an instant meet or shag then go down a dingy bar somewhere
*the world of chatrooms according to Katniss* copyright 2015
Tis time to spank Katniss
I've just had a great chat with Oceanlovers, Now apologise otherwise you'll be spanked and punished, banished and all cream removed to ease the ink burn.
Orgasminator
Popularity is for people you have no self-confidence and believe their self worth is valued on how others value themselves.
Personally I'd rather forget about popularity and make sure I enjoy myself.
Sex God
Quote by wolfman
And as for popularity on the fora:
Spend as much time as possible writing irrelevant horseshit (like me) until the green stripe under your avatar gets to 'godlike'.
Here is some more horseshit from me . . . . (just in case the little green stripe under my avatar changes colour)
Take it from a "Green Striper" the amount of Irrelevant Horse-shit you write has zero to do with popularity, in fact, the more one writes, the less popular they are likely to become . . .
Master of Sex
I must be shit popular, oh no wait it's just cos I have a single female profile :/
Plenty sexy single girls out there, BUT none of them wear such a cool hat and few of them use vowels like you do, scary to imagine them in the throes of passion going mmm, nnn, hhh, kkk etc.
Btw, really intrigued, blonde? of mixed origin?, how's that happen?
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun
Master of Sex
Quote by wolfman
Plenty sexy single girls out there, BUT none of them wear such a cool hat and few of them use vowels like you do, scary to imagine them in the throes of passion going mmm, nnn, hhh, kkk etc.
Btw, really intrigued, blonde? of mixed origin?, how's that happen?
If you obey all the rules, you miss all the fun
Who's blonde lol I don't get that. Is my brain deteriorating?
Sexpert
Truth is im not popular but i am missed by those who count .....you know who you all are
