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Can you not SEE that this rump is the RAREST KIND??
What is wrong with your eyes man?:lol: :lol:
Whats wrong with (our) eyes???? easy, they are linked to our brains, so we stopped thinking in any form of logical sense
Warming the Bed
Quote by LeeEC
Please, please report people who misbehave like that.
If you are not sure if you should report, don't wait too long. Otherwise nothing will happened.
We had a long while ago an issue with an inividual what was under the impression, and I quote:
"....you are only here to screw the afrkaans girls." And: "..... you better go back where you come from."
Unfortunate is it a long way back to Germany and the old fart on an ego trip was not worth it.
After a long time of verbal fighting, what almost resulted in me driving to that guy and get physcally, we reported that issue.
Too bad that it was long ago when everything started and nothing was followed up. It was us what was almost banned from that side. Racial lines are not only about colour.
As advise I only can say that it is better to copy and paste any conversations of that kind in a special folder in your computer.
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I think you meant "heads" not "brains".....
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LeeEC
Heads / Brains . . . tomatoe / tomato . . . .
Boy's, did you notice LeeEC signature change ?
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Quote by SDMR
I think you meant "heads" not "brains".....
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LeeEC
Heads / Brains . . . tomatoe / tomato . . . .
Boy's, did you notice LeeEC signature change ?
Potatoe/ potato
Yes. Mmmmmmmmmm
Orgasminator
Wonder when will old farths reqonise they not always right and that is better to join the pool and stop nagging about the history.
Also put a correction under nagging on history
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WOW! we didnt realize that there was such a huge clique with the ppl on this site to deviate so far from the topic at hand...................thanks but Maybe we should have kept our mouths shut
Unfortunately you have to get used to that here. I'm afraid it's get a tad juvenile in all honesty.
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WOW! we didnt realize that there was such a huge clique with the ppl on this site to deviate so far from the topic at hand...................thanks but Maybe we should have kept our mouths shut
Ebnivry I am so glad that you brought it up!
I think it is a very important topic, and just because the thread went off topic does not mean that you did not make people think about something effects many site members! I think many white people do not realise what it is like to constantly be on the receiving end of the "don't cross the race line" comment.
I don't think anything can be fully and completely dealt with when 'left alone'. In fact, the only way to guarantee that it remains an issue for many people is to pretend that we as South Africans no longer have race issues so many years into a democracy.
I think this topic will continue to come up again and again, because people are constantly being confronted with it when trying to arrange meets on this site.
Please continue to raise issues that are important to you, and comment on other forums!
;)
C
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Quote by Ebnivry
WOW! we didnt realize that there was such a huge clique with the ppl on this site to deviate so far from the topic at hand...................thanks but Maybe we should have kept our mouths shut
@Ebnivry, firstly, if you read the forums in general, you would see that there a few people who are trying in earnest to increase the number of people who contribute to the forums, so to clear it up, we are not Clique (I assume you meant click) we are a bunch of people who are interested in learning form others and sharing information.
Secondly, you posted this topic on the 14th April and your last contribution was on the 15th April and then 11 days later, you question everyone else who made rather meaningful contributions before we all got to the point where we were all just saying the same old things that have been said over and over and over, this is because people just moan and don't contribute. I do understand your issues around race (even though I am English speaking) but the truth of the matter is, we are not going to fix our or anybodies approach to colour, language, nationality, or whatever via a sex site.
Express your racism views here when it relates to sex by all means, but surely we should all make an effort to say something original?
I encourage you to go and look at what we all contributed before we took the topic off subject.
@cuddlycouple . . . . .. ok then!
Quote by SDMR
WOW! we didnt realize that there was such a huge clique with the ppl on this site to deviate so far from the topic at hand...................thanks but Maybe we should have kept our mouths shut
@Ebnivry, firstly, if you read the forums in general, you would see that there a few people who are trying in earnest to increase the number of people who contribute to the forums, so to clear it up, we are not Clique (I assume you meant click) we are a bunch of people who are interested in learning form others and sharing information.
Secondly, you posted this topic on the 14th April and your last contribution was on the 15th April and then 11 days later, you question everyone else who made rather meaningful contributions before we all got to the point where we were all just saying the same old things that have been said over and over and over, this is because people just moan and don't contribute. I do understand your issues around race (even though I am English speaking) but the truth of the matter is, we are not going to fix our or anybodies approach to colour, language, nationality, or whatever via a sex site.
Express your racism views here when it relates to sex by all means, but surely we should all make an effort to say something original?
I encourage you to go and look at what we all contributed before we took the topic off subject.
@cuddlycouple . . . . .. ok then!
Well that's cleared that up then.
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Dear Members
Please note it is bad forum etiquette to denigrate, disparage or otherwise "put down", with mean intent, other regular, active and participating contributors on the forums. If you have a concern you may address such concerns as a polite and open commentary in a thread on the "Anything Goes" forum.
Please refrain from speaking in such a manner which indicates contempt and disrespect for any contributor on the forum - they are all real adult people and should be respected as such.
While the members using this function of the site are seldom in agreement, we all respect each other and each members right to their own opinion and point of view. Indeed even the right to have a little bit of fun - I kind of thought that was the point really- which is why we don't crack down on all the contributors every time someone dares to crack a smile.
But as has been pointed out - the subject was covered quite well (and has been in several other threads) and just because the conversation develops and changes tack over an extended period of time does not mean anyone is preventing or barring anyone else from continuing to post and contribute themselves, or indeed revive the original topic point with yet another salient point. To suggest such a thing when clearly you yourself have not made any effort to contribute further, is simply rude.
Further to that if any individual does not enjoy happy banter and fun, they are free to refrain from contributing to any thread they should deem "juvenile" and start additional and multiple threads of discussion points on subjects more to their liking and style. Where I'm sure they will attract more like-minded serious people for the type of discussion they desire.
Indeed to doll out judgement on people who are essentially a bunch of good friends having fun within a forum mechanism which is equally available to you perhaps even for the same purpose is also just rude. And smacks of playground tactics.
Those who wish to continue discussing the racial issue please do so. All other contributors, we shall excuse ourselves from this thread. If any further negative or derogatory comments are made about other contributors on this thread I will lock it.
Please note it is bad forum etiquette to denigrate, disparage or otherwise "put down", with mean intent, other regular, active and participating contributors on the forums. If you have a concern you may address such concerns as a polite and open commentary in a thread on the "Anything Goes" forum.
Please refrain from speaking in such a manner which indicates contempt and disrespect for any contributor on the forum - they are all real adult people and should be respected as such.
While the members using this function of the site are seldom in agreement, we all respect each other and each members right to their own opinion and point of view. Indeed even the right to have a little bit of fun - I kind of thought that was the point really- which is why we don't crack down on all the contributors every time someone dares to crack a smile.
But as has been pointed out - the subject was covered quite well (and has been in several other threads) and just because the conversation develops and changes tack over an extended period of time does not mean anyone is preventing or barring anyone else from continuing to post and contribute themselves, or indeed revive the original topic point with yet another salient point. To suggest such a thing when clearly you yourself have not made any effort to contribute further, is simply rude.
Further to that if any individual does not enjoy happy banter and fun, they are free to refrain from contributing to any thread they should deem "juvenile" and start additional and multiple threads of discussion points on subjects more to their liking and style. Where I'm sure they will attract more like-minded serious people for the type of discussion they desire.
Indeed to doll out judgement on people who are essentially a bunch of good friends having fun within a forum mechanism which is equally available to you perhaps even for the same purpose is also just rude. And smacks of playground tactics.
Those who wish to continue discussing the racial issue please do so. All other contributors, we shall excuse ourselves from this thread. If any further negative or derogatory comments are made about other contributors on this thread I will lock it.
Casanova
I have thought about this for a while now. I do see that there are only a few people that comment or write posts regularly on the forums. My guess would be that they are the only ones that are prepared to speak really what they either have experienced or have their own opinions on a certain subject about. I for one will acknowledge that. I like to comment because I want to hear other people's views. Not one of us are exactly the same and hene, differences. With that in mind why are there so little people that are regularly in the forums. With a site of more than 30 000 members and the record number of members online in the forums at the same time at 17 just shows how little people are intent of raising their opinions.
I for one like it when there is some deviation from the original topics as one topic or issue brings up another one and bam, different topic all together. Life is too dull and serious and if we were only allowed to be serious what or who would be left here.
We are a free country with freedom of speech yes, but this site is for swingers and swingers alike. To discuss a topic and then get childish is really not for me. So with that in mind I shall read the posts but will not contribute anymore.
I would like to appologise to everyone if I have ever offended you intentionally or unintentionally.
Casanova
With all that said I would still want to meet up with the MooPoo gang and anyone else.
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With all that said I would still want to meet up with the MooPoo gang and anyone else.
and meet we will,
Now I sincerely hope your comment about reading and no longer contributing to forum posts was directed at posts about race issues.
You have never offended anyone, and anyone who says they were offended bu anything you may have said needs to go an re-read what you wrote, because they were wrong.
Now, having said that, get back to posting comments or I will send Lee and PIB to sort you out.
Did you guys (@Stamina @Georgeous & @Gerrie) see that @LeeEC bought neon pink shoelaces? I have requested photographic evidence from @MattEC . . . I am concerned that @LeeEC might have been telling stories, and it may actually be red and not pink . . . .
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Nah,I think Lee is telling the truth, you do get neon pink shoe laces, I have a pair for many months now (bought mine at the Chinese shops)BUT I use mine not in shoes.....BUT to bind up the family jewels...alla me style........
Alla-me-style you say . . . . send us a pic then . .
this I gotta see Sex God
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Those pics are actually X-RATED and they are NOT my genitals showing...it is the gents....LMAO BUT I can sent privately if you want....
I want I want I want . . . .
Casanova
Quote by SDMR
With all that said I would still want to meet up with the MooPoo gang and anyone else.
and meet we will,
Now I sincerely hope your comment about reading and no longer contributing to forum posts was directed at posts about race issues.
You have never offended anyone, and anyone who says they were offended bu anything you may have said needs to go an re-read what you wrote, because they were wrong.
Now, having said that, get back to posting comments or I will send Lee and PIB to sort you out.
Did you guys (@Stamina @Georgeous & @Gerrie) see that @LeeEC bought neon pink shoelaces? I have requested photographic evidence from @MattEC . . . I am concerned that @LeeEC might have been telling stories, and it may actually be red and not pink . . . .
I was reffering to all forums unfortunately.
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Quote by georgeous
With all that said I would still want to meet up with the MooPoo gang and anyone else.
and meet we will,
Now I sincerely hope your comment about reading and no longer contributing to forum posts was directed at posts about race issues.
You have never offended anyone, and anyone who says they were offended bu anything you may have said needs to go an re-read what you wrote, because they were wrong.
Now, having said that, get back to posting comments or I will send Lee and PIB to sort you out.
Did you guys (@Stamina @Georgeous & @Gerrie) see that @LeeEC bought neon pink shoelaces? I have requested photographic evidence from @MattEC . . . I am concerned that @LeeEC might have been telling stories, and it may actually be red and not pink . . . .
I was reffering to all forums unfortunately.
@Georgeous, I hear your offer and hereby REJECT it.
Now get in the 6.3, go around the local lake, drink a cup of coffee and get back to normality, this is South Africa dude, if we offend anyone with things we say on the forum, then they probably will be better off for it in the years to come. There are a few people who actually don't have racial issues and you are one of them, don't let these people change your views.
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Quote by NawtyCat
We are honest on our profile and our preferences are listed, not to impress our friends or to offend anyone, but to give folks who may be interested in us an idea of what we are like and whom we are likely to be attracted to.
Race; age; smoking preferences; drinking habits; body type; sexual preferences/taboos; gender preferences; geographical area and hobbies are but a few categories which describe preferences or dislikes.
The idea is that: folk who are not likely to be attractive to us do not waste their time contacting us. Makes it easier for everyone to find their match.
Being "open-minded" should not be confused with "indifference". If one is indifferent then one is likely to have sex with anyone and everyone; however; there are those who have a "type" of person they find attractive and only want to meet and/or play with folk whom they find attractive. This does not make them not open-minded, just discerning.
Excellent response.
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Quote by markwork
does this really exist or is it borders that are built byones partner?i know a lot of male friends
who would freak if there woman tried black,yet they have!
my wife comes fro a very Afrikaans conservative background,yet she knows of 2 of her former school friends who have done it ....and loved it,
she is in her 40"s now and onlyrecently has she intimated that she is fantasizing about an interracial experience with her
very black personal trainer,i think its liberating
Wow that sounds great. Let her go for it. How you feel about it,does it turn you on thinking about it?
Forum Virgin
Quote by Ebnivry
What is a Racial line?
Does the so called racial line only count when the wives are browsing with their hubby's and when wifey disappears then the hubby's browse through the "Prohibited Profiles" on SH and send their fantacy comments, or maybe its that we want to try new things and write on our profiles " Whites only, We don't cross the racial line etc" just for our other swinging buddies not to look down on us. Come on guys being open minded is exactly that.
I agree with what you said Sandra. I've been in a few relationships and have mentioned it before to partners about crossing the racial line without success. I would love to go into an open minded relationship with a White lady who would be willing to cross the racial line and make that fantasy a reality. I have hunted on this site too to find someone like that I could chat to without luck either. So if there are really white woman out there invite me on my profile.
Ebnivry wrote:
What is a Racial line?
Does the so called racial line only count when the wives are browsing with their hubby's and when wifey disappears then the hubby's browse through the "Prohibited Profiles" on SH and send their fantacy comments, or maybe its that we want to try new things and write on our profiles " Whites only, We don't cross the racial line etc" just for our other swinging buddies not to look down on us. Come on guys being open minded is exactly that.
Ebnivry : what you asy above with regard hubby/wifey trawling and making comments when the other is away is true of some, but not everyone and is quite a childish opening comment.
You seem to confuse open minded with doing absolutely everything and anything without any regard to preferences, it also smacks of playground emotional bully tactics of the variety of 'if you like me you'll sleep with me'. If I prefer BBW's then surely I'm allowed to say that and turn away the non BBW's, or if I am only interested in slender blondes with purple highlights, the surely I can specify that?
Everyone here has the right to associate with whomever they wish and to not associate with whomsoever they wish and that is something that is lost on people who complain about the following 'we don't cross the colour line', couples that don't play with single guys, and people who don't play with people in relationships that are playing without their partners.........
Forum Virgin
Agreed SDM
