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Please don't think me weird but I have been thinking about this lately. Is a prostate massage as good as people say it is? A digit in the bum seems to be a popular adventure and I am curious about this. First ask here, maybe someone has done it. Before I ask gf to shove her traffic finger in my virgin bottom. This an adult site so I am trusting you fellow open minded folk to not think I do this but rather just wonder about it. And... From a ladies point of view, do you ladies like a digit in your bum? Do you like putting a digit in hubby's bum? Is bum play lekka or not?
SDM
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Please don't think me weird but I have been thinking about this lately.
Is a prostate massage as good as people say it is? A digit in the bum seems to be a popular adventure and I am curious about this. First ask here, maybe someone has done it. Before I ask gf to shove her traffic finger in my virgin bottom.
This an adult site so I am trusting you fellow open minded folk to not think I do this but rather just wonder about it.
And... From a ladies point of view, do you ladies like a digit in your bum? Do you like putting a digit in hubby's bum? Is bum play lekka or not?

Please don't think me weird ?????? dude, they think we are all weird already, regardless of what you are "posting" now . ..
But seriously, I am wondering about this myself, I have heard many a positive chirp about it.
Stamina, I do however think that with your "anti-bi / gay" mindset that you just may not be a candidate for this, but i am guessing the misses is in for a new experience pretty soon . . .
Unknown User
What is weird anyway???What is weird for you may not be so for me or anyone else and vice versa!!! HERE we do have *open minds* or else why be here in the first place? I am surprised at Both you gents Stamina and SDMR not having had the fun of prostate orgasms...it is the same as a lady not having had a g-spot orgasm. Prostate play need not always be a penetrative activity,it can be done from the OUTSIDE of your bottom/perineum....so you can feel safe! BUT most men loves it if you actually lightly tick/rub/tap the prostate itself going right into the anal canal. I would really say GO for it guys!!! It is awesome. As for full penetration of a dildo or butt plug, even if only a small one I would think Stamina would run a mile and think he might turn out Homosexual. I have this toy I call the *butler* it is actually a vibrator bullet on a slim bendable handle that I use for prostate play, MEN just LOVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVVve It...I promise you guys this...if I ask what toys I need bring with to a play, the butler gets mentioned first. I also would advice you guys to stretch your own anus (before starting anything near to anal play)to teach Your anus that fingers and tongues and little toys are NOT hurtful and with a slight constant pressure will *open* up as it relaxes....it sorta have a mind of its own sometimes...... If you want advice on how to...play externally or how to stretch yourself just say so I will post more info then
SDM
Sex God
ok so, so far we have an offer of advice on how to . . . . . wonder what (if any) other offers we will be getting . . . :censored:
Unknown User
Quote by SDMR
Please don't think me weird but I have been thinking about this lately.
Is a prostate massage as good as people say it is? A digit in the bum seems to be a popular adventure and I am curious about this. First ask here, maybe someone has done it. Before I ask gf to shove her traffic finger in my virgin bottom.
This an adult site so I am trusting you fellow open minded folk to not think I do this but rather just wonder about it.
And... From a ladies point of view, do you ladies like a digit in your bum? Do you like putting a digit in hubby's bum? Is bum play lekka or not?

Please don't think me weird ?????? dude, they think we are all weird already, regardless of what you are "posting" now . ..
But seriously, I am wondering about this myself, I have heard many a positive chirp about it.
Stamina, I do however think that with your "anti-bi / gay" mindset that you just may not be a candidate for this, but i am guessing the misses is in for a new experience pretty soon . . .
Whoa! Stop the bus! "Anti gay - anti bi"??? I am not anti gay or anti bi. I am not gay or bi - but definitely not anti. Now your are calling me a "gaysist"... lol Seriously though, have no problems with peoples sexual preference. Have gay friends even. Just to clear that up. Harsh man, harsh.. Lol
Unknown User
As for full penetration of a dildo or butt plug, even if only a small one I would think Stamina would run a mile and think he might turn out Homosexual. eish!! A dildo?? I think you have a point there Puss. That may be a bit too much "circumference". This is a tiny hole! Even a Zinger Wing the night before hurts like a cactus!! Lol. I was thinking more along the lines of a fizz pop stick, without the fizz pop still attached. He he he. I guess I have to "test the water" soon. I often "request" to do anal and what's good for the goose is good for the gander...
SDM
Sex God
Quote by Stamina
Please don't think me weird but I have been thinking about this lately.
Is a prostate massage as good as people say it is? A digit in the bum seems to be a popular adventure and I am curious about this. First ask here, maybe someone has done it. Before I ask gf to shove her traffic finger in my virgin bottom.
This an adult site so I am trusting you fellow open minded folk to not think I do this but rather just wonder about it.
And... From a ladies point of view, do you ladies like a digit in your bum? Do you like putting a digit in hubby's bum? Is bum play lekka or not?

Please don't think me weird ?????? dude, they think we are all weird already, regardless of what you are "posting" now . ..
But seriously, I am wondering about this myself, I have heard many a positive chirp about it.
Stamina, I do however think that with your "anti-bi / gay" mindset that you just may not be a candidate for this, but i am guessing the misses is in for a new experience pretty soon . . .
Whoa! Stop the bus! "Anti gay - anti bi"??? I am not anti gay or anti bi. I am not gay or bi - but definitely not anti. Now your are calling me a "gaysist"... lol Seriously though, have no problems with peoples sexual preference. Have gay friends even. Just to clear that up. Harsh man, harsh.. Lol
To be fair, that sentence was incomplete, it should have been more along the lines of "anti Gay / Bi behaviour" (for himself) . . .
Unknown User
That's not really much better... Now I sound "anti-autogayism"... lol
Unknown User
@ Stamina...you only would THINK of saying yes for penetration of the (How did Adonis put it)the brown bulls eye.... If it is a lollipop stick thickness..... NOW you had me laughing here, I use a WAY thicker *sound* than a Lollipop to stick into the penis little eye, when I do some sounds play in CBT. Now how in the world would you even feel a That going in into your ass?? LMAO I fully agree that if you guys ASKS to do some anal play with your ladies....THEN what is good for the goose is good for the gander yeah? I have to ensure you guys that if you get introduced into anal play gently as you would do for your ladies, you will not find it that painful or offensive. And like I said, you can do it externally as well!! Not as pleasurably as INTO but still very orgasmic.
Unknown User
Mr E allows for some anal play. Not yet had the guts to let me try the dildo we own but he has much more intence orgasms when we add a bit of p-play. I have found a gent who lets me 'peg' him (with a strap on :twisted: ) and he loves it. The key to all is as PiB said gentle introduction and taking it slow till it feels comfortable.
Unknown User
The words normaly uttered by someone I have done this to the first time is: "OMG"............... so the answer to your original question is YES, its as amazing as it is said to be. BUt it must be done right with knowledge..
Voyer1105
Orgasminator
It has never worked on me, a finger I mean, but friends who do this say that the orgasm is so much more intense Maybe I don't have a prostate
Unknown User
@ Voyer1105 Off course you have one!!! Maybe just a little hard to find. It is like my old g-spot....I think it has dried up or something.
wolfman
Sexlightened
As 'woman of my dreams' said, yes, just like the G-spot! yes, requires a little warmup/stretching at every session, start with something slender & work up (tapered toy?) yes, results in much more intense orgasms when combined with a hand/blowjob, you'll be amazed also, the sphincter is an erogenous zone in itself, you don't even have to go as far as the prostate, but you'll want to! a small enema is recommended before, pleasurable and healthy in itself, poop and sex don't mix! you may find your dick stays limp due to the shift in pleasure focus, however if your lady starts to play there after you're hard it doesn't happen. finally, if it wasn't meant to be played with, the creator wouldn't have put the prostate where he did, would he? you guys wanna know more? Nawty by nature, kinky by choice.
KC_
Master of Sex
Anal play can be great for both men and women! But as everyone else here has said, it needs to be done carefully! Personally, I can have some fantastic orgasms through anal sex, esp when it is combined with clit stimulation! As for K, he has some very intense orgasms when I insert a vibrator into his bum, and then ride him :twisted: ;) C
Unknown User
All positive feedback. Thanks all for the advice and info... I am going to do this and will inform of how it went for me. I will become one with the bum.. lol
Unknown User
@ Stamina.. Just a warning ...you or your GF who ever is going to get the BUM thingie going should know if you gonna hit someone in the face if they urinate on you...YOU MIGHT just kill someone if they poop on you by accident...... Remember to clean your bowels before hand and you do get *fleet enemas* over the counter do that a day before play (so you know you have a clean bowel)and then go to the loo before actual play yeah OR you might end up with scat playing...... And always wear a condom and let your lady wear a glove (also freely bought over the chemist counter) untill she is okay with your bowels Ermm remember farts also sometimes just happens!!!
Unknown User
Quote by Pussinboots1
@ Stamina..
Just a warning ...you or your GF who ever is going to get the BUM thingie going should know if you gonna hit someone in the face if they urinate on you...YOU MIGHT just kill someone if they poop on you by accident......
Remember to clean your bowels before hand and you do get *fleet enemas* over the counter do that a day before play (so you know you have a clean bowel)and then go to the loo before actual play yeah OR you might end up with scat playing......
And always wear a condom and let your lady wear a glove (also freely bought over the chemist counter) untill she is okay with your bowels
Ermm remember farts also sometimes just happens!!!

Thanks Puss. Will do all the above. Shopping list prepaired... Why the condom? For "smooth action" or safety? We are two years in and both have not "strayed". No disease here... She has had mine the bum once briefly so she is ready for more, it is more for me this time... Glove, ky,... And a stick to bite down on.. He he he..
Unknown User
Condoms is For safety really, urinal infections is easily obtained with anal sex. Specially if the gent likes to go from one orifice to the next with out a pause.... any gent only should go from anal to vaginal after removing the condom. Safety for Her with gloves to prevent her nails injuring you..specially the first time and if she has long may be tricky, they might feel smooth but there could be one that has a rough edge. I always also COVER any toy I use with a condom as well, but in your case where you are the only users washing the toy afterwards may be okay...BUT still, a toy condom covering a toy for me just sounds so much remember once in the bum, NOT to use it vaginally.
Aromatic_Man
Warming the Bed

I love it and most woman I have been with enjoy it too... gentle and slow is the answer though
justnaked59
Forum Virgin

Hi guys and ladies, having a sex life that has dwindled to zero with wifey i have been experimenting. Applying pressure to your anus when masturbating is a great experience, your climax experience is at a higher level. As i liked it i started inserting firstly thinner and eventually bigger items in my anus when masturbating, you wont believe how erotic this has become. Don't be scared to try it before you trash it. Its all about having a great experience and enjoying it.