Profile look at single profiles

So, I have been seeing this happen a lot ... and I really do not know if that had been discussed before ....

The question / statement is simple .. but I am sure that the answer will vary 

I am a single guy and so many times I have people looking at my profile ... I then go back to have a look at their profile and their needs are stated in bold letters and in capital letters:  

"WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SINGLE MEN AT ALL"

If you are a couple and you do this ... please explain your thoughts behind this

Some of the answers I have seen before include but is not limited to the following:

We look at your profile  as the profile picture attracted out attention

We sometimes are interested in single guys but we do not put it on our profile as we get inundated with requests 

At our discretion we will invite single guys but do not want to even put it pout there

Your thoughts?

Quote by Klaus
So, I have been seeing this happen a lot ... and I really do not know if that had been discussed before ....
The question / statement is simple .. but I am sure that the answer will vary 

I am a single guy and so many times I have people looking at my profile ... I then go back to have a look at their profile and their needs are stated in bold letters and in capital letters:  
"WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SINGLE MEN AT ALL"
If you are a couple and you do this ... please explain your thoughts behind this
Some of the answers I have seen before include but is not limited to the following:
We look at your profile  as the profile picture attracted out attention
We sometimes are interested in single guys but we do not put it on our profile as we get inundated with requests 
At our discretion we will invite single guys but do not want to even put it pout there
Your thoughts?

 Well........... we just had a look at your profile now, and we dont look for single guys. Mainly because of this forum post. We will look at single straight guys profiles, without knowing.......... specifically when the post pictures in the gallery, as we are curious. We are not closed to single guys, we will though evaluate a profile to see if the person has "advertised" them self in a way that is aligned to our wants. 99% of the time we dont see that alignment. We dont often seek single guys........ as our expereince is that regardless of what is listed on our profile, guys will not read it (sterotyping here, but a vast majority wont read it) and in turn we are subjected the rudest and crudest messages at least 40 times a day. 

Hi there Farsin

Your comment makes perfectly sense ....

In your case I looked back at your profile as well ..... 

If I look at a profile ... and see/read that they are not interested in single guys, then I will never attempt any form of dialogue as it shows that the profile is not read - I can imagine that it must be one of the most frustrating things to get any form of communication from someone that does not have the ability to read a profile all the way to the end. 

I am also sure that you have so many unsolicited mails/pictures as well - which is why so many single guy profiles are the blocked

It is however a stigma that is attached to the "good" single guys that all single guys are bad .... and sadly it puts the rest of the guys at the bitter of of the "food chain"

Be safe !

Hi Klaus...  I am not active nor part of a swinging couple. I am not sure you would like me to comment here.  BUT I have to tell you I never browse profiles.  BUT just sometimes, someone will mail me asking why I BROWSED their profile if I was not interested  in meeting nor active...It really surprised me after it happening a few times.  I then noticed that if I accidentally just high lighted a persons name  while reading their comment here in the Fora they apparently will get a notice saying I *Browsed* their profile.  I am sure it will also happen when someone  looks at the photo`s on display.

I also find it frustrating! I always follow up if anyone has looked at or liked my profile. Then when I check their profile I see they are not interested in a single male...or not in their age category. So many really exciting possibilities which cum to nought. I still enjoy the pictures though!😋😋

hate to burst your bubbles but if someone accidentally hovers their mouse over ur profile u get a notice , it has become increasingly irritating to see someone who I know I have not looked at liking the fact that we have viewed their profile.

Either its the above explanation or the site is creating false traffic.

Thank you Miss Karoo! You indeed burst my bubble.... 😂😂😂

Thanks you for all the interesting views on this 

PIB- I have met you a long time ago ... must be closed to 10 years by now and have always respected your views as an experienced person that have seen it all - I guess there is nothing wrong with browsing !

Karoocpl - I think many people press the "like" button as a pure courtesy way of expressing their  upbringing .... people are taught to say thank you when they grow up so I do not see it as making a pest of themselves other to what I mention here 

Actually not a big issue....but thanks for the feedback. Still enjoy the site.