Ok so I have a few questions to get you guys going again.
Honestly from the guys now please..
How much do you think your porn selections affect what you do in the bedroom?
Is there technique or fetish transference or do your tastes change in the bedroom because of things you might be exposed to in your porn selection?
Does the frequency of your viewing have a correlation or any relationship to your appetite int he bedroom?
Does the lack of intimacy/connection/desire/attraction portrayed in porn you watch affect your own levels in your sexual interactions?
No other guys will ever be as honest as you lot, this I know.
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Well lets see it is like went you see a new car on the road. Then the following ideas go throw a mans head. Okay my head. It looks nice, wonder is it comfortable, can I fit behind the steering wheel, does it have power when I need it and can it go now and then off road.
Short story you have to find the car you like.
Joyrider
experimenting is part of life 
Answer is yes and no. And the reason for this kind of answer is, it does not just go about me (rider) it must also go for Joy. So yes will try something and if we/I dont like it then at least we/ I can say been there did it and now moving on
Joy and Rider
Important thing is both parties must enjoy that what is been tested out!!
Orgasminator
Well sometime I get ideas but I don't really follow any normal theme with porn, it's a case where I look at the menu for something that tickles my "senses" and follow through to see where it leads. It's not quite the same randomness in real life since you don't sit down before hand and look through the internet for something interesting, though we have shared fantasies across the phone it isn't quite the same.
Saying that porn has given me ideas of what looks nice and what puts me off so it does help in that sense but also shows how much more there is to try and play with. Maybe I need to camp out at someone's place for the weekend and the 3 of us play around with some ideas for real.
From a lady's perspective.
I never used to enjoy porn. It all looked fake, as if things were done for the camera, not for pleasure.
Also, more often than not, the porn I used to find looked very much like *she* was being used as a masterbatory aid for the man/men, rather than as a sexual partner.
That being said. Once I have tried something, I like to look for porn where the people involved are doing something similar to what I enjoyed. So my actions influence my porn viewing more than the other way around.
I have found that Amateur porn, where there are more average looking bodies on screen, and where the camera doesn't pick up on everything, but it is obvious that the people involved are really enjoying themselves - that is the only kind of porn which I really enjoy watching. I guess that is why I like the cams in the chatrooms, sometimes we get lucky and there are people having sex on cam 
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C
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C I too am put off by the "fakeness" of 95% of available porn, so I tend to only look for "amateur porn", and then primarily the "voyeur" / hidden cam stuff, where what you see invariably has little detail, is often shaky, often misses out "critical moments", but at least is likely to be genuine, rather than acted.
So my "porn" viewing (because of it's restricted nature) has no impact at all on what happens in our bedroom.... It's purely to satisfy the voyeur in me.
Orgasminator
Must say we looked at porn in the beginning but see nothing we can enjoy sorry. Rather looked at cams on the site that is enjoyable because its natural
Sexpert
in my younger years porn was the beginning and the end of my sex life so yes it was a how to video , until the big day arrived and you realised that you know nothing and what you saw was all lies .At that time my sister's cosmos became my new friend and it was cool because it had just as many naked chicks as yes porn was no longer the how to video but it did serve as a the genres of porn started to evolve to include kink and 8mm cameras became a household item i realised i enjoyed the voyeurism aspect of home made porn , and i enjoyed some of the kink .the next logical step was to try it with have been ladies that have pushed some boundries for me which resulted in going to research my new found pleasures in porn ie like how to tie knots or how to make a lady squirt (thanks squirt girl ).
