People you know

12 May 2015

I have a real fetish for having encounters with people we know whether its in person or just online. So far we have been unsuccessful in finding any online already or having the open talk to find out if they like minded without risking our friendship or our family finding out. Question is has anyone had success and if so what advice can you give and if you haven't tried yet for the same reason we haven't do you have anyone you wish you could play with?

12 May 2015

I think you need to expand on your profile a bit first. I think your profile needs to stand on its own if you want to attract people worth meeting.

13 May 2015

Quote by Mike_Pta
I think you need to expand on your profile a bit first. I think your profile needs to stand on its own if you want to attract people worth meeting.

Agreed.
Profile as it is doesn't merit a second peek.

13 May 2015

Interesting take on profile, what would you recommend? But the question wasn't about attracting people on SH already but people we interact with already offline

13 May 2015

Well I believe a weak profile attracts people that aren't really interested in swinging. Basically you want at last 3 paragraphs to describe yourself and your interests. You also need to make sure you set out what you are looking for as well as your limits etc with regards to the lifestyle. Once you start chatting to people try and match interests. However I find some people prefer to stop chatting than say that they aren't interested.

14 May 2015

O my word! Now you are talking blondlovers! We have this ritual when meeting new couples, (or with existing vanilla friends). It basically goes like this-"what if they were also swingers" and we could have hours of exhilarating fun with them!? The question is, HOW do you put yourself out there, without compromising an existing vanilla relationship? Lol. It is especially frustrating (and exciting!) if we "click" with the opposite sexes of friends! We fantasize about various possible scenarios of what "could" happen! But alas it has regretfully not happened yet! Maybe one day a vanilla couple will surprise us with the words -how do you feel about swinging?-you will never know! But how to get them to admit that they are swingers? Wish we knew! On the topic of meeting people you already know on sh: THAT would be a shocker at first! But will surely get the nitty gritty of getting to know each other out of the way. Haha. If anyone has any advise on the matter please comment. We would also like to know!

14 May 2015

I've found friends on this site. Only one of them knows, and it was very much a case of "ha ha! I should have known! ", and that was that. No play or further discussion smile

15 May 2015

This is exactly how we got into this game, 9 years ago this friends of ours asked do we know what swinging is......... We said no, then they said lets show u lol

that's also the day my wife turned BI