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Ok, so NO ONE reads the forums here it seems,or comment on them. I am not going to stop posting them though. Lets chat about Penis size!!!!! Men are often worried about what their girlfriends or wives think about their so? Is it big enough? Hard enough? Curved or straight in ways that count? Does it erection last long enough for her? These are the kinds of questions I read and get asked by males day in and day out. Oh and the penis photos!! men are so proud of their cocks but will deny it vehemently. The women I talk to, however, are often looking at a bigger picture of sex. Sure, a man's penis and what he does with it plays a role in sexual satisfaction. But so does the way he touches and kisses his partner and the time he spends in bed with her making the experience last and feel good down to her core. One thing I know is that although many men and women crave more frequent intercourse, they also want more kissing. Just as in sports where it's easier to focus on one thing at a time. Try this week to make your sex life better by focusing on your kissing strategy. Many couples get stuck in kissing ruts. They kiss in the same ways and in the same places (often the lips, sometimes the neck) over and over again. But there are thousands of different ways to kiss your partner. This week, try to focus on at least 4 new kisses. Consider, for example: Kissing her/him softly on her/his eyelids while you're sitting close or laying together in bed or where ever. Kissing her/him passionately in the middle of sex, maybe just after she/he orgasms or as things are building into a wonderful frenzy. This type of kiss is faster, wetter and involves lots of tongue. Kiss her/him on her/his forehead / nose tip when you're leaving or coming back home. Hold it for a good five seconds and hug her/him a little tighter than you normally do. Kiss her/him from her/his toes all the way up to her/his inner thighs. Take your time doing so. Maybe you did this months or years ago, maybe you never have. As you travel up along her/his legs, take notice of what tickles her/him, what soothes her/him, what makes her/him sigh. It's never too late to be an amazing lover. Kiss her/his feet. Yes, her/his feet! Sit next to the sofa, rub her/his feet at some point – take one of her feet in both of your hands, warm it with your breath and then kiss her/his toes. Kiss her/his back. Before or after sex, spend time massaging her/his back (maybe you can even work out a trade). Kiss her/him all over her/his back. Use your fingers to trace letters or words in her/his back and have her/him guess what they are. Spell out what you want to do to her/him. Or that you love her/him. Or something ridiculous and silly. Kiss her/him all the way up or down her/his tailbone. Use lotion or massage oil or your bare hands. Try to work 4 new kisses into your relationship this week and see if it doesn't make you feel closer, excite or arouse her/him and, in the end, it makes for better, hotter, more wonderful sex. And walla....no more worries about penis size ever again. It is not in the size ,It is on the, how you use it...;)
Foreplay starts with a good morning kiss... lol
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I am lost. How do you go from penis size to kissing? In all honesty tho i have to agree. Kissing takes a back seat to the friendly peck way to quickly. Kissing becomes a part of the forplay to sex but in the worst way. I want to put my penis on you so here is 2 mins of kissing and vice versa. But the size of a penis does matter. You got to be honest here. Have u never taken off a guys pants and thought oh no thats to small?
Well JBHhung... I have to be honest and say OH YEAH!!!!! it happens that I wonder what the hell is *this* when I see some gents penis... I work Mostly with men, and let me tell you...there is a variety of sizes..from what I call in afrikaans from a *`n akkertjjie* to really monster cocks. But with this forum I tried to say fore play is more important than what cock sizes really is....there is where the kissing comes in...smile and then also we get so relaxed with our partners we tend to be in a comfort zone with them we know when to do what...to get the results we want...that we do not even think to try new things. Just by kissing a little *differently * than what we normally do...will spice up our lives.
Agreed 100%. Penis's as with vaginas come in all shapes sizes and even textures. Wrt kissing. A good passionate kiss goes along way to create a platform for a great time. With out a good start nothing will ever reach its true potential. Why arent people teach their kids that. Would make life so much easier.
My wife likes them thick so to her that is size and not a long broom handle
It's not the size of the tool that counts, it's how good a job you do with it........... B.
Glad this topice came up. Many women, on many sites, including this one are obsessed with looking for the hard, thickest or and longest cock. Don't really know if it is obsession or what. To me it is not the size of the tool. Its how you use it that matters. Sure a guy with a huge cock, which many ladies look for, but it does not necessarily mean that a woman or women will get satisfaction out of it. My personal okeyword is pleasure. I mean sex involves pleasing one another and reaching a sensual high. I love to pleasure a woman and I love using my tongue. The foreplay and sensual behaviour is what leads to an excellent orgasm. And it works both ways. Also be more creative and random. It heightens the pleasure. By looking for the biggest cock is not going to give you true pleasure. I am on this site to give and receive true opleasure and not to worry about the size of my penis. I had met someone on this site that kept pestering me about the size of my cock. She is part of a couple and kept on asking me what the size of my penis is? Its not nice. She even went to the extent of saying that she is looking for a penis that is larger than her husband's. That's not a good thing to do. Well enough said. I really hope that women can change their outlook on penis size and stop looking for large penis and concentrate on pleasure more. Vee.
Vee, Really?? she pestered you about your penis size??? LMAO Yeah..well size is NOT the alpha and omega...it is as you guys know..its all in the lover himself..how he touches and caresses you and makes you feel that counts(the fore play and after care) that counts...penis size is vastly overrated. If most women will just acknowledge that the vagina DEEP inside DOES not feel anything...it is the bump against the womb that some women like....some find it painful though. If you had an hysterectomy a LONG penis is also not so nice...cause you have no womb against which it can bump. The pleasure zones is actually the entrance of a vagina and just inside the vagina...it is the in and out motion that is wonderful....cause your *g-spot is also just at the entrance of your vagina. So yeah Penis SIZE does not really count!!! It is rather the girth of the penis that will be more feeling of *fullness* Do not know if the other ladies will agree though.
My wife will agree We once answered an add, the picture of his cock was impressive but when we got to bed he had a small little piepie, she would not have felt him. On the other side I met this bloke with the most amazing thick curved cock, shot his load as he entered her , got out of bed and left. He had no clue, wanted a repeat and could not understand why we did not want to see him again She also had a lover with a small thin cock but wow, was he a lover, had her cumming all the time So yes size does not count but it is still impressive especially for me when I go second and do not touch sides
I always think to myself what a wonderful thing the *body* is. For the vagina and anal canal to be stretched so BIG.... and open....to stay that way for a time,and then to be able to go back to normal afterwards!!! Well we all know we do become more stretchy when we grow older....but still the body is a great thing. Now we just need to get our boobs to stretch and then go back to perky .... LOL, sorry my weird humor on the loose again.
Luckily our views of sexy grow older with us, I love those extra bulges and saggy old breasts and you would be amazed at the number of young men that are also turned on by those saggy old tits I can think of things on men that are also sagging
Well. We all agree that penis size does not count, but the pleasure and the way you as a lover would have sex. I don't believe in a wham bam thank you maam. I love to please and be please. The more sensual the better. All the ladies that I know have loved my tool and the way I make love to them. And that makes me happy. Also I don't think a vagina should be looked at the way people look at penis size. A womans vagina is beautiful in whatever shape or size it is. The older a woman becomes, the more beautiful it looks and I appreciate it.