This site has great write-ups on swingers' clubs, and, the site also offers the service of advertising upcoming parties. We have hosts who generously give of their time, energies and data to host parties, which helps the community to grow and flourish. The hosts are involved with scheduling, organising, planning, inviting, accepting, and then, finally hosting fabulous parties.
Weeks before the scheduled party, the hosts must interact with several potential guests, answering questions as well as turning away potential party goers, in order to keep the numbers in ratio, ie. mainly the over-abundance of single males to the number of interested couples and single females. Many members express an interest, as well as those who do book, and then some bookings are eventually accepted.
Especially in these times of limits to the attendance to any gathering, imposed by lockdown procedures, these hosts must keep final numbers in mind, along with venue capacity, and the desired atmosphere outcome.
Once a booking has been approved by the hosts, it is only fair to everyone interested that the approved 'booker' attends the party, or if need be, cancels their booking to open up an attendance spot for another eager party goer.
When fifty members have been approved, why then is it only one third of the attendance list which actually pitches?
Why is it acceptable behavior to blow off the party without sending apologies?
Why is it not acceptable to place a tag on a profile, which has an approved booking, stating 'this profile is a no-show to parties'?
Too often there are laments from a segment of the site members stating 'it is so hard for single males to be accepted by the other site members.' Could this possibly be a result of the members who push to be accepted to parties, then don't have the good manners to cancel their booking, which would allow attendance to someone who would actually like to join the community, and who does have the integrity to attend parties to which they have booked.
Our generous hosts give their energies to help the community expand and gel. Clearly, two thirds do not appreciate these efforts by affording the common courtesy of canceling an approved you wish to be accepted into the community? Then please, follow through with your word, and your approved booking, or cancel that booking, and allow a serious lifestyler to enjoy the site party.
By attending a party, lifestylers get to know you are serious in being embraced by the community.
By attending a party, other members, as well as club party hosts and private party hosts, realise your attendance is an enhancement to their event, and future invites will be sure to come your way.
I am extremely grateful to these hosts for planning these lifestyle events. Thank you wonderful hosts, ladies and gents!! Party ON!!!
