Overweight swingers

yes it is about respect, manners, hygiene and personality among many other things. But right at the top of that list is a little old thing called honesty. Always best to clear up minor appearance issues right at the beginning (perhaps) 

Yes we agree totally we always send full body pics before any meet we have heard of instances where people travel far and the pics on the profile isn't the same people and that is not the way of the swingers lifestyle so yes honesty is also one of the key factors

Die beste ouens wat ons al mee gespeel het, was oorgewig en onaantreklik. Hulle gaan die ekstra myl. Ons vermy nou die "modelle".

I really don't mind overweight couples or ladies. The overweight ladies are 99% of the time more fun meaning that they are more respectfull and kind. If she is comfortable with her naked body then you as male must respect that. 

we all have our personal preference , being honest is part of respecting other people. Don't lie about who you are , that is not what swingers is all about !! Be honest and up front,  sincere with your looking, this is mainly about carnal desire and sex , this is not a site for business or church reunion. I can not drive 300 km to find that Iam not attracted to that person , that is very disappointing and a disrespect  for others time and personal preference.. 

I prefer ladies with a more fuller body then the models.

My brother loved really fat woman

Folded them double to reach

Married two of them

It is interesting that many of the comments state that they don't mind overweight or fuller bodied people, visiting places like Club Rome or any nudist resort proves the opposite.
As a guy that carries too many kilo's myself I have experienced that people will flock like bees around a honeypot when there is a twink or type person in the vicinity, they will give the overweight or fuller bodied person a glance and then ignore them.

Even though I am in the gym at least 5 times a week for workout, the belly stays put.
I wish I had the flat sculpted look that I had when I was in my 20's, but fact is that getting close to 50 the body struggles to keep up with gravity, and the extra kilo's attach themselves overnight and only a skilled surgeon with a range of sucking, cutting and pounding machinery can help improve general appearance.

Hi there I'm at 140kg (can't lose it) short and no oil panting / model, my wife on the other hand sexy tall red head at 75kg. Now it comes to sex I feel that it not fair to her that she has to be happy with having sex with me and my small dick, So we try to party and then there are many couples out there with men want her and you can see his wife does not really want you close to her so then it happens that you end up taking on single guys and sit in a chair and watch them. Not much fun but at least you have the thrill when you hear her utter those mmmmmm's and aaaaaaggg's 

But we keep playing 

Andy

Hey there, can see your pro-vlem, she's hot as hell! However I do see a way out of your dilemma, all you need to do is get her full co-operation, see! Very simple, as soon as your dick goes limp she goes into sleep mode, no matter what's happnin', see?! Whether you have a single guy, a couple or a crowd around, this needs to be the prerequisite, the 'bottom line' if you like! Unless your dick is hard, the action stops, simple, isn't it, you just need to make this clear from the get-go, not so? You wanna play with the missus, sure, just make sure I'm happy too, cause I'm the gatekeeper, the guy who opens the door, the facilitator, the director of recreational activities, need I go on? ...........

As I once commented on another ladies profile which I liked, her comeback was that I classed myself incorrectly as "large". WTF? I am way over weight for my height! ps I did lose 20kgs last year but still tipping the scale at 84, and am a shortie at