Hier krap ek seker weer 'n byenes oop maar kom ond kyk wat spring uit die bos.
Baie gesprekke in die pool sowel as mense wat whisper is die vraag al gevra watter ouderdom is nog te jong in die leefstyl. Ja wetgewing se dit is 18 jaar dan is jy 'n groot mens. Maar die vraag wat onbeantwoord bly is hoe kan mense, kom ons se 20 jaar en jonger, in so 'n leefstyl wees.
In 'n vorige debat is die leefstyl uit 'n ander hoek na gekyk maar op so 'n jong ouderdom, dalk nog nie eers getroud of in 'n werklike verhouding gewees nie, maar is in die leefstyl.
As iemand wat amper 'n jaar as 'n mod gedien het was daar en kan verseker se dit is baie meer vingers as wat ek het, huwelike en verhoudings wat hulle einde gesien het dood eenvoudig omdat die druk wat die leefstyl op 'n paar plaas net teveel was.
Hier praat ons nie eers die dodelike gogga van jaloesie en leuens wat baie keer ook die geval is.
Hoe baie keer kom jy agter dat persone toevallig na 8 uur in die oggend in die pool verskyn en hier by 5 uur weer uitlog. Dit val toevallig saam met normale werks ure maw die persoon sit by die werk en sy metgesel weet nie waarmee hy besig is nie. Hoe weet jy van hulle is baie jonk hou net die cams dit kan seker gese word van baie ouer mense ook. Maar die feit is sien mense die gevaar daarin.
Paartie,
Age is in the eye of the beholder I am 20 year old is sometimes more mature than some 60 year old.
But I do understand that it is POSSIBLE for any child to access any sex site and sit and watch what is happening there.
there I think the parents should be responsible to put a CHILD block on certain types of sites. But you know as well as I do that it is the kids teaching us oldies how to use the computer. they just override restrictions. That is one of the main REASONS I NEVER DO WEBCAM PLAY. well pics and writings is more anonymous...more safe really.
To start participating in a swing arena at an early age...debatable.
I was introduced into swing at the age of 20 and joined for all the wrong reasons.
I can tell anyone who does, it is heartbreaking and it really plays havoc with your self worth and how you work through everything..NOT easy.I tell my story in the *story section* so I AM not going to repeat it here.
Being just married or in a relationship not yet cemented in trust and love swinging can be very dangerous. as jealousy really is a very stubborn thing to let go for someone who is not a jealous type.
On the cheating front...I think the working guys who participate here during working hours needs a little stimulation to go home and enjoy his wife.
On the becoming a sex addict...people get addicted to many things...sex is only one of them...there is how ever help out there if needed.
other people may differ with my opinions.
I think I have to agree with you 100% there PIB about the kids and sex. I'm 27 now and kids of 13,14 can teach me more now about sex then what I could when I was that age. I look at you kids that I know. There parents give them a proper upbringing but its friends and today's freedom of technology that makes them rotten. I can't give a response on the swinging side because I have never done it
not sure if there can be a rule as such as it is an induvidual thing. We went to a 19th birthday party about 3 years a go at a club. Those people are still in the lifestyle and seem to be handling it very well. But some 40 year olds are battling
I think it has a lot more to do with a persons emotional maturity, personality, individual hang ups, self esteem and self image...
Age is always and only ever one factor in any debate.
I still prefer intelligent conversations ...... if the youngsters can keep up with that I will participate,
but when it comes to shagging I prefer intelligent / mature / older (married) ladies (in any order!!)
I do find myself wanting to change the age barrier especially when I get A LOT OF intelligence & maturity!
Sheesh, you women can smuggle with my ....... Ummmmmmm (what again? forgot!)
