Orgasms.

Mostly us females are guilty faking an orgasm. It is actually easy to do, all you need to do is tighten your body muscles, moan, and if you are experienced enough, tighten your vaginal muscles..and walla....  orgasm extraordinaire!!!!!  Your lover won`t expect anything is wrong!!! Or even know you did not have an orgasm at all. We do this to ,Just get it over with or Not to disappoint our new lover.

Anyway I just thought I would tell you men and some ladies who experienced an fake orgasm..or Faked an orgasm...No one should despair, it is normal to do so at certain times. Just think if you are stressed, overworked and tired, mostly it is during a new sexual interlude as we ladies sometimes feel uncertain to ask what we need to be able to orgasm, mostly it is the younger ladies problem, as we older ladies is  more secure in ourselves as a woman and our needs, thus are not shy to *direct and orchestrate* to get what we need. 

ASK for what you need to reach that nice *high* ladies, most men will not feel inferior or even insulted, how in the world would they know how to stimulate a new lover if we do not speak UP??? 

Same of course can be said to men  ASK for the right touch...direct and tell us what you need!!!

For men to fake an orgasm is little more difficult, I would think, I never saw one fake one though!!!!  BUT they do also fake an orgasm now and again. NOW do not deny this Men!!!  You know some of you did at some time or another faked an orgasm. Just tell us how you did this!!!  

Its to enjoyable to fake 

Adonis....Hello Julle 2,  hoop dit gaan goed met julle!

I do agree, if the gent and lady knows what they are doing, it is VERY enjoyable!!!

Met ons gaan dit baie goed en is bly jy is weer terug met al die kennis in die wereld, en jy deel dit graag. Gaan weer betrokke raak om te gesels in die forums want die laaste jaar of twee het hier niks aan gegaan nie.

Op jou forum die volgende kan nie glo mense fake orgasmes vir die eenvoudige rede dit is so goed soos jy lieg vir jou partner. Ons weet almal wat dit betekin in enige verhouding of dit swing, huwelik of vriende is. Altyd lekker om jou partner te bevredig, daardie kyk in die persoon se oê.

@ Adonis.  Ek sal nou nie se ek het die wereld se kennis nie, was dalk net die wereld se grootste nymphomaan!  En nou sit ek met GEEN Libido nie  DAMN!!!!!

Ek self glo meeste van die persone op sex sites en in die Lewens styl soos die, fuik nie juis orgasmes nie, maar dit gebeur tog wereld wyd.  En net nou die dag praat ek met iemand wat vertel dat hy wel so paar orgasmes gefuik het oor die jare heen...was my verbasing groot! Gewoonlik is dit meestal die dames wat die skuldiges is. Ek weet ek het ook al so paar gefuik glo my.

I for one has never faked an orgasm . Now most would go " bull shit" but it's true. I tell the fellow or girl that what they are doing is not working and move on to the next. If I don't enjoy what is happening I stop . I'm not a teacher. You either know how or you lose out

@ sexysam69   I would like to say ladies in the lifestyle tends to be more vocal towards what they need, most poor schmucks NOT in the lifestyle tends to loose out on becoming assertive to say what they need. I, in my mind, think that is why most marriages fail and there is so many *cheaters*, NOT enough communication and trust.

Could not agree more puss

Ive faked an orgasm before. Can't deny that. It's like you said pussinboots... Sometimes you're tired and the other person gets disappointed if they're not getting you there the right way. 

Shrug, no biggie for me if everyone is happy and she got hers. One just has to mimick a loud grimace and heavy breathing and boom. Well this is as long as she doesn't check the rubber of course ?

Look I can count the times it's happened though 

I too, have never faked an orgasm. My problem is usually preventing one too soon. We all have our crosses to bare!

@MedallionStallion    You, my dear, has just become my next *Hero* NO other man will EVER admit to faking an orgasm....Thank you for partaking in this Fora.

Haha it's all good @Pussinboots1 I can only speak my truth, what do I have to lose  

@bob969   And you know what to do with that (slight)*problem* in my eye.  LMAO....squeeze the *naughty* bugger!!!

I actually have a problem orgasming. Connection must be there and dude must be patient and determined lol. Also the setting like the atmosphere etc. must be right(and I don't mean romantic candle light etc) just comfortable. I never knew how it felt to orgasm. So I would fake it but I mean by moaning not tightening. And then when I explored more and knew how it felt to orgasm I would do it when with someone. But realised I'm only cheating myself. So now, I let dude know he has his work cut out for him. And that works and even seems to encourage them. Sometimes it doesn't work though and I am left wanting. So I go home and sort myself out. 

@ Sofistikitty   I do believe there must be some sort of connection with another person to REALLY enjoy and let loose, to achieve that big old *O*....  When we are young we are not as confident as we become when older, so we do not really know or believe we should ask for what we need.  Thank goodness for aging, from my side of the pc......