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one will change their minds but still keep it open and stick

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We have always said no young than 30 due to us having children that age ..but recently a young guy joined the meet and greet and seriously it changed the whole age thing ...he was very mature in his thinking and behave r and it was a new light to our of thinking .(not to say we would play )but it did change the thinking ..the age thing ...so like we say one has to always keep an open mind.......ish my mind is so open if I bend down my brains would fall out .. hope i have placed this comment in the right place
Great to hear the positive feedback.
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We have always said no young than 30 due to us having children that age ..but recently a young guy joined the meet and greet and seriously it changed the whole age thing ...he was very mature in his thinking and behave r and it was a new light to our of thinking .(not to say we would play )but it did change the thinking ..the age thing ...so like we say one has to always keep an open mind.......ish my mind is so open if I bend down my brains would fall out ..
hope i have placed this comment in the right place

Great post as Mike_Pta has stated, but sadly for me having swung for numerous years and continue. I still stick with my age limitations, yes I could be loosing out, but that's a risk I choose to take.
I have been in the swinging scene since 2003. Although in the beginning I would only meet people within a certain age I have found that it takes more than just a number to have a good time with them. Not just physically but also mentally. I have met couples over 40 and yet they so immature that my 16 year old neice would be more mature. Then I have met a couple in their early twentys that have a solid head on their shoulders and know what they want from life. I have learnt to give the benefit of the doubt and meet first.
on the other hand (Darren) we found the opposite my wife decided she wanted a MMMF one night so I invite 2 gents over very young almost my sons age and we where very disappointed they could not preform where on the chat line with the cell phones most of the time no social skills it was a disaster and the intention was for her to have good clean fun everything but don't think we will try it again
wow hehe. think i know who you are talking about (oO,) i know i'm young and still have a lot to learn. for me its more than just getting laid. for me its all about connecting and meeting new people, getting some action is an added bonus. as long as everyone is on the same "brain wave" then i really don't think age is a huge factor.
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on the other hand (Darren) we found the opposite my wife decided she wanted a MMMF one night so I invite 2 gents over very young almost my sons age and we where very disappointed they could not preform where on the chat line with the cell phones most of the time no social skills it was a disaster and the intention was for her to have good clean fun everything but don't think we will try it again

I'm sorry to hear that, I really hope in future you find a nice pair of guys.

I think connection and attraction is important but I find I prefer older mature partners over younger inexperienced ones. That said there is something sexy and exciting about a younger lover. Their stamina is impressive but viagra does that too. But honestly if a connection and attraction is felt then age is irrelevant. My sons 20 year old son smacked my ass once and sparked a flame. 🔥😏

You'd be surprised at how often people try something new and end up enjoying it more than they expected. I see it regularly with couples who don't "cross the colour line". One day they have an itch, gets scratched and then all of a sudden it's like oh I wonder why we didn't try sooner! Point is, unless you try something, you probably won't know if you actually like it or not...

I have to be honest hubby doesn't mind age but for me I prefer men over 30 when we first started in the lifestyle I played with a few younger men and dey just put me off completely

So I think the age thing comes with experience in the lifestyle but glad you had a good experience with a younger guy